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Archived questions from: 12 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I can't be told I am wrong for wanting to know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I want to make this as short as possible for someone to understand. I don't live an easy life. I know my dear husband loves me a lot and I do love him. We been together for over 13 years and in the beginning it was more downs than ups. I married my ...

Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons? Is it just me? Why is my longest relationship only 2 months? I don't treat them badly, I always try my best to make them happy. I just don't get it. It makes me ...

How can I make him see that the way he talks to me hurts me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for just over 2 years. We don't live together yet as we just can't seem to stop arguing about things, big or small. I don't always think I am right but my boyfriend doesn't seem to ever see my point of view ...

Is there such a thing as "love of your life"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - How many of you believe ,that there is such a thing ,as ''love of your life' ''soul mates'' And so on... I thought I live with one of this, but I'm not sure if I just want to force this on me, or it is true. It seems to fall apart but I'm stil...

My boyfriend and I have problems because I was afraid to tell him I was pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years in may. In about Nov I found out I was pregnant and was terrified to tell him. I tried to have it taken care of alone I couldn't afford it so I was screwed and I never told him its now feb ...

My fiance lies to me about watching porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I have wrote on here before about my fiance being really into porn. we broke up twice over it last night was the third time! He don't have the internet on his phone no more cause he said he took it off so I could stop thinking he was doing it! So ...

Why do I feel still insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I broke up with my ex last year, a good friend of mines helped me through it, now we have become more than friends, in fact you could say weve taken it a stage further, I stay at his place a couple of nights a week, we get on well, he is older than ...

He said he'll change but will he really? SHOULD he really?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Okay so here's the deal, I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year, and it's online but we were pretty much inseperable. I know I love him but when I finally went to see him in person I realized some things. I realized what I really want in a ...

He's accusing me of cheating and I would NEVER do that!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of one year has been accusing me of cheating on him on a daily basis (this is not an exaggeration, no matter how badly I wish it was). As of lately, it has felt as though there is some chemical switch in my brain that causes me to ...

A husband who hopes it's not to late to save his marriage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - I'm a 48 yrsr old, a year ago my wife found out that I was seeing a 28 year old co worker she took it bad and took an overdose it, was because of that I realised that she really did love me but I made it clear to her that I stayed with her not ...

What's his problem? I don't deserve this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - my partner is being really nasty just lately and i have asked whats wrong but he wont say. we have been together for over 3 years we have a daughter and another on the way and i also have a son by a previous partner. we planned this baby so i k...

I want to call the wedding off, but he doesn't. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm in need of advice desperately.I've been in a relationship for the past 2 and 1/2 years now,we are getting married in a few months time and I'm studying .lately Ive been having doubts about us,about the wedding,about just being with ...

The pain of her past never goes away

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - Ok, well this is going to go into detail. So be warned. Im currently a senior in high school. My girlfriend who I am in love with. (I dont know how this site really works, but please dont judge me for saying I love her, or that Im too young. For r...

I refused to get an abortion and he started hating me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Hi i'm 8 months pregnant and the father doesn't want anything to do with the child. we were together until i found out i was pregnant. Because i refused to get an abortion he started hating me. we still catch up about once a fortnight but he's only ...

He's a great boyfriend but he has no motivation!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4067 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I am 27 years old and my boyfriend is the same age. We have been dating almost two years. We laugh, have great chemistry, share some common interests and get along great with eachother's friends and family. The problem is that he has very little ...

Where's the love when I have the flu? After two years he "hasn't decided" how he feels about me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years. We lived together at one time but he asked me to move out because he was too stressed out and claimed he didnt love me anymore. Well a few months later, like a sucker, I went back to him beca...

If I do something wrong, all hell breaks loose. If he does something wrong, he thinks it's nothing. How can I make our relationship more fair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now and i love him to death but lately he has been really aggressive. he has also been making the relationship 80/40 like if i do something wrong all hell brakes loose,but when he does ...

I got mad when I saw him hugging another girl- am I in the wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - ok im not sure if im in the wrong or not about my situation so here it is me and my boyfriend agreed to not hug anymore people of the opposite sex so today when i was in school i turned around and he was hugging another girl and i dont know but when ...

My boyfriend looks at porn all the time- he even asks me to leave so he can look! Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - Hello. My boyfriend is a porn fanatic. He looks at it whenever he gets the chance, even with me around. He asks me to leave. We have sex regularly, at the very least once a day if not (usually) a lot more. I dont have a problem with him looking at ...

Is she trying to tell me to leave her alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - Hello, I have been dating a girl nearly a year. We both went off to college this fall. While our relationship has suffered somewhat, we did go on some dates when we could (and were both back home). I last had contact with her on Jan 26, when she...

I have to stay with my GF because she's pregnant, but I think I may be gay...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

12 February 2009 (M) - help me please! im totally confused about my sexuality. im in a relationship for a year and half with a girl. iv been having sex with her for about 7 months and im 21. around 2 years before i met her i was in a relationship with a girl and lo...

Am I being unreasonable? I don't want to stay at my BF's when he might have pot around!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I've been dating a really great guy for several months now. He says he has no issues with me and enjoys spending time together. I do too, but recently at dinner we had a more in depth discussion about something I made very clear from the outset -- ...

How do I reignite the spark in my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - I have a question, how do I reignite the spark in my relationship? I've been with my man for 3 and a half years, we're living together the last few months and thats been good i guess. I'm feeling really weird. I love him to bits, and he's absolutely ...

I feel so unappreciated by my husband...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

12 February 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for six years and have two children together (6 with adhd and 2), however most of the time I feel like I am a single mother. He never does anything but sleep. He'll stay up until five o' clock in the morning ...