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Archived questions from: 16 February, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My ex boyfriend and I... advice as I'm going nuts here!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up almost 3 months ago We had a crazy break up- hate eachother one minute/ love the next. He eventually asked me to be friends so I agree after much hesitation. So we hung out, had sex- sleepovers. That eventually stoped, ...

I recently found out that my boyfriend slept with his ex girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - hey guys I really need everyones opinion on this please im realllllly confused atm... I recently found out that my boyfriend slept with his ex girlfriend 3 months into out 10 month relationship... it was a funny way we started the relationship... ...

Your opinions needed... What is wrong with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - We have been going out for a year. We both love each other. I am suspecting that he is cheating on me with this other girl.. The other day he told me that he hasn't been talking to her recently and told me that she has a boyfriend anyhow. I still ...

Did I overreact since we aren't in a committed relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been seeing this guy for about 6 months now we are not boyfriend and girlfriend but we a understanding that we arent seeing other people he just isnt ready for a committed relationship and I respect that but the other day he f...

Why didn't he ask her to marry him after 9 years?

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16 February 2009 (F) - Dear All, I planned to forward this question coz I'm kinda worried about this cousin of mine. She has been seeing this guy for about 9 years now. But she told me that he has never touched her or asked her sexually, except "the kissing" thing. Right ...

I always run back to him although the relationship makes me feel depressed, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I am a women over 40 and been dating a guy for 6 yrs. now. If u size it up may be considered 3 yrs.total because of the long distance. I am I feel totally depressed all the time with this relationship. I think he is a BAD HABIT like being addicted ...

Does my husband love me or is it over for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I have been married over 8 years my husband works a lot of hours and he is always busy I got sick a while back and I was very week I asked him if he can stay with me that day His answer was I am not a doctor or do you want me to stay and hold yo...

Should I continue working on this dead relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - hey guyz im 18 and very confused. my bf of 2 years is an absolute dork. he hurts me and cheats and neva apologises. ive tried leavin him but i always cum runing bk. and nw hes introduced me to hs family. what i want to know is should i continue ...

Should I tell my mom my brother's taking drugs???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I NEED HELP!!! This has really nothing to do with relationships, but my mom asked me to find out whether or not my older brother is doing drugs(he is). She is worried about him and wants to know what's going on. Now I told her that's unfair to ask m...

He was all sweetness one minute then the next says he's not IN love with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I wrote you a month ago. My boyfriend said he loved me but is not in love with me. I stayed with him for a month after that. He said his feelings might change. I don't know what happened, he was so nice and sweet and then one day he s...

I snooped - will he take me back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Just recently I snooped on my boyfriend's computer and I got caught. He never accused me or discussed it. He just came out of the computer room with this smirk on his face and started acting pissed. I asked him what's wrong and he said "I think ...

Why am I turned off by boyfriend's attention (or lack thereof) to my breasts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - When my BF and I started dating, we talked a lot about sex, what we liked, what we didn't ,etc. I made it clear how much I liked my breasts to be touched, etc and he happily complied (or so I thought). Although he says he's not a Breast Man, but he ...

Childish behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5763 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly two months now and we had our first proper argument the other day. At an inappropriate time I mentioned how sometimes she can be selfish in always doing the things she wants to do. We soon made up ...

He never wants to spend quality time with me and I'm beginning to distrust him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I am a 25 year old black girl dating a 50 year old white guy, we've been dating for a year now. He told me that he separated with his wife but my corncern is he only sees me during weekends and he told me that he will make love to me if only I get ...

I fell in love with my soulmate but it's a friend of my wife...

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2907 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Hello, Let me just come right out and say it, I fell in love with one of my wife's friends. Yes, I'm sure I will get bashed here but it wasn't something I planned on doing. I have known this person for 7 YEARS and always found myself with her even ...

My b/f is so unromantic!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - this is now getting 2 my nerves,my boyfriend is soo unromantic,like on valentines,he didnt get me anything,i feel so sad and jealousy when i see how other gals r treated special. what can i do to change him and upgrade him because this sometime...

I am not happy with her double standards!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - I have a girlfriend of over 4 years. She has 2 kids (18 and 20) due to her request of no sex or sleeping over while the kids were in the house, until they were 18 years old. This request was made years ago. Now that they are both of age I told her ...

Is it possible to forgive in time even when the trust has been broken?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a falling out. We live together and I broke his trust. He hasn't moved out or anything he's refusing to when in the past he has just left me. Saying he didnt love me anymore and that we were over its only been 5 days. But what ...

Why is it that people cant just be honest with their partners?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Why is it that people cant just be honest with their partners? For instance a guy in my gf's class (Im a junior shes a freshman) told me she flashed him on a bus in junior high and this bothered me. FOUR different times it came up and I asked her if ...

I'm not sure I can be with someone who is so selfish in the bedroom...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I fear I may have been a massive bitch to a boy - so excuse the length, but I need to be honest here if I am to get honest answers back. There was this guy I met at uni about 4 months ago. He was really nice and sweet and we really got on. ...

Need some advice for my mess and his cheating......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Can you advice me? I am at the breaking point cos I don't know what else I can do. Let me explain it to you. I am a deaf mum of 1 kid and live with my hearing partner of 4 years. We are in mid 30's. Since I discovered that he's been cheating on me ...