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41-50,
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writes:I can't understand why I am being so stupid and why I keep doing this to myself.I am a shy 26 year old who has never been with a guy sexually, everyone who knows me thinks I am sheltered and basically thinks it's funny, which is fine. I am trying to work on my confidence and this guy I work with, we flirt all the time, we sort of started kissing on a works night out, I was thrilled, but then nothing happended for about 4 months and he gave me a lift home and we kiseed, more time we on and I realised he just wanted a quick/cheap thrill which I now but I keep doing it because I want to know how it feels, I suppose, he knows I am shy but he said to me that I might act innocent but I'm not, but I am, he doesn't know that I have never had sex and I know I shouldn't go near him but I like his confidence and him but I know it's not going anywhere. I must say we have never kissed at work it has always been away from the office. He says he doesn't have a girlfriend just someone likeme who he sees now and again. I know he is playing me and I should have more respect for myself but I just don't want to say no to him. Am I easy for doing this, I mean each time we met he end up going further than I want, he wants to go down on him but I have refused, I have been told if your going to do that use a condom but lets just say that never enters his head. I am starting to get more comfortbale with kissing and hand jobs but I really don't want to go down on him but I also cant stay away from himSorry - it's a bit long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): Your brain as a female is wired sort of speak to be attracted to a strong confident type.This is the strong bad boy.You will love the excitement and thrills.Bad for you though.He will take advantage of you then he will dump you.Next you will feel cheated and regret will fill your mind and heart.If you just want to learn so you don't feel left out find a more stable guy. this guy is a player.If you can't say no when you mean no than chances are you have an "approval addition".The fear of rejection is so strong that you just can't say no.Joyce meyer has a book approval adition.It's about overcoming your need to please.Read it
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): Being attracted to someone has nothing to do with whether or not they would be a healthy partner for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): Well I'm glad that you've spotted this guy's ways before you get hurt. Seriously, don't do any more with him. Go out there, get a guy that really loves you and leave him at work. You sound a little insecure- do you socialise much? If not, throw yourself out there- its a good way of meeting people. Good luck!
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