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Archived questions from: 17 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What can I do to forget about this angry violent man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend on and off for 4 years.. been thru violent abuse and mentally.. he's going to anger management but if that's so why is he still threatening me by saying that if he ever catches me cheating he's going to twist my neck.. ...

Should I continue with the filings of the divorce?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Okay I met my boyfriend two years ago. On New Years it was a long distance relationship. They we both agreed to move to another state to be together. Everything seemed to be okay. It seemed like the more we became serious the more his mother started ...

I want to know if he still has feelings for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I asked a question on this site awhile ago about my ex and if i should give him a letter and what not. I have another question about him and I. Lately,I have been having these reoccuring dreams about him and I getting back together and him...

Should I leave my controlling bf or try again with my ex who is very similar to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - The reason I'm confused is that my present boyfriend is a bit close minded and strict sometimes because he doesnt like to give me my space. he would like to spend all the time with me doing things his way. I'm the type of girl that likes to go ...

Why wont he tell me the cause of his mood?

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17 February 2009 (F) - sometimes he will come and see me.. he will be in a huffy mood.. he won't tell me why.. any tips on getting him to spill? my boyfriend is really amazing.. his is kind.. he supported me and is still supporting me since my granny died two weeks a...

Why do they say they love you and then have no problem in breaking up?

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17 February 2009 (F) - How is it that grown men can tell you that they are in love with you, seem so sincere, that you believe you can feel their love. but when circumstances arise and you break up they do not seem to have any problem cutting all ties with you?...

When I text him, half of the time he ignores me, help me understand why!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together a year. He text me during the day sometimes. I always respond and always answer his calls. When I text him though over half the time he ignores me. Also he still has womens' numbers from before we got ...

I make things miserable for him and he still loves me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Valentines day past, and he didn't get me anything again. I don't know what's wrong with me but it hurts and I told him before and he said he didn't know how to love me but he says he loves me, and wants to marry me, but that I have to stop getting ...

Scared to break up because I'm used to him and don't want to be alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I am very confused and unsure what to do anymore, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. We have lots in common , he is a kind man, I can trust him and rely on him. Before I met him I had not had much luck with men, always got hurt ...

I don't understand my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - my boyfriend is a real tough manly kind of guy who doesn't like to talk about feelings, he refuses to utter the words 'i love u' no matter hw much i ask him to, does it mean that he doesn't love me enough to even say it? another question is that...

G/f cheated while I was deployed, now I struggle with trust issues!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - I want to first start by saying sorry if my typing grammar may not flow well. As you can tell I am in the military (air force) and have been for 12 years now. I am 30 years old and my area in work in the military is under special operations through ...

I don't want my ex to be happy with another girl!...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I hate the situation im in. Me and my ex broke up 4 the 3rd time 5 months ago. It was on/off lots. He wasnt that nice to me.run me down. Made me have real low self esteem. He could b so charming and sweet and hurtful the next. I loved him so much ...

At what point did I turn into a monster?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - I have really, really screwed up. For the past 3 months I have been tail spinning into a depression because of a job loss, money problems, and some unsettling medical news. I used to be a down to earth, level headed 31 year old guy that could get ...

Do you think she is in pain or has she just moved on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - Hi Guys My ex just broke up with me 2.5 months ago, she said i hurt her because we had a few arguments and i yelled a couple of times but not enough to warrant a break up, then after a few days of not talking we spoke and she had decided she want...

Threesome troubles!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I'm in a very strange situation - my boyfriend and I have been in an open relationship for the past year and a half. We are a highly passionate couple and like to explore new things. He been seeing this girl for a few months now, I've met her a ...

If she says she loves me then why doesn't she find me attractive or want any physical contact any more..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - My g/f and I have only been together for 3 months but already our sex life is non-existent. When we first met we were rampant and spent entire weekends in bed having plenty of great sex and spending hours cuddling but all of a sudden she has beco...

How do I make him wrapped around my finger?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - okay I've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years... everything was great and we were very happy He always showed he loved me and said nice things to make me feel good. but these past few months he has been showing that he doesnt care, he has ...

Am I just a boring old bag because I disagree with drugs, even milder ones?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I am 36 my boyfriend 32 we are both from the UK. I'm going to be living in Vic, Australia with him soon but we seem to have an ongoing argument over cannabis. Basically last time I was there (he is living in Oz now) he suggested we didn't go to a ...

B/f spends an awful amount of time with his "casual" friend! What do I do?

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17 February 2009 (F) - Where do I start?? I'm so depressed and angry!! I'm married with 2 children and 1 on the way 2 my husband (27wks). We split in sept 2008 we had been sleepin in separate rooms for most of the year. We got pregnant the last time thru a fertility ...

Valentines day, how would you take it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I am with my boyfriend for four years and two days before valentines day my 9 month old granddaughter (special needs) suffered a gran mol seizure. She was rushed to the hospital and released on valentines day. During this time I neglected to pick ...

Playing games, part two

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I have been going out with a 49 yr old man - am 28, things were great with him for the first six months, until he started to break up with me via txt for x, y reason etc - but mainly cos he doubted in me. Its now 7 months and well tonight he tried ...

I'm worried that she might not open up much any more because she's trying to find this new found strength within her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - Okay I need some help for this somewhat complicated issue. The condensed version of this is that I my girlfriend and I got in a fight and I told her I needed to take some time to think about things and clear my head because of something she did (she ...

What to do about his porn habit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I am currently engaged and I am about 7 months into this relationship. I also am pregnant, but even that doesn't mess with the way I feel about the "porn" issue. I was raised in the country and never believed in looking at another person, whether it ...

Boyfriend is acting funny

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17 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend did something Friday night that found inappropriate and he told me I was just being jealous.... like he says a lot lately.... he doesn't want apologies. He did make me dinner for Vday and chocolates but said he was just being nice for ...