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Archived questions from: 18 July, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I being oversensitive or am I doing the right thing ending the friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - My good friend of 4 years moved up to my city about a month ago. Up until then I saw her every few months for weekends as she lived in other towns with her now soon to be ex husband. A gorgeous guy I had been on a few dates with suddenly stopped...

I just don't believe him because why would he give this chick his telephone number and speak to her 3 times on the phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm 23 and have been with my fiance for 2 years in the beginning of our relationship he cheated on me 2 times and just last week I found out he met some girl in San Francisco when he was away on business. He swears up and down that they just ...

When a guy is in a serious relationship but watches porn and masturbates every day does that mean he is sick and tired of his girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - When a guy is in a serious relationship but watches porn and masturbates every day does that mean he is sick and tired of his girl, even though he tells her how much he loves her everyday? ...

My husband's personal hygiene is bad!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - My husband's personal hygiene is bad. He doesn't change his underwear everyday. I've tried to help him with it, but he just seems to go blank if its mentioned. He just wears the same undies day in day out and they smell horribly. I've kept washin...

My Friend who turns out to be a lesbian told my boyfriend I hated him.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I need major help!!! My Friend who turns out to be a lesbian told my boyfriend I hated him..... days before my friend told him not to listen to her and he did! Now he won't answer my phone calls or emails, I am speechless and I never thought he ...

I've tried finishing things but I see him everyday and can't stop myself from loving him. I dont know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I have been seeing my boss for the last two years. I'm 22 and he is 32. The whole time he has been telling me he loves me but would never let me meet any of friends. In january I found out he had been seeing someone for the last 9 months. I was ...

Why does my boyfriend always stay quiet towards me and is opened up to his mates and not me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6341 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I need help... Why does my boyfriend always stay quiet towards me and is opened up to his mates and not me... I don't get it this really hurts me... all we say is hi bye I luv you, I miss you ntng n da buh I always put effort in and always tell him ...

I really want to take it to the next level but don't want to scare him away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - Hi there, me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months now. We've known each other for about 5 years. We are excellent friends and always have a laugh when we are together. The problem is I feel he just wants to be friends and nothing ...

My husband recently confessed to me that on occasions while out of town working he has looked at internet porn in order to masturbate.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6341 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - My husband recently confessed to me that on occasions while out of town working he has looked at internet porn in order to masturbate. He travels for work about a week at a time once every 1 to 3 months. He says he looks at it only for ten minutes ...

My mum and dad hate him so I've not told them I've been seeing him again because they'd flip!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I've been in an on and off relationship for 4 years. I have a son to this man. We have had ups and downs, our parents are involved. Well mine are more involved. My parents hate this man and they think it's over completely but it's not. I hate ...

20 years later and I'm pregnant again!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - Ok, well I have a serious question. I am in my late 30's, been married 20 years, have 2 step sons from my husband's side. Never been on birth control, never used condoms, so for twenty years I have never been pregnant. I had a brief fling 6 ye...

I have been married for 16 1/2 years and I have a 15 year old son. I want out of my relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6341 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I have been married for 16 1/2 years and I have a 15 year old son. I want out of my relationship. The problem is: I have no place to go as my family lives in Georgia. The cost of living here is outrageous. Me being a woman I have to have 2 good p...

I know that he deals with anger by displacing it on others and I don't want to be the one he takes it out on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6341 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in relationship with a man who has problems communicating. When he is angry, instead of discussing what's wrong he will displace his frustrations by making mean or negative comments and avoid the real issue. Recently a close...

I've been seeing this girl for four months now and the relationship is beginning to do my head in.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I've been seeing this girl for four months now and the relationship is beginning to do my head in. She refuses to give me any space at all! The lack of space has especially become a problem in the last month or so -- she's been pretty much want...

Would you continue to date a girl who was sexually assualted by her male friend at a club?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (M) - I have an open question, I've known this girl for a month, Would you continue to date a girl who was sexually assualted by her male friend at a club? She said it was rape, but I didn't think so in my opinion because she doesn't have any anger ...

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up about 6 months ago because he wanted to see what else was out there, but he said he still loved me very much... now he has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6341 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up about 6 months ago because he wanted to see what else was out there, but he said he still loved me very much and for me to give him the time he needs. Well I have tried to but I have sent him so many emails until we ...

I love my boyfriend but I am not sure if the love is what it was when we first got together.. and I think, given the option, I would leave for this other guy in an instant, if he wanted me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I am in a relationship with an older man, I am 24 he is 52.. We have been together for 3 years and and have been lving together for 2 and a half years.. I moved 320 miles away from my family to be with him.. Things are good for us, we have a good ...

I have recently met somebody double my age on the internet and I really like him and would like to have a relationship with him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6341 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I am 18 and have been with my boyfriend for four years. However I have recently met somebody double my age on the internet and I really like him and would like to have a relationship with him. Please help I don't know what to do....

