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female
age
36-40,
*avhez
writes:my problem is i like this guy i'm sort of seeing we text, talk, hang out all the time, we kiss and well do everything a normal boyfriend and girlfriend would doso the problem is we aren't bf and gf, and i want to be. I have in the past when u upset me that i dont want a boyfriend and i do sumtime refer to other guys to see if he gets jealous which he does, but he does the same and yet we still hide our feelingsI knew he liked me alot at first but i had to tell him i was movin to uni in sept, which is like 5 hours away from him. now we are constantly on and off wiv very mixed signals, like he would say i can't get anymore attached to u and hurt me so we wud av like a 2 hour fight then we wud jus continue like he never sed anything.all this is starting to effect me tho because sumtimes i think to stop it and wait until i go to uni and met sum1 else, but i like him and haven;t liked any1 in a long time because of a past abusive relationship.I think i want him to be honest about his feelings towards me so that i can either find a solution for us or walk away for it.I suppose i want to know whats goin on in his head.thanks for the help
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): He's probably being realistic that both of you are young and will meet new people being so far apart. He probably really likes hanging out with you but I don't think he wants to make any kind of commitment or relationship out of it. Enjoy the time you have with each other!
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