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writes:Help! I've been talking to this wonderful guy from the UK who im falling in love with.. the problem is i live in the US! he really likes me a lot as well, but im not sure if he's really falling for me yet. there is a 5hr time difference and he does make an effort to talk to me for a few hours in the day but... some days he doesn't say anything. he's really busy sometimes, i understand this. but I really really want this to turn into a romantic relationship. and i dont want to lose him. i guess my question is, in your opinion how could i suggest to him that we have a long distance relationship or even bring it up? cause im not sure if he believes in that sort of thing, but this is pretty bad how much I feel for him. i just don't want him to get bored of me, or move on.. lose touch, ect.he flirts with me all the time and tells me constantly how great i am and how beautiful. he always talks about how he wishes we lived closer. and all this.I just want some advice that i could say to him!??something that wont freak him out. cause all i want to do is tell him how much im in love with him and want to move to the UK asap! lol...additional info.. im 19 almost 20 and hes turning 23 soon. were both cancer signs and have a lot in common.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionahh yess we talk about it alot.its just like w'eve havent been talking for too long. idk. i guess i'm just gonna see how this goes. we seem so perfect for each other. like soul mates who just happened to be born somewhere else. and it sucks. haha.
but i really wouldn't mind visiting but moving is something crazy to think about right now even though i have thought about it. and he's told me that he wants to live in u.s oneday hes already planned it. but he doesn't know when that would be, cause he has a good job there at the moment. were not totally serious about the subject right now, i just want him to know how much i love the idea of meeting oneday.but not to freak him out too much. =/
and really i just want to find out what he thinks about long distance relationships like i want to know if he'd be only mine like a dating thing. cause i dont want to lose him. i just dont know how to say it or bring it up.
gahh i'll be fine, i just am scared to ask.....
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