I don't know whether I still want to be with him... we're just so different, he stresses out and shouts at me quite a lot, then makes it out like he's hard done by, which makes me feel guilty.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months, but I don't know whether I still want to be with him... we're just so different, he stresses out and shouts at me quite a lot, then makes it out like he's hard done by, which makes me feel guilty. H...

I am sad when thinking about not being friends with her, but I can't watch her ruin her life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - A friend of mine for the last 10 years is a really bad alcoholic, she's got a 2 1/2 year old daughter, she's a single mom, the dad is nowhere to be found. The state gave up the dad's rights because they couldn't find him. She's neglecting her kid ...

My boyfriend says I have caused him too much pain by not trusting him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I have been in 3yr relationship w/my boyfriend.I have been very untrusting of him.He told me several times to stop but I didn't and now because of my trust issues I have driven him away, he won't be affectionate at all to me, says I've hurt him and ...

He broke up with me to have sex with another girl and now wants me back

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 16 year old female. I have been dating the same guy for about 2 years now. We get along great and we really love each other. But he is afraid of commitment, so when he gets scared or needs space he just breaks up with me. But ...

How do you make a man feel guilty when he gets in an aggresive/attackig mood?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (M) - Is it true that some women are good at making the man feel guilty when they get in to aggressive / attacking mood, even when it is for the right reasons? What should be done to deal with them? ...

My boyfriend ignores me and when I ask him to do something with me he sighs and says, "If I have to."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I am just wanting to know what other people think about this.. I stay with my boyfriend... After he has been at work all day he comes in gives me a kiss and goes straight on the laptop. Doesnt ask how i am or how my day has been. When I ask him h...

I think he wants me to end it so he wont look like the bad guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - Hi I really need some advice. my boyfriend of 8 years told me he doesn't know if he loves me any more and refuses to discuss it any further so I am in limbo and dont know what to do. We also have absoloutly no sex life even though I try to initiate...

Since I moved in with him, he is jealous and controlling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - Hi, i have just recently moved in with my boyfriend of 6 months, we got along great and i needed direction. But now that we are living together everything is different, he is different, he is very jealous, i am not allowed to go anywhere alone, not ...

We used to get together all the time, now she says she is too tired or busy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (M) - I have started a new relationship with a woman of 28 and I am 36. We got together just under 3 months ago, she works for a customer of mine and asked me out after and we got on very well. Everything started out fine. I visited her after work, we ...

He is texting an emailing other girls and lying about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - Hi there....I dont know how to put this across. I think my bf of 2n half yrs might be cheating or has been cheating on me. A few months back, he got a txt late at night so i asked him who it was from, he told me " its Kyle from work" so i believed ...

Should I stay or walk away for good? Because of him, I have become a misserable, lonely, and pathetic nobody.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - Should I Stay or Walk Away for Good? I have been in tthe best loving happy relationship you could imagine for 8yrs then the next 2 have been difficult due to financial problems. This last year hs been the worst year of my life and ive been tre...

My boyfriend gets mad because I never have anything to talk about!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6341 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend gets mad because I never have anything to talk about!!! When were on the phone and we have a good conversation he asks me what do I want to talk about and I always say I don't know because I really don't have anything to talk about. I ...

He treats his friends like they are more important than me. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - Okay, so me and my boyfriend usually spend a lot of time together, he'd call everynight and text me all day. Now, he tells me he can't come over because he doesn't have a ride, but 30 minutes later he tells me he's at a party or a friend's house. He ...

She's really confusing me, she wants me then she doesn't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (M) - My case's sorta complicated... We started hangin' out a couple months ago, things were going fine 'till she complained to me that she thought I was 'kiddin around' with her. ok things were solved. Things were going well again.. but a little tim...

Should I be upset that my boyfriend watches porn on the internet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - Should I be upset that my boyfriend watches porn on the internet? Ok, so my boyfriend of 10 months every night before he goes to bed goes to at least 3 porn websites and masturbates. I am kinda uncomfortable that he watches naked women while I am ...

How do I deal with a man that walked out on a six and a half year relationship but continues to hang around making it hard for me to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - How do I deal with a man that walked out on a six and a half year relationship but continues to hang around making it hard for me to get over him? He says that he wants to be with me but he has not come back home. What do I do because I am still ...

Now, they both wanna be with me, but I dunno who to choose. Should I go with my past, or should I try something new?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I was in a relationship with A for 5 years and we have a 2 year old girl together. We've been broken up for about 2 months, but we still mess around. We argue a lot and he's very protective. He wants to be with me, but I don't know what I want. I...

I don't think I love my girlfriend any more... Meanwhile another girl has come on the scene!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 July 2007 (M) - I (mid thirties) have been living with my girlfriend for the past 4 years, I don't think I love her anymore and I don't find her attractive. I was recently introduced to a girl at a party and can think of nothing but her at the moment. I have been ...