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writes: Hello. I am 34 years old. I have been in a relationship for about 11 years with a 46 years old man. Last May I found out that he was taking to this 28 years old girl, married. I spoke with him and he said he stopped. Last month I found out that not only he hadnt stopped but they taken their relationship to a different level. He admitted that he had sexual contact with her several times. I do not know what to do. I feel humiliated, trashed, hurt. But I still have feelings for him. People. help. What should I do???? How do I move on? please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): Please leave him, he is not worth it, if he has sex with other people he may be putting you in danger of stds and not to mentional emotional roller coaster.LEAVE HIM.Move On. Let him realize what he lost, live your life happily and move on,there are guys out there who wouldnt do that honey =)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 December 2009):
You need to focus on your own life now. You know this guy is no good for you at all. He has cheated, lied, and cheated some more. You can do much better than him. Focus on your own life and what you want from him. Do something you've always wanted to do. Anything that will take your mind off him. You will get there and you will meet someone far better than him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): what i meant was I want to leave and move on. But I still have feelings for him.
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