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writes:So, let's say we have girl.A(her) and guy.A(totally not me)...They are teenagers in schoolGirl.A is somewhat of a sadist, and has done "bad things" to guy.A before(physically, not emotionally or anything else)for no apparent reasonGirl.A's BF has just broken up with her and she's in a lot of pain. Trying to help, guy.A talks to her. After a long, worthless conversation, she decides to hurt him again, with a blade. Guy.A being somewhat of a masochist, agrees, although very reluctantly. Something horrible happens, instead of a small cut, she makes a large, deep, scaring cut. Hours later, the teachers find out. They are sent into the principals office, guy.A decides to take the blame. The girl's parents let her off the hook, but the guy's parents don't. They lose pretty much all trust in him, and the people around him, start to despise him. Only in closest friends and the girl don't hate him. They live on for the rest of the school year without much change. The guy is trying to find out why he did what he did(take the blame). He's never liked the girl, she does like hurting him. It's getting very awkward for him. What should he do? Reply to this Question
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reader, CGL0527 +, writes (25 May 2009):
CGL0527 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Actually, he's regained his parents trust and patched things up with the girl and the others. It's just that he can't stop thinking about it. The girls has since stopped her sadism and they've tried to forget it...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): He should tell the girl that she needs to own up for what she did, having parents mistrust you is the worst thing in the world, if they can't trust him, then there will be trouble for future.
This girl seriously needs to get sorted, because if she continues to hurt people like this, she may accidentally kill someone, then that person can't take the blame. Just because she was hurt emotionally, doesn't mean she can hurt others physically.
'Guy.A' shouldn't have taken the blame anyway, because, well to be frank, it's just plain stupid. Even if he is masochistic, he shouldn't let her get away with this.
Guy.A, who totally isn't you, needs to get rid of this girl from his life, before too late.
I am 16 and I have two masochistic friends, but they only do it to themselves and their scars are small and heal before long, I tried to stop them them but I can't control what they do, but I had them both promise not to do any horrific amount of damage.
Promise you'll get Guy.A and Girl.A sorted soon, I would hate to hear that she had done it again.
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