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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i really need help with this. i met my boyfriend 2months ago and we barely know each other before dating.he told me he was an investor and he loves spending and he was also a young millonaire. we met through myspace and hookd up and afterwards started chating. the first time i met him{i went to his place}what i saw wasnt what i expected because to me he seemd pretty normal to me.he told me he had a car and all but gives excuses each time it was his turn to come pick me up.i wanted him to feel comfortable with me so oneday i asked him if there was something he wanted to tell me, and he said nothing, that he wasnt hidding anything from me and i told him that i was suspecting something he and demanded what it was but i couldnt just say ''hey babe uv u got a car?''.i didnt want him to be embarrased by that {daz if doesnt have a car}. so one day after sayin again that i was suspecting something ,and he got upset and asked me to tel him but i couldnt, and he got upset again and told me if have got something to say that i should.but i didnt have the courage to tel him so i told him goodbye and hugged up. few mintues later he sent a text message to me saying i was a bad person and stuff n he eventually broke up with me. it was after then that i actaully told him what i wanted to tel him through a txt message. he asked why i couldnt tel him straight off if he had a car and i said that i didnt want him feeling embarrased but he got more upset with me. we eventually got back together and i told him that i was sorry, that i didnt mean to hurt him and he said okay. the next saturday i went to see him. we talked on fone and i askd him to get somethings for me {am sorry but i cnt say} and he got quite upset den brought up the car incident and that he doesnt trust or belive me anymre and stuff. lately he's been acting differently and our relationship is not as lively as before. we rarely talk and all. i think there's more to it but i dnt knw what to do. he asked how many guys are on my msn and yahoo and i told him, and he asked my password of which i gave to him. he asked how many guyz have slept with after him and i ask if he didnt trust me and he said no. he said i love playing games with people and he wanted to make our relationship work, but am not ready for that.plz help me! wot shuld i do cuz i wona end my relationship with him but i love him.wot shuld i do.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (28 June 2008):
 your too young to be worrying about meeting people on myspace. Especially when they state they are someone they are not. Change your passwords. No one should have your password, and being in a relationship doesn't give them an excuse to have it.
I believe this relationship with him needs to end. He can't be honest with you, until he begins being honest with himself.
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