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36-40,
*stochl
writes:I was seeing this guy awhile back, we both weren't ready for a relationship and very immature. After that broke off I found a new guy and ended up falling in love with him. We ended up having a baby on December 4th [ yes just 2 weeks ago ]. But that relationship ended in September. I've been so heartbroken. Each day has seemed long and painful. I never thought I'd get through it. Since a few weeks ago the guy I was with [before the father of My baby] walked back in My life. He's completely changed. We are currently dating, but My ex wants me back as well... What do I do? I love My ex but I'm happy with the new guy!
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reader, sstochl +, writes (18 December 2009):
sstochl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI never regretted having My baby. I love her dearly! And we were trying for a baby at the time. So no use for birth control. I love the father of My daughter. Infact I'm in love with him. But I have very strong feelings with the guy I'm dating
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (18 December 2009):
 and this girls is why they invented contraceptives. So you can clean up the mess that is your social life WITHOUT a baby to make it even more complex.
I can't even keep track of what guy is the one your in love with. Can't you number them?
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (18 December 2009):
 The ex left you not only holding the baby, but having it, now he has decided he wants back in? What has he done to show he is willing to take you and the baby seriously, is he going to marry you and support you both, through thick and thin?
Sounds to me the new guy might be the better option.
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reader, Soja Exiles +, writes (18 December 2009):
 First off, he is not a new guy, he is an old Ex. So basically you are telling me that your new ex is your baby's father, and your old ex is your current boyfriend.Pickle.yes you are immature, that's a good thing that you admit it, I see a lot of drama in the next few years in your life. Keep your old ex as your current boyfriend, your new ex as the babies father.I can tell you what not to do, don't let your old ex play father. if your new ex wants to be involved then he has the right or there will be problems with the two ex's. only if the new ex (the father) rejects the baby, then you need to find a substitute father.Also one more thing, get off your high hoarse, you have a baby now. focus on your baby and get over that soap opera you are living in.
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