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Archived questions from: 19 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Any ideas how I can give this another go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hey guys, I recently found out that my boyfriend slept with his ex girlfriend 3 months into our relationship... when I asked him about it he lied to me but I then found out for myself and he admitted it and said he was so scared to tell me coz he ...

How can I "be there" more for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - How can I be there for my girlfriend? I go to school about an hour away from my girlfriend and we can't see each other that often. She feels lonely and that she has no one to talk to. I assured her that I am always there for her when she wants me...

Friend or girlfriend? What am I to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year, now. We do everything together, I spend his days off with him. He includes me in everything he does with his friends (who are all couples), and his family (immediate and extended). He's not afraid t...

My mum just hinted to me that I was born a mistake...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - My mum just hinted to me that I was born a mistake and she never even denied it. It really hurts knowing that. I love my mum and everything but when something goes wrong she blames me never anyone else just cause I'm the youngest in the family. They ...

What should I do with my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - What should I do with my husband? After 2 years with him we've just been married 1 years, he found someone who is only 18 years old, he is 23 years old when I had 3 weeks holiday. After I got back he said we break up and he can find someone els...

I just don't know what to do next or what the next step is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - I have always had trust issues from my first serious high school relationship where the girl i dated left me only a month after moving away. We had been together for two years and it was the typical high school sweetheart relationship that last two ...

What is the deal with this guy?

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19 February 2009 (F) - We had a big argument we made up after that and i didnt hear from him and i didn’t contact him either and 2day he called me after a few weeks and he was acting like nothing is happened he was just asking me how am doing and i told him to ...

Should I do something special for him to apologize for being so stupid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Ok, so I blew it, and I'd like some advice as to what to do now. My boyfriend is 7 years older than me and has more "history" because of it. Last night, we'd had a bit too much to drink, and I got insecure about something he brought up from ...

I know she still wants me...what happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - we have been dating for 7 wonderful months. doing everything with her two boys 12, 13. suddenly she broke it off saying she needs to figure out some things like making sure she isnt confusing love for being safe (she was really abused bad for ...

Her vagina seems slacker... could she be cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - I feel my partner is cheating, because at the end of her period when she has stopped bleeding she seems slack and she makes vaginal noises, also even when she is not on her period. I try to talk to her but I always seem to make a a***e of it.. can ...

How do I get my husband to plan things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - ok im a bit late with my problem but its been on my mind, i feel ive no one to say it too and maybe its time i got some advise from people who dont know us. this is my first year married and i booked the time off work and of course made a point of ...

Advice needed! Do I follow my head or my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - My brain is telling me to say "goodbye", but my heart is not onboard. I have been seeing my "boyfriend" for 6 months. We had a rocky start. I had a drunken psycho moment. Then we kinda moved past it. We dont see eachother that often. He tells ...

He got me nowt for my birthday and I'm upset about it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I planned a great vday for my boyfriend of almost 3 years... he had so much fun and so did I but it really bothers me I didn't get a gift this year... he has always gotten me one. Should I really be upset he didn't get me anything? I mean I didn't ...

He cheated on his ex, I fear he will do the same to me, how to handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - dating a guy for 10 months and i have a fear of cheating from men as it was done in the past. i try not to hold my guy accountable for my history. he to has a history of cheating on his ex he says he has changed and want me only and WANTS to be ...

Update - Should I lose it to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I wrote just the other day wondering whether or not I should sleep with a long-time guy pal I had borderline romantic feelings for (that made it very clear he was uninterested in a relationship, though hooked up with me on the regular). Well it ...

Is it only words? I don't feel I really matter to him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I am confused. I was dating a guy for 5 months, we broke up, and got back together a month later and are still together, now. My only issue is that I don't feel like I matter to him. He tells me he loves me, he tells me I'm his world, yet I don't ...

I caught him jerking off to my underage niece's picture!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I feel betrayed, lied to and disgusted... I caught my boyfriend in a pile of lies. For some reason he was denying he logged onto my laptop. After a minutes of going back and forth he admitted to it. The only reason I made it a big deal was because...

Don't you think he is a hypocrite?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hello, I need your advice on this matter. I work with a man who is already married and has a kid. With time, i have begun to feel an attraction for him but I never said anything. I think he too feels the same way. Then I started to e-mail him ...

He forgets about me when he is away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hi readers! I just need help on this situation right here: My boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship, i'm very much in love with him and he's in love with me... Well atleast he tells me that everytime we talk. Now he's been currently ...

He cheated 4 years ago, and we haven't had sex since then... he says he's not ready!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend about 7years,and bout 4 years ago he cheated on me and ever since we haven't had sex, and i do want but its him that is saying he is not ready, and i really want to have kids soon and he is saying that he don't know ...

Are my ex-fiances credit card debts my responsibility??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - hello, i am 22 years old. I had been in a relationshp with who is now my ex-fiance for 5 years; the problem is i got her pregnant and she is in a lot of credit card debt. I$ had explicitly warned her starting 2 years ago that she shouldn't incur mu...

I lost trust in him because of this email message... am I overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Okay, well ive been in a relationship for 1 year and 6 months. And about two days ago i was out with my boyfriend and since he is able to access his email account from his phone i decided to send a picture to my email from his phone, and when i was ...

I get the feeling that she wants a life I can't provide.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - I am in mymid twenties living with a woman that i love dearly and her son of 4. we have been together for 2 years but i get the feeling that she is seeking a life that i can not provide. i am not sure if this is reaction to the idea of settling down ...

Is this punishment over-the-top for the "crime"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hi! First off, I'd like to say that Im only asking for opinions and I want to know if im not overreacting! Ok, well my brother wrestles for the wrestling team and me being his sister, decides to take on wrestling stats so I would be at every sing...

She does not enjoy sex any more...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - I am 30 years old and she is 28. We met 2 years ago and she was my first time. Always valued the fact of being virgin until I was going to meet the right one. In the last months her sex drive dropped and we basically are having sex not more then ...

I know he loves me but I don't think he loves me whole heartedly like he says he does.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I just made 6 months. We've been through more then the average couple would go through in this time period. I love him with all my heart. I don't have to think about it I just know. I know he loves me but I don't think he loves ...

My family has disowned me for no reason... what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm really confused at the moment. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we have 2 children together. I have never really been close to my mum but my nan and grandad have always been like a mum and dad to me. I live fairly close to my ...