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Archived questions from: 20 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Did his feelings change in just a week?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - my and my fience have been together 3 years in march. were only 20 years old and still quiet young. ive been really ill for over a week now and i havent seen my fience alot only like once or twice,hes been really distant and strange and i kn...

I was picking myself up but now its back to a broken heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - He accused me Of cheating when I wasn’t.. he didn’t contact me till 2 months and I told him 2 call me back cos I was out.. he called me back and asked about my BF and said I don’t know and he said he's not trying to get into my knickers he was just ...

I'm too possessive and jealous, how can I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I think i am a possessive and a very jealous person. Actually my boyfriend keeps telling me that..i know he is right.i am 23 and he is 35..i dont know..but it never happened to me before,each call which he has,each conversation with a woman is drive ...

I can't think of a future without him but I don't want this life I have at the moment.

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20 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 years but we have known/been aware of each other for around 11 years through our daughters. When we first got together it was an instant physical attraction. We both have children from previous ...

The antidepressants and alcohol problem are taking a toll on our sex life.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - My gf and I have been together for 7 years, and our sex life has been a problem for me most of that time. When we met, we were both very sexual people, which was one of the things I was attracted to about her. Over the years she has taken ...

I've kept my cheating a secret, but it's killing me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months and we are soo close. Ive never felt so strongly towards someone and i'm extremely glad i'm with him. And he tells me he feels the same. But ages ago, when me and him were together for about 4 months, I ...

I want to be with him, but I don't want to sit around and wait 'til he's available!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Hi im in need of advice,no matter what it is, i would really appreciate anything you can give me as im pretty confused right now! It sounds pretty strange i know but a guy i met about 6 weeks ago is like my best friend, but we have sex, and he...

I haven't heard from my fiance in 4 days and I'm worried!!

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20 February 2009 (F) - Need advice. My fiance was layed off from work and has had some difficulty finding a job where we live due to the economy here. The financial stress caused a lot of strain in our relationship. We have an infant son together and I have a son from a ...

I need to stop feeling like this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - i've got to a point where i feel like i cant have fun without my boyfriend, even tho, realistically, i know its not true .. i ony see him once a week, mainly, and when im not speaking to him or with him i feel really down, even tho i know its just ...

I'm wearing the ring, but do I say yes??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Comments please. I have been with my partner,living together for nearly 6 years.2 years ago i found him on an internet dating site,i spoke to a few of the ladies concerned he eventually gave up the ghost, as we say in the UK,apologised and we moved ...

How can people be so two-faced?

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20 February 2009 (F) - Hi all. thank you for your messages and support.I asked what i had done to a friend that had been dumped not very nicely by her boyfriend that my family invited to our home for christmas.The messages of advice were very upliftng. However,help,Since ...

I'm lost! I don't know what to do or even ask her about the pictures

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - A little over a month ago my girlfriend and I went out fo rdrinks for her birthday, when out and I wasnt at the table we were sitting at she grabbed a strangers grion. When we got home I kicked her out. Nearly a month later she came back into my ...

He is very upset and unsure if he should marry a 'loose woman' (because of her past).

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - OK, I don't have a problem, but I have a friend who is having some serious thoughts about his fiancee. I intend on getting as much advice from this site as I can, then either print out the answers, or log on (not at work) and have him read all your ...

I always feel he's hiding something as he doesn't wan to get close to me sexually...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I'm 21 and I've been dating a guy for the past three years we had our ups and downs we were very close then we drifted apart and now were back together we talk and were pretty close but I always feel he's hiding something or he doesn't wanna get ...

What is the objective?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - I split from a girl 14 month ago after 2 years, she was seeing someone else in the same work place and I found out. I caused no trouble said right ok, if that’s your decision/choice, I respect that so good luck with it. Of course I was hurt. Anyway ...

I am starting to resent him because he does not want another child!

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20 February 2009 (F) - I have known my current boyfriend for over 14 years. During the time we have known each other we have both been married twice and divorced twice. He has 3 children and I had two children - one died. I am due to marry this man in October and love him ...

How can I decide what the truth is here?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I recently heard rumours about my husband cheated on me, a year ago! The girl in the rumour would be one person that I would not doubt he slept with, because they worked together and she was bold enough to tell him she would sleep with him, married ...

I just want to end our friendship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - My best friend is a guy. We met almost two years ago. When we met, we started out dating each other - going out, seeing each other, having sex, etc. After about a month, he never mentioned anything about a relationship so I asked him how he felt ...

Can you make someone miss you?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - This may sound like a stupid question but can you make someone miss you - my friend has this theory and I've tried to tell her it won't work but she's not listening. She broke up with her bf about 4 months ago and she does miss him but I dont t...

Am I right to be concerned about my boyfriend's strange behaviour???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Do you guys think im over reacting an should just forget it or do I have cause for concern? My boyfriend of 6 months is very loving but a few things are really worrying me. 1- he hsa no problem with looking at my phone but snatches his off me if I ...

He's so awesome, but isn't completely honest.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I am 35, divorced and a mother of a 9year old boy. My current boyfriend (aged 45) and I have been together 5years.He told me from word go that he was married, having problems with his wife and was in the process of trying to get a divorce.There was ...