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Archived questions from: 28 July, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why do I keep pushing him away, picking fights, and how do I know he is the right one for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6331 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I am 40 and have been dating the same man for a year and a half. I love him a great deal but our relationship has always moved very slowly, which is very unusual for me. We only said the "L" word a month or so ago and have never said it since. We ...

my wife wanted to know my past, now she cant handle it. help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - my wife and I are married 2 years. since the begining she has asked about my sexual past. not really feeling comfortable with this I reluctantly started to discuss my past. I am one that believes in not discussing this. my wife wants to know how ...

I'm just so scared of losing him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Hi this is following my question I wrote the other day. It was titled "I have developed a need to be with my husband, I miss him even when he's at work" They may not be the exact words but I posted it on the 26th July if that helps. Anyway...

I'm craving the affection my husband doesn't give me and have been offered it from my first love; what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I get no affection from my husband at all. We have been married 15 years. Recently I came in contact with my first love.I want to see him really badly. I'm not sure if this is the thing I should do since I have been getting alot of effection from my ...

My husband loves me, but he is horrible at showing affection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - So I have been with my husband for five years and we just got married last month. He is the perfect husband other then the fact that he has A HORRIBLE time showing affection. I've confronted him many times over the years about this and he will be ...

I think I'm acting normal, but he thinks I'm cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Am I jealous or is my fiance jealous? My fiance always says that I get jealous. If getting a little angry and annoyed if he checks out and acts differently around attractive blondes is jealous then maybe I am. But isn't he jealous when I go out to a ...

He says I'm being silly. I say he's mad that I went out. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Should I apologize? My fiance went away for a few days and on a friday night i called him and he was at the bar at the hotel. i felt stupid for sitting home watching t.v. on a friday night so I said I was going to go out too by myself. I am new to ...

Should I try again for the sake of the baby??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I'm 32 and have been with my boyfriend [he's 36] for 5 months. He has 2 children from a previous relationship. I have found out recently I am pregnant, it is my first child. I have always lived a very independant life but since meeting him, I have ...

I feel she's pressuring me into marriage but I'm just not ready yet.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - We're almost breaking up with my gal now since I requested her to wait since am yet not ready for marriage as I feel my self. I am 25 she is 30. She says time is running out and she is ready. We've been dating for the last year and a half now. How ...

At first sex was fine and wasn't an issue but now she dosen't seem interested in it at all.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for going on 2 years now but somthing's not right at all. At first sex was fine and wasn't an issue but now she dosen't seem interested in it at all. We still get on really well and are very much in love but ...

Am I being selfish here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 6 years had a row. We lived togetheher (house in his name). Both decided I should move back to my parents. I did. He also bought me a car (he is self employed and earns a comfortable life). That was left behind. At the time...

I keep lying to my boyfriend and it's now getting out of hand. How can I stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I recently met this guy that I like a lot, but I don't know what's wrong with me. I keep telling lies. Like I made up this guy to get him jealous and I ended up making up that he went too far so I hit him. I even cut my hand to make it look like I ...

Recently he rung me asking me not to get in contact for some bazzar reason but then after 2 weeks he rung and I was so happy for about a week..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Hii... I'm 17 years of age, and I was in a 5 month relationship which fell to pieces and then I got over it when somebody else came along. He had a girlfriend and I asked him about her and he told me he had left her. We started seeing each other ...

He wouldn't use the words "breaking up" or "dumping", but that's pretty much what happened. I'm distraught.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Hi all. I'm new here, and in need of some advice. My boyfriend (my ex now, I guess) and I have been together for 10 months. Things were a bit rocky when we first started dating, in that I knew he was very different from anyone I'd dated and I wasn...

Could my ex have been right? Is she really going to dump me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6330 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - My ex-girlfriend (whom I can't stand) and I got into a fight the other day (this isn't the first time this has happened) so I blocked her on AIM. A few days later she told my girlfriend about the fight and she said she was going to dump me. I ...

After 30 years of marriage my husband confessed to a one night stand (20 years ago).

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - After 30 years of marriage my husband confessed to a one night stand (20 years ago). His behavior during the first 20 years of marriage was selfish (did what he wanted all the time) without regard to me and our children. His actions in those years ...

I fall for guys really easy and have 2 that like me just now, I just don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I'm 14 and fall for guys really easy. I have a guy back home wanting to make a go of me and him but I was back in England (in Spain atm) we always hit off, got along and everything but earlier this week I met a guy and he´s eveything I want. He is ...

A while ago I found out my girlfriend kissed another guy at a party, she didn't tell me about this, I found out through a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - A while ago I found out my girlfriend kissed another guy at a party, she didn't tell me about this, I found out through a friend. She said he kissed her and she didn't kiss him. I'm finding it hard to believe because she didn't tell me about this, I ...

I'm bussing everywhere. But I'm scared witless, as I've never travelled more than 50 miles on my own.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I'll soon be going on holiday with my boyfriend and his parents. Let's call him P. He lives in Kent now, his parents live in Birmingham and I live in Cornwall. See the problem already arising? The original plan was: P picks me up, we go back, ...

He spends far too much time round at his ex's house and I feel I can't put up with it any longer.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we don't live together but we spend a couple of nights each week at each others home. I love him very much. He is very quiet and I'm the opposite I guess. I'm beginning to get bored as he rarely makes me ...

I did ask to see him this weekend but he never called me. I feel like my world is ending as all my friends have boyfriends and now I have no one.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - hi I'm Katie, I'm 20 years old and was in a relationship for the past year and half, I loved my partner very much and I decided I would not carry on my career I have always wanted to do so I could make it work with him, as I would ha...

I have no idea what I should do about this. Can anyone help?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - I have no idea what I should do about this. After years of denying her feelings, my first love confessed how much she loved me. We originaly split up after she cheated on me and got her mate to call me while she was having sex with someone else. ...

I've never cheated on anyone ever and don't understand why these feelings are so strong....help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Any advice would be gratefully received.... I'm a woman in my mid thirties with three children and a lovely man in my life. Recently a new guy started work where I do. The attraction was almost instant and as the weeks have gone by the flirting...

Back together now but everytime we argue he throws 'past issues' in my face. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had a very up and down relationship. He's about 6 years younger than me, and when we first got together, everything was perfect. He was thoughtful, caring, did everything and anything to make me happy. We started having ...

She has so many problems..but I can't get her out of my head! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - I met a girl who I posted about here: http://dearcupid.org/question/i-met-this-girl-about-4-months-ago.html and now she's even more f**ked up then I thought. On top of being bulemic, anorexic, suicidal, self-harming, she's also appar...

My cultural tradition is, we look after our elderly parents..my husband wants them out! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - i've been with my husband for 12 years married for 10 years we have 4 children. I come from a filipino family and it is our tradition that we take care of our parents. my husband and i have been living with my parents for the last 4 years while he ...

Do I still love my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Im about to turn 18 and start college soon and i have this boyfriend and well i came to realize i dont think i like him anymore. Now this would be easy for me to break up with him but we been togetther for a while and he really loves me and has done ...