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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Did I cheat or did I not cheat? I'm so confused....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Ok, so the guy that I am dating (but he claims we are not in a relationship "JUST dating") stopped speaking to me for two weeks. I thought he was not coming back. History: Long story short, (about 3 years ago) I was married for a year and my no...

My BF doesn't work and is immature, the new guy is a drug dealer. Who do I choose?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - ok i got a problem...ive been with my boyfriend for 1 year and i love him to death, but he dont work he is kinda immatuire and we fight about stupid things...well i met this other guy he is so sweet to me he is all i think about he does everything ...

I want to stay with him him so much. Heart or head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I'm considering ending my relationship of 8 months because I have become so paranoid about my boyfriend cheating. Four months ago he suggested going on a break for a few weeks, and later admitted it was to see another girl who he took on dates and ...

I need some wisdom about why I keep making bad choices! Now a married man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I'am an emotional mess....I dated my first love and everything for almost 5 years...he cheated,lied....you know the deal....i forgave him the 2 times he cheated,,,i always felt resentment but i loved him and decided to continue with him...after all ...

I used to be a strong person but now I feel weak and pathetic! Why can't I stay away from him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I used to be such a strong-willed person. Now I feel weak and pathetic. I really feel like such a mess all because of a guy. I have been in a thing ( i call it a thing because I don't know what it is!) with a guy for many many months now and its ...

What should I do about my vile friend? She's getting mean!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - hello ! i have a freind and shes my best freind and she has started to be mean to me for no apparent reason. she comments on things i say even if they dont involve her she constantly has a little go at me for no reason.today a girl who i am not fon...

He took a day off to spend with friends, but wouldn't do the same to celebrate my birthday - does he care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Please help me. I have this boyfriend and I love him very much but he doesn't seem to care that much about me. Its my birthday coming up and he said that I shouldn't be surprised if he forgets - which upset me because I made a real fuss over h...

I've been supporting us and my boyfriend feels like I'm "attacking" him when I mention him getting a job!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend unofficially for over a year. Our official 1 year anniversary is coming up on July 6th. I'm very happy with him. He is very affectionate, treats me very well, spends lots of time with me and is just all around a ...

He says he loves me and wants to be with me forever, yet he won't commit to me officially!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - i have been with this guy now for over 12months, but we are not a couple, so in other words he wont commit to me and make me his girlfriend, he hasnt met my family and i havent met his, we are both not seeing anyone else and he is very much in love ...

Does my boyfriend really want to be with me at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6025 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 ½ years and I love him very much. We have been discussing living together for the past year, but nothing seems to move forward. Whenever I try to discuss the subject he say’s that he really w...

My girlfriend's background is trashy, rather slutty and I suffer from it. How can I get past this? How can I regain confidence?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Hi, I am 28 yrs old and I am in love with this 24 yrs old british girl with a pretty filled and trashy sexual background. We have been together for 4 months and connected staright away, we are both crazy and very alert but the first times we tried...

Should I go for the one I think I love, or the one who's in a gang?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I really like this guy, we've been best friends for a while now. We had an amazing time the other night. We stayed up all night talking, kissing, cuddling. I was the happiest I have been in a long time. Though, we are not dating, I think I may be ...

How can I gain her trust back and get a second chance with her? Please help I need some good advice....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Please help! Me and my ex girlfriend broke up about 2 months ago now after being together for a year. I love her so much and I want us to get back together, but I dont know how to convince her to give me another chance. The reason for us breaking ...

Please help a guy in love and in need.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Hey everyone...help a guy in love and in need. I've been seeing this girl a good few months now, and tonight we argued a lot...I got/get very angry about her past (she used to be a drug addict), I feel like i'll always come second to the need she ...

It's been this 'back and forth' kind of thing. I need a different outlook.

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30 June 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship off and on for the past two years with a man that I have considered a friend, lover, and family. We have been, so to speak, kindred spirit. I know this sounds silly but it true. The past 6 months we have trid to make...

He misses the excitement, and wants that 'lifestyle' back. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Where do I start? We have been together for almost 20 years, married for 6 years. We have been together 24/7 for most of those 20 years. We worked together, lived together. When we got together, we did not live together or work togethe...

