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Archived questions from: 14 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Drunken night girlfriend fight!

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14 February 2009 (M) - I just wanted to throw a story out and see if my mind is in the right place or not. Basically, I got drunk at a party with some friends. My girlfriend was with me, along with a few of our friends. She had a little too much to drink and was cu...

Why arrange to meet him when she knows damn well the trouble I went through for her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

14 February 2009 (M) - I have a close female friend who doesn't know many people in the area. I used to (and secretly still do) have feelings for her but being the incapable blithering fool that I am I successfully managed to destroy any chance of a relationship. A fe...

I love him but I cannot stay with him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I been with my fiance for 2 years and I recently found out he's been cheating on me almost the whole time we've been together. He lied and told me he was done with the relationship with the other woman so I got back with him until found out it ...

Is he covering it with his anger?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend dumped me 6 months ago, but he keeps wanting us to be friends. Even though we fight all the time. He's now in a rebound relationship with a woman trying to get out of a bad marriage. He's angry at me because I have a hard time ...

How do you ladies feel when your man forgets V-Day?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - How do you ladies feel when your man of 3 years forgets it's Valentines day and you get nothing. Not a card, not a flower, not a single romantic sentiment? Please advise. I don't know what to do. Mention it? Or just let the day pass by like it ...

Should I still confront her even though my bestie told me not to confront her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - Well, my bestie hangs out with my ex-bestfriend and my ex-bestfriend talks about my friends which are negative things. My bestie tells me everything my ex-bestfriends tells her and my bestie tells me. My bestie also told me to tell people that she ...

Was I right to give him an ultimatum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend had been drinking excessively and always got violent with me. He's pushed me, slapped me and last time after getting in a fight in a bar came home at three in the morning blaming me for that and kept telling me he would kill me. He ...

Can a relationship be sorted if only one person is making the effort?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my man for 7 years now and we have a beutiful 2 year old daughter but for about a year now we have argued practically every time we are together, he is a full tome chef so we very rarely do get to spend alot of time together. I love ...

He doesn't care...!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - Today is valentines day.... and he hasn't even called me or sent me nothing! ...

How do you find out if your dad is cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - My dad has been acting kind of strange lately well I have seen him like this before too, it seems like it happens every once and a while. My dad works long hours, recently just a few days he has been leaving early to go to work and then coming ...

The man I'm seeing is 33 and still lives with his parents!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I have been in a 4 year relationship with a man and we have a 4 year old son together. I am 24 and he is 33 but the problem is he still lives at home with his parents. He lives and works an hour away from me and and we only get to see him 2 days...

I'm tired of all my husband's lies!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years (end of May). He lies constantly about everything. I caught him telling his ex-girlfriend that he misses her (at first he denied it, then he admitted it and said that's how he is with all his ...

I hate my father...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I hate my father and mother. I stilllive at home and I have no friends and no boyfriend and nobody wants me. I am always helping my dad on the farm and I get nothing for it. When I ask can I do something he says I can't, but I can when it suits ...

I found a text on his phone telling his ex he loved her...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months now and we're really happy together, there's just one thing that upsets me. He's always texting his ex, and I know I shouldn't mind as everyone tells me she's his ex for a reason but it just really ...

Valentine's Day was horrible!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - today is our first valentines and sadly its the worst valentines day ever till today. calls me 1 am this morning after he finished work and tells me ohh todays valentines day i forgot happy valentines day honey ,, "yeah u 2 babe" so i wake up in the ...

I think my husband is bi-polar and its tearing me up inside that he just doesn't care about all the pain he's caused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I recently split up with my husband. I am 100% sure he is bi polar. Although his behavior has never been good, for the past 6 months we have been like room mates w/ very occassional benefits. This is not at all what I wanted. I feel like I have s...

Dumped my married man and now, he hates the sight of me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I recently broke it off with a married man whom i was seeing for 7 years and we have a 5 yo child. Since now, he can't stand me, he lies to his wife and family saying I'm calling his phone and playing with it up, telling me need to get a man. He ...

He called me a psycho gf and dumped me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I made a mistake the other night, I was a psycho girlfriend. My boyfriend and I were going to hang out as normal around 730 to watch a game on tv. He called about 620 to say he was going to his old bosses and might not be back right on time but he'd ...

Am I deluded here???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

14 February 2009 (M) - Hi people, I'm a 26 year old guy, and thought I'd write here to get some advice on my relationship with my girlfriend (23) of 6 years. During this time together, we have had our ups and downs, and as most couples do, broken up to make up again. U...

My heart is not in this marriage any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I need some advice. I have been married for over 10 years and have a 5 year old son. My husband and I have drifted apart since my son was born. He has treated me like an enemy and I feel like I have been drifting further away and with drawn from ...

How do I decide what to do when things are so up in the air?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - My partner and I met at Uni four years ago and had a laidback relationship for six months. During this time I cheated on him numerous times. We had not made it a deep and serious relationship (although monogamy *was* expected) cos we were both ...

My guy writes down other guys penis sizes!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - Is my guy bi or gay if he calls all male gay talk lines? I found him doing this soon after we met in 2006.. he'd ask guys their penis sizes by the way he'd write them on paper and I'd find them. also he would have their phone numbers but he said ...