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*adHatter214
writes:My ex boyfriend and I were together for a year and a half the first time. We broke up, he got a new girlfriend 3 days later, I knew that she was just a rebound. Well they broke up after 7 months because she didn't want to be with him anymore and him and I started dating again, well he started talking marriage, kids, the whole nine yards. I was only nineteen at the time so I freaked out, the most that we had done was talk about living together, well I broke up with him and then a couple weeks later he got back with the same girl as he had before. Well a month later they moved in together, the same apartment complex and the same apartment everything. Well how long do you think that it is going to last the second time? Does it just sound like revenge? I'm so confused.Thanks
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (22 May 2009):
 i don't see it as revenge
he obviously knows what he wants in life and that he wants to marry and settle down with a family which is refreshing i mean he got with that girl pretty quick so i mean may not last that long but maybe it'll last for a long time.
you can't really tell but i mean they moved in together and everything pretty quick so maybe they won't be able to stand eachother in the same house who knows only time can tell.
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reader, sugar_sugar +, writes (22 May 2009):
 It doesn't sound like revenge to me, he was with her for 7 months so there must be a little more to it than revenge.It seems as though he's focusing more on the destination than on the journey. He wants marriage, kids, all of those things on the stereotypical checklist of life and it looks like he's not being especially picky about who he achieves those with.I don't mean that as a personal insult against you by any means, just the fact that he suggested all of those things to you after a short period of time, and then a month later has apparently done the same to another girl.It seems like he needs to grow up and be a little more discerning in his choices. It's hard to say how long it will last the second time, but I would say based on how rushed and unconsidered the relationship is it doesn't have the greatest chances.
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