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Archived questions from: 18 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I feel trapped and attached with this married man, how do I get out of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been in a relationship with a married man going on 6 years I always hoped that we would become a permanent relationship. I gave this man my heart and soul and just knew that one day we would go further as being a couple and that he was ...

Is it asking too much that he should stop paying her stuff altogether and help me if he lives with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend lives with me and is recently divorced. He pays out quite a bit so I haven't asked him for money to live there. It's been 3.5 months and he hasn't chipped in for anything. He has no kids with his ex and she works full time and he ...

I am getting to the point where I can't stand my sister.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I am getting to the point where I can't stand my sister. Absolutely everything I say seems to be a trigger for her to compete to the point that I've almost given up talking when she is around. For example, the other day I happened to mention to my ...

The romance rut!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I feel that me and my boyfriend of over a year have fallen into a romance rut. I want to try something that will really wow him and hopefully spark something inside of him to make him show more affection. Any suggestions?? ...

I'm too overprotective of my girlfriend, but I'm willing to change - please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - Well this is the first time iv wrote on this forum so please be nice. There is a long background story to this so please be patient... We are both 18 and iv been with my girlfriend a couple of months now (officially) however we ...

Lost my girlfriend, lost my whole world... what am I to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - sorry in advance for the poor spelling ,puncuation and length.i have been with my girlfriend for almost 7 yrs now.we fell madly in love at first sight when introduced by mutual friends.she was divorced with 2 kids .i tried all i can do to be ...

What's going on in his head? I need advice

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I started dating my first boyfriend a month ago.I am just turning 18 and he is about to turn 19. He spoils me,and takes me out to nice restaraunts,and I lost my virginity to him acouple weeks ago. eveybody thinks he is my prince charming including ...

I sent her an email I regret, its been downhill ever since, can I make things right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - I really need some advice. There is a incredible woman I've been in love with for some time now. We've seen each other for about a year, but these feelings didn't begin till last summer. She's the type of woman I think I would do almost anything ...

She doesn't trust me since I lied about watching porn, how can I make it right?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. I'm a male, 20 years old. I need some serious help. I've been with my girlfriend (we got engaged recently) for almost 3.5 years now, and we have had a great relationship. I love her to death, she loves me, and everything was fine until ...

Why did I say no when I wanted to say yes to his proposal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and he recently asked me to marry him. He is the most wonderful man I could ever have asked for, but for some reason, even though my head and heart wanted to say yes, I said no. I've broken his heart and ...

How can I stop getting so angry at him when I'm out drinking with friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I have a problem that's really starting to get to me. I'm 19 years old and been with my boyfriend (22) for 7 months now. We have a great relationship, very caring, loving, trusting etc, however our only problem is when I go out drinking... If I'm...

I am presently in a relationship however I am interested in another guy... what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5747 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - hey I am presently in a relationship however I am interested in another guy who in many ways I think is the one for me since he fills many gaps that my boyfriend doesn't. I love my guy but I am also in love with the other. how do I move on. Plea...

How do I get this girl to lay off my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm 13 and I live in the nice part of Kent. I'm really stuck at the moment because I have a really nice boyfriend, and we used to share everything, except now I have a problem - my best friend, who went out with him in year 7 is being a ...

Can she keep using the kids against him to make sure we stay apart or could we be together and him still see his kids???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I am a 19 year old girl and I was seeing a man of 33. We have known each other for nearly 5 years but we were only seeing one another for about a year and a half 2 years. When we first got together he had a girlfriend which I knew about and two kids ...

He finds it so difficult to move out because of the children...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Myself and someone I work with fell in love with each other about 5/6 months ago... we both told each other and things progressed in to a "love affair". There was one problem though. I had a boyfriend, who I ended with because I had no feelings for ...

If he was so unhappy why did he spend so much time with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - help, i feel so confused. I have been with my boyfriend a total of 7.5 years, the first few years of our relationship were good although he was quite jealous and parnoid. 4.5 years in, we split up because he wasn't sure about us and had died his...

How can he just move away with no strings attached?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - We were together since i was 14. I lost my virginity to him at 25 (he is the only guy i've ever slept with), only because he pledged to my mum that we were going to be married. I'm 33 this year, we're still not married. He never has conversations ...

How can I fix the relationship & make him see what he wants?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - hi, im 16 and female. i was pregnant 4 months ago but i had a still birth i developed an eating disorder the only thing i cling to is my beloved boyfriend weve been together 2 years and he asked me to marry him on valentines day. i know were ...

Marriage before I go away to the navy??? Or not...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend says that he wants to marry before I go into the NAVY and that this is our engagement stage.... oh yeah we have been dating for 7 months... but any how when I tell our mutural friends he comes back and asks me why did I tell them that ...

Is it normal that he wasn't bothered by seeing me kiss another guy? Which I do NOT remember doing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend I went to NY for valentine day. After meeting with friends and having some drinks we ended up at the club where we got more drinks. After several more I got black out. My boyfirend told me next morning that I was making out with some ...

I'm confused between friendship and love....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - Last year I started loving a girl whom I have been knowing from the past 3 years. She has been a very close friend of mine. I always admired her and also told her that I like her the way she looks and etc. We have even gone very close and have been ...

My boyfriend says he doesn't know how he feels about me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Right, some background. My boyfriend and I met through a friend. We had flirted on a few nights out and ended up kissing at a party a couple of weeks back. The next day, we had a long chat, and we have been talking every day since, and seeing each ...

Could helping his wife make me more appealing to him? Men's opinions please.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - A MAN's ANSWER woudl be great here. Thanks. Last summer I had an emotional affair with a guy from work and I worked through it while on break from the job. I have returned and in seeing eachother there is no doubt that we missed eachother as we ...

My abusive relationship is now over, but I'm wondering if I've become an abuser myself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5747 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - This is going to sound so strange, but I have been in and emotionally and verbally abusive relationship for 3 years and I finally told him to get help or leave, he denied he had a problem and left saying I kicked him out. I have decided to get ...

Do even the sweetest guys still play mind games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - My ex and I split up 5 weeks ago as a family member didn't agree, his family. We are both in our twenties but he still studies and I'm a single parent, A week after he ended our great relationship he made contact, stating we should remain buddies....

I am leaving in 3 months. Is opening up worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

18 February 2009 (?) - Hello, Ok. the problem is simple. I miss my ex, but I do not love him, if it makes sense. I miss our moments and I wish me and my bf had those momenst too. (we've been together for almost 4 months) not exactly the same, but that things were similar....

I've cheated on her 3 times, now she said she needs space! How can I rectify this problem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend says she needs space from me, because I cheated numerous times and she took me back every time (cheated about 3x). The last time I got caught she saw me in pictures with the other lady, she forgave me and gave me another chance and ...

I'm not IN LOVE with him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Hey guys and girls. Here's the thing - and it's a pretty big thing to me so need some help! Been with my fella for 3 and a half years. I know that I love him. We get on amazingly and are really similar, have a laugh etc and understand one another. ...

Should I move on... or get even???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I recently meet a younger guy, I thought he liked me but it turns out he has numerous partners and is now using his new partners to make me jealous. What should I do? I am absolutely gutted about this. Shall I move on or get even?? ...

She's very sick, and pushing me away.... What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - I have been with Jenn for 8 months, we were friends for a few months before that. I am a songwriter in Nashville, and she lives in North Carolina. Jenn has severe lupus, and is in pain a lot of time. She is only 26, and it kills me to know how badly ...