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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He flirts around a lot but I don't know if it's just me or with everyone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5777 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I'm in love with a guy.. don't know how he feels. We used to text and call loads but recently he's taken a step back... he hasn't called me in a month but we still have our online convos.. when I tell him I love him he thinks I'm joking... He fli...

She wants to have an abortion and that we are over and she won't talk to me right now. I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - I have been with my fiancee for about 2 years. She is 2 months pregnant with our first child. A girl from my past text me yesterday, and, my fiancee saw it and she went off! This girl from my text said "why do you hate me?" Now, I haven't talked to ...

I hate porn....hate it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Ok, so i have been with my bf who i love and who loves me back a lot for a about 1 1/2 years. Things are great btwn us...we live together, have a great sex life, went and constantly go thru the good, the bad, the really bad, etc. but he watches ...

Emotionally needy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - I’ve started to see this boy, its been about a month. He’s a kind-hearted, sweet and generous person. One of the best I’ve met on the gay scene, undoubtedly. He’s very close with his friends and they mean a lot to him and he spends a lot of time ...

We fight! Is he right for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about 9 months, and we have talked about marriage a lot. We got into an arguement the other day and i broke off our relationship. he's been calling constantly and he says he knows we can work through anything, that he ...

I don't want to lose my fiance, but my ex threatens to tell him we have slept together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I am a 23-year old girl from a very good family.I am completing my education from a very reputed college in India.My problem is that years back , when I was in grade 11 in school, I had this huge crush on my classmate. He was cute,friendly bu...

8 year relationship with no proof of one

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - my man and i have been together for a little over 8 years now and we have a 2 year old daughter together.....we have been through alot together and i just hate giving up but lately i don't feel like i care anymore............in 2005 we were supposed ...

My boyfriend drooled over this girl at a bar?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend walked into this bar/club/seedy place.. Boy you should of seen the guys staring at me I felt like a movie star!! So any-way we go upto the bar order our drink, his talking to his friends we are all having a great time until these ...

My boyfriend and I are having a lot of issues and I don't know what to think

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend i know loves me, and will be with me forever, but something he did i just cant get out of my head. We were having a fight and i was at a party, and drinking, and we were texting, he told me that he was really upset about something he ...

My gf wants to speak to me all night every night, how do I make it stop!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I see each other everyday. She still lives with her parents, and so do I for my families financial reasons, but after I get home, she calls me every night and won't get off the phone with me. I have tried to hint over and over that ...

My girlfriend truly believes she doesn't deserve me, what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for a year this February. Whenever she upsets me, she'll follow her apology with, "I'm a horrible girlfriend, you deserve so much better than me," or some variation of that. We sat down and had a talk months ago ...

Torn between two guys, how do I decide what I want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner now for about 6 years. We’ve lived together for 4 years, but are not married, and no kids. We even survived him going overseas for 6 months. I love him to bits, I identify with his quirkiness, and we have so much in ...

How to get on with life after a break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Six months ago, I went through a break-up with someone I am truly in love with. We went our seperate ways, but about two months ago, he stumbled back into my life (single again, of course.) I still felt the same way about him, and after a month, I ...

My brother's GF will not let him go anywhere without her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - My brother's gf will not let him go anywhere without her. When he is not with her he has to be on msn with her. She has put 18 pictures of the two of them in his room. She writes him letters that say she cant live without him and that he is the ...

My boyfriend wants me to have a baby I'm not ready for

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - hi just needed some advice, ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years everything is good but he has a daughter of 2 years old that he hasnt seen in over 2 years cause his baby momma took her to jamaica with her so since he hasnt seen his daughter he ...

How do I move on from my long distance ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up a week ago as I moved states, and long distance is too hard, I still love him...so this week was spent crying, and talking to my girlfriends..... They sdvise me to stop talking to him.....So the next time he called I...

I'm scared that I don't love my fiance anymore

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2 February 2009 (F) - been with my fience for 3 years. im scared i dont love him anymore,i know deep down i do,but im scared im doing it all wrong and maybe there is someone better out there for us both one minute he annoyes me and we will argue and the moment i see him...

Long term relationship but like someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I am a 21 year old female and have been with my boyfriend, also 21 for 4 years. I love him but recently have developed feelings for somebody else. He is 38.. I really don't know what to do. I know my boyfriend loves me and it would kill him if we br...

We've had sex twice in six months - any advice?

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2 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now. Everything was great and we did all the things any couple would do, except she did not want to have sex until about 4-5 months into our relationship. The first time I tried to initiate ...

I get very jealous of my boyfriends behaviour

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Ok so, I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years of and on but now we're engaged and I'm so jealous and I don't know how to stop. I mean I love him to death but he talks to all these other gurls on myspace and calls them babe and stuff like that I ...

My girlfriend has no time, sympathy or affection for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - Hello. My girlfriend an I have been together for 2 years now and things have taken a huge change. She has a problem keeping her word on most things, she is never in the mood for sex even though she always tells me " I want you to just take me" or " ...

I can't trust myself not to cheat

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2 February 2009 (F) - Okay big problem I have a boyfriend, but we are both pretty young, his number one rule is do not cheat. well, I'm afraid i will break that rule. I've have a ton of relationships in the past so I know I can date. I have big problems with trust I ...