I just want my husband to show some affection, he thinks by cleaning the house it shows he cares...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - i have been with my husband for 12 yrs. he never show`s me he cares, he says he can`t show his feeling`s. i have tried to except it but i can`t. i don`t feel loved, wanted, i just feel i have no one. he is never there for me. i have to cope with thin...

I love her. She's the light of my life. But when she won't even let me have some fellowship with my friends in peace, it really does drive me away...any advice???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 6 years, as of this past April. We have a good relationship, by my reckoning. We have 1 son, who is 3 years old. I like to go out and try new restaurants, whereas she doesn't. I like to have friends over for...

I love him but he is being really cruel to me...should I file for a divorce??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - For the past few months my husband has been threatening divorce, and it's been really lowering my self-esteem. We got married and moved to the states this year. He is able to work, and I wasnt able to work since I had no authorization. Recently, I ...

How can I talk about this sensitive issue with my boyfriend without him feeling like I'm insulting or looking down upon his parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - My boyfriend's parents are in deep financial trouble. They are about to lose their house because they cannot pay their mortgage and I think they are spending frivolously. They have a practically brand new car that belongs to his mom that just sits ...

What would happen if the police caught a 30 year old kissing a 15 year old???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - what would happen if the police caught a 30year old kissing a 15year old?? ...

My partner is controlling and lies to me. Should I leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6027 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I need help, I found out my partner was arranging to meet by text someone they met online for real for coffee, it was all hugs and kisses texts, and they said lets meet coffee, then I found out and said what is it going to be me or that coffee, they ...

Is my drinking, lying boyfriend using me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm with my boyfriend 2 years. He is very jelous and controlling. He doesn't let me go to the pub with my girlfriend, he ask all the time where i was what i do, callind all the time to check. he likes drink and argue with me to have excuse to go ...

How do I stop feeling inferior to his ex? Am I too sensitive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. In the beginning, he said he was friends with his ex-girlfriend. They were together for six years. I started dating him knowing this and being okay with it. I'm friends with one of my exes too. ...

I have to keep backing of because she suspects us! How should I handle this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Hi, after 27yrs i have full circled and meet up with my First love, who i fell inlove with when i was 14yrs old and he 17yrs old, We will call him J. i was married for 13yrs to another man had 3 children that were not his but he brought them up. ...

My husband has severe anger and control issues, will this ever change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Help, my husband of only 1 1/2 years is very controlling, he does not let me have any friends and has even made me give up my best friend. He swears at me and calls me names on a daily basis and even insults my kids. I don't want to be without him ...

Getting married in a month, but I don't love my fiance! I know we'll be divorced in a couple of years....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - My fiancee and I have been together for almost 11 years, engaged for a year and a half, and are getting married in a month. I don't think I have ever really loved her. Its hard to summarize our history, there's a lot and not much of it is pretty....

My Boyfriend Is Pulling Away...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - If anyone has advice or is in a similar situation, I would really appreciate your comments or feedback. I've been with my boyfriend for a year a few months - and believe me, it has been a rocky relationship. We sort of got off to a rocky start: w...

Can you forgive after cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6027 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - Four months ago I got back together with my ex,who is a good friend that I've known all my life. We never made it official, because we knew the relationship was going to have to end soon when she left town for 6 months. Despite this we agreed to be ...

I believe my husband is afraid to stand up to his ex and concentrate more on our family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - I have three children, and two step children. MY ex is out of the picture and we have zero contact with him. I moved in with my now husband three years ago, and since his two daughters and ex-wife make my life hell. I moved in to the house that he s...

My boyfriend still gets mad about stuff I did in the past. Help me please!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

28 June 2008 (?) - Hi, I have some issues, I feel totally lost, like I don't know where I'm going in this relationship! Ok, my bf and I have had our issues because he asked about my past early in the relationship, and I lied about it, and later when I came clean, he b...

He says he wants to be with me but won't leave his mum!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Myself and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 years. he is 27, and im 18. Im looking for a job now ive left college because i want some independance and my own place to live- hopefully with my boyfriend. He isnt on a very good wage in his ...

I spoke to another man and it seems to have ruined everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6027 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - In my nine year relationship I messed up. I began talking to another man. There was no sex involved but just alot of talking and we worked together. We never hung out we went to a dinner break at work once. My boyfriend found out and I told him I ...

