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Archived questions from: 4 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I get my Mom to see how awful she's being?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Lately me and my mum just haven't been getting on. There is only the three of us, me, mum and dad and the dog lol. Of course, since there is only me and my parents (and the dog) its not surprising that we keep butting heads every other day. Bu...

What should I do in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Ok i apologise if this question is a bit complicated but i'm confused about things, and need a bit of help. A few weeks ago, me and my bf (we'll call him J) split up, and i was devastated. The weekend after i dealt with things in a bad way by going ...

I'm scared my ex-BF will share my personal info, why is he doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - I have a problem it seems. I don't know how to deal with this. My ex broke up with me 4 months ago. I am over it, the thing is that he is always talking about me with my best friend who happens to be his friend too. Apparently he is checking his ...

Should I call to say I miss him or wait a month and then call?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - My dad past away 4 month ago. He was always there for me through all my relationships. When he passed away, they said I have to come live with my mother, who i havent seen since she left me at age 8 years old. Well i started living with her, she's ...

Am I kidding myself or can my ex and I work it out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - my estranged husband has been telling me we can work things out, but then wont talk to me about our marriage. we've been married for 23 years. he started seeing another woman 4 months ago, and is sharing a flat with her. am i kidding myself that ...

Is he really telling me the truth this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - My ex wants me to take him back but I was really done with him this time. We have been together for 2 1/2 yrs straight and off and on for the other 3 1/2. It was his choice when we were not together. He was my first everything and we have a ...

How do I tell my parents I'm in a relationship without hurting them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Hi,i'm just after some advice. Several months ago (about 4months now) I started seeing a guy quite a lot older than me (25years). We have spent a lot of time together, got to know eachother and have fallen in love. We get on so well and have ...

My boyfriend is interferring with his sister's love life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants his sister to stop going out with his very close friend. He just found out they are going out on dates and stuff...told her to end it. He feels that he's a bum and is only being nice to her to get into her pants. I guess he kno...

Can he love me if he isn't attracted to me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - My husband and I decided to go to therapy to deal with out communication issues and when we discussed our non-existent sex life it came out that he is no longer attracted to me. When we met I was about 15 pounds lighter but that was seven years ago ...

Could my boyfriend be gay because he watches she-male videos?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - i`m 22 years old i have a 2 year old daughter and im 6 months pregnant and my boyfriends goes on porn alot but when i recentley check what videos hes been on it says chicks with dicks and shemales does that mean he could be gay?...

Why can't I make her happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

4 February 2009 (M) - Took her to dinner and a movie on Friday night. She stayed at my place on Saturday night. I picked her up, helped her pack her bag. We were getting a snowstorm that night and the next day. I tended on her hand and foot. Cooked for her, got her ...

How to build a relationship with no love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (M) - I have been married for 30 years and 15 yrs ago i had a friendship which my wife found out about. for the last 15 years she has referred back to this relationship, she has become very jealous has become over weight and all we do is argue. i have ...

My b/f keeps going out & partying with her and she's crushing on him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Would you be uncomfortable if your bf was going out partying with a girl, every weekend, and sometimes even during the week, but not just any girl, a girl who has a major crush on him, a girl who has made moves on him? My bf is doing all of the...

How can I get my husband to stand up for me in front of his parents and demand what is his?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - I've been married for four years now. I love my husband to death but things just aint what it should be. The day I went to pick up my wedding dress my mother in law told me that if she could have, she would not allow me and my husband to get ...

I was bullied out of my last home, should I fight for justice or just let go?

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4 February 2009 (F) - HI i was bullied out of my last home (joint owner) and have struggled to get back on my feet. #my ex partner took loans against the mortgage as he conned me into signing them by saying he had the right as he paid the mortgage. at the end of t...

Things aren't getting better with my fiance, should I broke up and be with the new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Im 20 and have been with a 27 yr old for 2 years. We got engaged on my 19th birthday and things were going great. Only problem was we had sex about once a month. We got a mortgage and a house together as i thought things between us would change. We ...

I'm pregnant and my hubby is constantly putting me down and cussing at me, will this ever change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - im 8 wks pregnant with my first child...i recently got married to my high school sweetheart in sept of 08..been together since 06 recently he is being really mean and calling me nameslazy..etcand constanstly putting me down and cussing at me i ...

Confusing relationship and I need to wake up and move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - What does he mean?? Hello Guys: I am very confused now, so I ask for help here. I am a foreigner in this country and my husband works in another states, he is very mean to me and am used to live( for study) separated from him. But I have ne...

If he doesn't care why would he text so much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u ...

I can't believe that today I cheated on my GF, what do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (?) - i cheated. I cheated. I f***ing cheated! I feel like shit. I hate myself so f***ing much right now. I swore ide never cheat on my gf, I did today. I cheated on her with my ex, who cheated on me! my girlfriend has never done anything like that at ...

Marriage dilemmas and a friend who doesn't know how to trust...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - hey everyone! i have a question to ask: ok. lets say X and Y are a girl and a guy. and they are together. Y has no plans of giving up his bachelor life. that is what he tells his family (who he is very close to). he says he has no plans of marry...

Is she pushing me away or just stressed out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

4 February 2009 (M) - My gf and I have been dating for about 4 months now and everything has been simply amazing up until about a week ago when she tells me things feel different. We never fight, we always poke fun at eachother and have a laugh. We both have so much in ...

Our sex is horrible and I need more pleasure, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Trying to make my relationship work at home I was previously cheating on my boyfriend with a married man but I no longer do that. I love my boyfriend but our sex is horrible 10 pumps and he's done I need more pleasure from him what should I do? Its ...

I'm too jealous, but I love him..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my fiance got together 18 months ago and things have been great, we're getting married this year too. We've never argued before but since December last year we have done nothing but argue, we have a few good days and when it...

Worried, depressed and oppressed... What should I do?

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4 February 2009 (F) - My husband is a high school teacher and has been emailing his advice to a student in regards to her life choices. She told him that she was thankful that she wasn't pregnant and now knows she is not straight, but instead is gay. He even ...