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*lainee
writes:I need help, I found out my partner was arranging to meet by text someone they met online for real for coffee, it was all hugs and kisses texts, and they said lets meet coffee, then I found out and said what is it going to be me or that coffee, they said me, they say they deleted the texts, buy they keep the number in the phone and delete texts before they come home, and say they just delete there text do not read them.we are having problems, my partner is controlling, and mental stuff to me, and my life is on hold, me I cannot go anywhere without questions, and Most of my friends have gone now as my partner did that, I feel depressed and my life now nothing, my friends see my partner that I do have and they say, that my partner is controlling, and fake, leave, get out now, but are they just saying that. what shall I do, am I over reacting, I feel lost, want to live again , have friends again, I have no life anymore it seems, I cannot do anything without problems also. What should I do, no kids involved just us. I am very unhappy, I do not trust him at all, and feel trapped and lied to. Should I leave, I feel lost. Elaine
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 June 2008):
Well it's up to you.
If you don't like it and think your friends were right about him then leave him. Why did you think they were wrong or "just saying it"?
If you love him too much to leave, then stay with him and put up with the situation. He's not going to change so get used to it really.
You can either go and get your life back or stay.
Simple choice really.
Good Luck!! xx
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