When is watching porn considered an addiction?? I'd love to hear LIERON's views....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Thank you guys for responding to my question: Is it normal for him to want other women? I'd love to hear what LIERON has to say-she seems pretty liberal about porn. I forgot to mention that he masturbates to porn daily, sometimes more, when is ...

I get really nervous in sexual situations...should I continue to feel this way...or make a change???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - I never really had a bad sexual experience but I am still really nervous in sexual situation. Sometimes I dread the idea of being sexual. I've never masturbated and have always preferred just kissing to other acts. I would rather give than receive ...

I want to end my relationship with him but I love him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - i really need help with this. i met my boyfriend 2months ago and we barely know each other before dating.he told me he was an investor and he loves spending and he was also a young millonaire. we met through myspace and hookd up and afterwards ...

I'm working hard to ensure my teen daughter's educational future, but she doesn't appreciate it nor cares! What should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - hello to everyone. i need some advice ASAP my daughter is only 15 she is now crazy about her bf who is only 18 years old and know nothing but only to smoke and drink. my daughter is now on he first stage of university but she is getting crazy now ...

Why did he stop speaking to me all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I just got out of a bad relationship. It's been hard for me, but I overcame it finally and my life is being put back together. I still think about my ex, but I don't care for how he did me. I datd him for a year and some months, everything was going ...

I've been married for 6 weeks and its the biggest mistake I've ever made...how quickly can I get a divorce??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - hi am only married 6 weeks and its the biggest mistake i have ever made want to know how quick i can get a divorce since am only married a short time?...

Does anybody believe that these bad signs mean that I shouldn't move??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I am due to move in with my boyfriend of 1 year in the next few weeks. I have been really excited up until about 3 weeks ago and now I am petrified!!! So many things have gone wrong which are making me worried that they are signs that moving is a ...

Help! I might want to break up and still love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We have lived together (rented) for two years and have two cats together. We have the same friends and our families love us. I have been feeling uncertain about us for about 5 months and now it's get...

My new online dating guy is ignoring me--what should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I met this guy through an internet dating site, and we've seen each other 3 times... and had sex. I last saw him last week, and he said he didn't need to go on the site anymore, which I took to mean because he liked me. He said he'd call on ...

My free-loading bf left me and our daughter! Should I ask for money?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I have a relationship problem that I would like advice with. My boyfriend and the father of my child has left me. We had a disagreement about money. The way things are is that I pay all the bills, rent, food, childcare costs (we both work), heating, ...

I feel I am probably losing her - what can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - Hi, I met my girlfriend in high school. We went to college in the same city. After college I bought an apartment and we moved together. We have been together for 10 years. I am her only serious boyfriend. We are the best friend of each other an...

Think I made a mistake getting married? Good advice needed please..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - hi everyone, I am worry about my marriage. We got on great prior to marriage, when my husband propose to me i was in shock to be honest as i did not expect this, I had my doubts prior to marriage but put it down to nerves. I had strong fe...

We are both in relationships but I like him. Does he really care about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - just wanted some advice. I have been working with J for two years. I love him. We both have partners but have said we are unhappy. We have always been there for each other etc.... I am leaving soon ( in three months) and i love him so much I ...

We have a second child on the way but he prefers to live like a single man. Any advice please. Help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - My husband never has time for me but always for his friends, going out, drinking, weekends away with friends etc. We have been together for 3.5 years, have been married nearly a year, have a 2 yo and next baby on the way. I feel he still has ...

My fiance of 9 yrs has split with me and I don't really know why! He has cut all contact with me. Whats going on???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Hi i need some advice, i was with my ex partner nearly 9 years, and we got engaged at xmas (he did this, it was not planned)... i was so happy and wanted to arrange a marriage, this is when things turned horrible - he said he didnt consider getting ...

Diminishing relationship..How can I spruce it up? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - How can I spice up my relationship? Ive been with this guy for just over a year now but he seems to have lost interest. Its like hes too tired and pre-occupied to show me any attention. Im only young, in my early 20's...and feel i deserve to be ...

I need some cheating boyfriend advice about catching them in the act. Can anyone help??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - My Story: Ive been with this guy now for well over a year, I gave up everything for him to move interstate so he could be round his family and friends and Ive given my absolute all to the relationship. About 6 months ago I checked his email to find ...