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Archived questions from: 24 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

She has commitment issues. How can I proceed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - About 10 years ago I met this girl in my 7th grade English class. And we became really good friends. We're still great friends to this day. A few months ago I got back from a 2 year trip to a foreign country. When I came home I reunited with this ...

Wife wants my consent to follow sexual lust for another man...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - My wife wants to sleep with another man and wants my consent. I have always been faithful to my wife, but we have on a few occasions fallen out rather dramatically over suspected cheating on my part. It's always been the case that she found out he...

If my man watches heaps of Asian girly porn and teen porn, does that mean he would prefer them in real life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - If my man watches heaps of Asian girly porn and teen porn, does that mean he would prefer them in real life? I have found all this crap on our pc and now when we go out I am seriously paranoid he is perving at asians etc. (although I have...

Curiosity killed the cat???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - Hi my dilemma is from the fact that I found out my girlfriend cheated on me. However there is a catch to it! As my girlfriend was checking her mail and forgot to sign out, I being nosy and completely in the wrong decided to read some of her emails. ...

I'm sooo totally paranoid!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for two months but we we're "getting together" several months before we did. He's a lovely guy and totally different to all the idiots i've been out with! I know people say that a lot and get let down but I truly be...

Should I break it off, because I can't accept his child in my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Here is my story and wonder what should I do? I am back with my ex boyfriend that I was with when I was 16 (now 21) we dated until I was 18.. I had to move to the mainland after high school. I cheated on him before but he took me back and our ...

He's so friendly with this other girl and I'm so jealous about it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I don't know how to stop being jealous? My boyfriend who I've been with for a year now keeps flirting with other girls especially this one girl who says that her and him are best friends and tell each other everything and that she knows him more ...

Girlfriend USED to dance, how do I not let it bother me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I am dating a girl I've known for close to 8 years. We have now been dating for about 4 months. I found out years ago that she danced, not stripped but danced. Very provocative clothing, g-string, bra type of stuff but never took anything off. B...

Her friends at Uni are all guys.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I have a gf we've been together for 3 years and it's been some real origional love story, we love each other to death she's soo caring all she wants is to make me happy, but since she finished high school(last year), and I have one more year to ...

I think my g/f is hiding stuff from me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend and I have been fighting alot over the past few days. Last sunday she told me her phone was messed up and she can only make calls. Later that night i texted her from a different phone and she had texted back? Was this because ...

Relationship has faded, how do I make it fresh again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. im almost 20 and hes 23. we have a very loving relationship, care about each other greatly, love spending time together and can always make each other giggle. however i think im the kind of...

Will I get bored with my marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I am so afraid that I'm going to get bored with my marraige and cheat on my wife. My family and religion taught me that the best thing you can do for your marraige is to wait to have sex until you are married. They said that having your wife...

I don't think he sees me as long term

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - My bf and i have been together for 2 years. We love each other a lot, he makes sure to tell me everyday. we've had our ups and downs and just a few months ago my bf went from having it all (nice car, good job, nice home) to being left with nothing ...

I cheated on my husband, and then lied to him about how far I went with this man. How do we move on in our relationship?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Hello, I have a huge dilema, I cheated on my husband and it all came out about 9 months ago,the affair stopped and my marriage is still intact, although it has taken a lot of trust and patience from my husband.I have been married a long time and ...

For anyone who has forgiven a cheating partner, how did you do it? How long did it take you?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - How do I forgive my boyfriend for cheating on me? How do I get the images of the two of them out of my head? A short background: My boyfriend broke up with me last March and slept with a girl that night. We got back together a day or two later...

She demands so much of my time...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I am a 32 year old male. Have been in relationship with a woman for 15 months now. It is going well on many fronts, but some we have had problems. I have problems with erections, althoguh it seems psychological. We are working on this, and she is ...

Please someone tell me am I going bonkers and reading far too much into this or is she really sniffing round him cos she fancies him...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I don't know where to begin! I had been with my partner for 12 years. We fell out and were both too stubborn to make up. We sold out house and went our seperate ways. Before this I tried to reconcile but he didnt want to know. He had started going ...

Has anyone any experience with an older boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Is there anyone out there who has had experience with older boyfriend? I am seriously struggling to cope with his ways which he won't comprimise... Thanks...

Should I act like I don't care and keep holding my head high even though he seems not to care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I recently met a young guy who I liked a lot but as I said he has moved on, last night he was in the shop with her... as I walked in I felt so stupid but managed to smile even though I hate seeing them together. Should I act like I don't care and ...

I am fed up with his grumpy behaviour!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - i have been in a relationship with a man who is 20 years older than me for a year now. i have a young son and he has three grown up ones. we love eachother,but,he has a very bad temper and wont have any of opposite opinions from me if they dont ...

He's jealous and always wants to know where I am!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Hi everybody Iam sorry this will be long but please advice me what to do. 2 start with is I was engaged with this man for over 16y I have 2 girls with my previous marage and a son with this guy, he never wanted 2 get married I was the one that alw...

His ex was the reason we broke up, but can we work this out without her in the picture?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Ok. Here's my story. My boyfriend left me about a week ago and I'm devastated. We broke up because of his ex. While we were dating, he'd constantly talk to her and she'd always convince him to leave me. She hates me, for reasons I have no idea why. ...

Is it abuse when a girl hits a guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - So I have a girlfriend. We seem to fight a lot. when I make her upset she tends to hit me. The other night we were arguing in the car and I said something to upset her, and she swung her arm and struck me right in the eye. she hit me hard enough to ...

Can someone translate what he's trying to tell me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Hello to everyone.have a few issues and need some advise.input from everyone will be great, but I definitely need some male input in my crazy life. here it goes ive been with this guy for about 7 months sorta and before we began this crazy thing i ...

My boyfriend insists I'm always picking on his 13 year old daughter...

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24 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years insists I'm always picking on his 13 year old daughter. Am I crazy? I have three kids of my own ages 10, 9, and 5. My girls adore him ages 9 and 5. My 10 year old son is neutral my boyfriend does nothing with him. On t...

My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Okay, This is a pretty weird question, I'm going crazy though. My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate. I know this is possible because of all the crap I've read on the internet. It's not that big of a problem right now ...

My girlfriend is so flirtatious! How can I calm her down a bit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - Hey, I'm an 19 year old guy and i have a problem with my girlfriend. She is 19 too and I've found that in the last 6 months she has been becoming much more flirtatious with other men, particularly older men. She gets a lot of attention when w...