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writes: i have a HUGE prob my bestfriend (iya) has a crush on (edward) my crush.Hi Im hazel it started like this in my school theres a new comer its edward he's sooo cute so I told my friend iya about it, then I planned to talk to edward, we hang out a little bit, go to library, go to a studyDATE, then we became friends.I told iya all about it, I told her my plans which I was about to do then she walked away at the hallway without saying a bit word. I thought shes hiding something without telling ME so I spied on her ITS LIKE A NIGHTMARE! I saw them together at the way to the lost and found section I saw iya trying to do all of my plans I didnt know she were that mean! I was soo angry few weeks like 3 weeks she apologize and tell me the truth SHE HAS A CRUSH ON EDWARD I was soo DISSAPOINTED then I always ignore edward even its hard ,WHAT NOW ,WHAT SHOULD I DO DO I HAVE TO IGNORE HIM FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE THIS STORY IS LONG BUT THANKS FOR READINGT IT
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reader, Aisha shabir +, writes (13 March 2012):
Yeah i am going through that right now, it is realy depressing but i think you should stay friends with iya becuase if shes a good friend of yours,hold on to her tight because there are'nt many out there!And about Edward.... Give him time,becuase if u forget about him and next day he broke up with iya u might not want him any more and then next u do but he got some one else.Goodluck.
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reader, Lina319 +, writes (25 May 2009):
For one, forget about Edward, if he was interested in you, he would pursue YOU not your best friend. As for your best friend, I don't think she is one. If she had a crush on him, or was interested in him after finding out that you too had a crush on him, she could have easily told you, instead she went behind your back and took your techniques in pursuing Edward. I would say to just forget about both of them. You don't necessarily have to avoid them, you can remain friends with Iya, but slowly start to distance yourself from her, as for Edward, say hello and have casual convo, if its too hard to just ignore. Or if you're just curious go and ask Edward where you two stand, and if he has developed feelings for Iya. Then go from there.
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