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Archived questions from: 21 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I feel insecure, like I'm going to lose her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - Last year I was going out with this girl who came to the UK for one year. I really liked her and eventually got to know her. We eventually went out but there was always this other guy bugging her and I always suspected something was going on. ...

Why do you think he did this...? help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - He accused me of cheating when I wasn’t.. he didn’t contact me till 2 months later he called me I told him 2 call me back because I was out.. he called me back and was asking me how my boyfriend was doing (as if I have one) I told him I don’t know. ...

Should I continue to support him financially?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Ok here is my story. I started dating this guy 7 months ago. I am 28 and he is 33, when we met he was staying at friend in their basement. he told me that he moved from another city and was trying to start a business here but for now he was doing...

Is it a one-sided relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - ive been going out with my boyfriend for a month now and so far its beeen great we could talk for hours. i went to his house yesterday and we made out for the first time and it was nice and then his mate came round whose two years older than us and ...

Should I be the one to blame?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost two years(in May). The past few months have really been rough. All we ever seem to do it fight and argue. The thing is... and maybe it's just all in my head but he seems to always be pointing the finger of ...

Lesbian verses Penis

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I've been attached to women for as long as I can remember. The past 4 years I've only been dating women and can only picture myself with a woman... but the only way I get off is to think about penis or use a dildo! My current girlfriend of over a ...

Boyfriend nightmares

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Hi I have a problem - I have a long term boyfriend who used to treat me really badly and he used to make me do things I didn't want to do - and this has affected our relationship, as I don't feel like I can ask him for anything or approach him for ...

I am willing to do anything to make the relationship with the man that I love work.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I am in a tough situation. My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past 2 and a half years. Over those two and a half years, I have been a less than perfect girlfriend and have lied to him many times over small and large things and have kept ...

Now he is back and my head hurts and I can feel my own blood pressure rising. I can not live like this, but what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I have moved 3000 miles to be with my husband. He has been mentally and verbally abusive to me in ways I can't even begin to describe. In ways that caused me to vomit blood while he laughed. We rent a house, I have nobody here and no way to leave ...

He says he doesn't love me anymore, I think he's just depressed. Do I wait for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Alright,so I've been "with" my lover for 3 1/2 years. We were boyfriend and girlfriend for 2 1/2 years and we've been on a break for the past year. Although it kinda can't be called a break because we never really stopped seeing each other. On ...

Different ways to please my partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - right I really need some help. Everything I do sexually to pleasure my girlfriend doesn't work. It has worked for other girls but it doesn't with her. i've gone down on her, fingered her, had sex with her, she says she can feel it but she doesnt ...

Our personalities are so different and we are now broken up but I still love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly a year and a halve and we have always argued as have our personalities. I met him when i wasn't very confident but a few years later i developed my confidence which led to me actually asking him out. I had ...

Unhappy with my girlfriend and in love with another girl

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - Hello, I'm in quite a miserable situation and ask for any advice, as it's hard for me to discuss the situation with a friend. I would be very happy about any comment or advice. I'm together with my girlfriend now for 3 years, and we have been ve...

He said he met someone else, but does not want to end it with me, your thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I was in a twenty year relationship and was married to this man for fifteen years. I felt him drifting away just before the holidays. Friends and family were shocked when he announced that he had met an important friend, and no longer wanted to be ...

Should I have gotten back together with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - I know my dribble must be annoying by now. I called our relationship off today based on what I found last night, I put that she grabbed a guys grion behind us because she said she wasnt that type of girl and was drunk at the time, though the pict...

My boyfriend suddenly stopped talking with me a month ago

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Well it was almost a month since my boyfriend stopped talking to me. We didn't get in a fight or anything; we was supposed to go out and we was talking as normal and we didnt follow up to our plans because something happened with his car. So the ...

I don't want these feelings, I want to be straight!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Well, here's the thing. I know I am really attracted to guys. When I see a really hot guy, I automatically have a picture of a perfect penis in my head and if I'm near a bed, I'll hop into it and start to masturbate immediately. But lately, whenever ...

He acts like I'm nothing, like I'm not there.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - What do I tell my boyfriend? He treats me like I'm his trophy. He ignores me all the time and would rather have me at his side when he wants to compare me with his friends girlfriends. I used to like him but I don't any more. He acts like I'm not ...