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Archived questions from: July, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He doesn't even eat them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - what should i do if all my boyfriend ever talks about is fruit and vegetables?...

I hate my best friends bf! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - hi there i was wondering what to do you see its a very long story but ive got this mate who ive known for a long time shes the same age as me 15 and shes just got her first proper boyfriend and hes absolutly horrible he takes the mikey out of her l...

I love him to pieces but how do we get over our awkward shyness with each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6309 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Hey well the guy i like fancies me too, but we only get to see each other once a week. Also it has got a bit awkward between us ever since we told each other we liked them. But we're trying to sort things out as both of us really want it to work. Th...

Help! I love my girlfriend, but can't seem to get over my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - I had a horrible fight with my g/f of 2 yrs. and she was in the process of packing up her things up until I talked her into staying. When I was out of town, she was copying some of our picturs onto a CD when she ran across a CD I had stored some old ...

Why would my fiance want to leave me for his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My fiance and his ex-girlfriends shares a son together. things are awesome between us, maybe fought twice in 3 years. He was with his ex for 10 years and they fought almost everyday. we are 3 months from getting married. His ex confessed to him ...

My boyfriend lied to me about his porn. How can I trust him now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I'm having big trust issues with my boyfriend right now. We've been together for about a year and a half. The problems all started about a year ago. I found some "questionable" pornographic pictures saved on his computer, which I promptly ...

He makes me feel guilty if I can't hang out with him. I want to stay with him but I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 7 months and everything was going well until he started talking about us getting married after college, we are getting ready to start our senior year in college, and it freaked me out. He also makes me ...

He has lied to me before, so now he says he wants privacy and I dont trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for a year and some months. We have lived together for a year. He has lied to me a couple times before about dumb things, like giving his number out to girls and denying ever talking to them. In my past ...

Recently split from my husband and now he has plastered semi-nude photos of me on the walls of the house. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I split from my husband about six months ago and moved out of our house, hoping I could figure out why I have fallen out of love with him. I still go home to help him with the monthly finances, and just to see how he's doing, but about a month ...

He keeps changing his mind about our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6310 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - should i finish with my boyfriend as he never wants to spend time with my children and always changes his mind about our relationship? one minute he tells me we should move in together, and the next that he needs time to get his head around the ...

My boyfriend mentioned the fantasy of a threesome and I cant get over it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend said, that like any guy, a part of him wants to have a threesome, But he doesnt really want to do anything to the other girl, just me. Well Of course I made a really wierd face because I didnt know that he had thought of having a ...

My girlfriend allows her ex and her kids to talk to her like she is a dog

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - My girlfriend has been divorced since 1998 and has two boys. She still pays his bills for him (ex husbands), cleans his pool, and allows him to talk to her like she is a dog. If he calls her and she don't answer, he will call until she does. He lies ...

He ignored my calls and I said we should just be friends, but I dont know if I did the right thing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for 4 months and he sais he loves. We have been friends for 4 years before that. He alwayed text me every day and phoned me most and told me to not stop texting him but last weekend i heard nothing from him and he ignored my ...

I don't know how this is all gonna end?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I've been having an interesting relationship with a man who's married...well it's a whole lot a mess with this dude but it never really effected me and still his before life is no issue except for all the kids he already has... I believe I was told ...

Is this normal that my boyfriend should be as close to his ex???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. He has a few friends that are females. One is an ex girlfriend. When they get together it's to help her around her house. Mowing lawn, cleaning patio etc. she then makes him dinner as a thank you ...

people are saying we're incest and inbreads but we're neither.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I am 16 and when I was 13 my step brother and I started going out. I had fancied him for ages and when he asked me out I was so pleased. I didn't really think anything would come of it, I thought it would probably last a couple of weeks or ...

Please can you help me get some direction in my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - I have been married for the past 18 years and love my family very much. Recently my wife moved out of the house because we were having some finanacial problems but I think that there's more to that. I have been trying very hard to bring my family ...

She seems very stern about breaking up, should I continut to work on our relationship or just let her go her own way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I started out as freinds for over 2 years. We have been dating for 8 months. She is a recovering alcoholic and most of these 8 months has been hell. After a day of drinking she would lose her temper over nothing and cause huge ...

I am tired of my relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I am tired of my relationship.. I am tired of being the one holding out our relationship together.. I feel so much pressure.. I feel that if I stop trying, we'll eventually split up... It is so much work.. I was expecting a more normal ...

He is my best friend and I love him more than anything...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I'm not sure what to do.... So I have been seeing this guy for two years now... We dont have a boyfriend girlfriend relationship... We have everything you would have in a boyfriend girlfriend relationship except the title.... We had that kind of ...

Why won't he tell me what went on in Amsterdam???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Can someone explain this to me because im totally confused!! Recently, my boyfriend of 4 years has gone to Amsterdam with his work for a global meeting. I asked about what has happened there, and he sounded hesitant at first to tell me. I asked...

How do I know if he is in love with me? Is it worth giving up everything to be with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend does not love me enough. We are currently in a long distance relationship, and I am willing to change my whole life to move in with him, but he does not seem to be doing anything for me. I know love is all about giving, ...

I tried to give him some space but I don't want to feel that I have to tread on eggshells with my boyfriend or feel that he doesn't even want to be with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6313 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - Okay so I've been going out with his guy for a while now about a week. And the other night at a party he told me he really liked me and asked if he could kiss me, and we did. But for the past two days or so he has spoke to me very little, and hasn't ...

I need more than a phone to hold at night, I need for HIM to be here!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I'm really scared for no reason, I guess my fiance went through depression and we have an off and on long distance relationship and we were supposed to get married this month but he wanted to save up some more money but I know that's the level ...

My gf is not putting out and doesn't know if she still loves me. Should I see where the interesting girl at work might lead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - Ok, so its me again, but this time with a whole new problem. Ok so ever since the last time i asked for help, me and my girlfriend have been doing fine. we've been dating for 16 months as of tomorrow. the other day she told me that she didnt know if ...

I don't want to be with him but he wants to be with me so bad. What do i do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - HI, i was involved in a realationship for two years and moved on from that into another one with a really nice guy. yes we had our fights but always got through them for the short time we were together. i dont want to be in a relationship right now. ...

Should I put up with him going on 2 month long vacations without me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Am I overreacting? I live with my fiance and he said that he thinks we spend too much time together like any other couple that lives together and that we are starting to take each other for granted. So, therefore, he thinks the vacations that he has ...

My partner changed jobs, and now I don't think I see him often enough...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6315 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I have been seeing my partner for 14 months. He is a chef and when we met he was living and working in the same town. I have my children on alternate weeks and when they were not with me, I spent the week with my partner. He would come out to me ...

In love with my best friend's ex-girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - In love with my best friend's ex-girlfriend It's taken me some time to realize this but I am in love with my best friend's ex-girlfriend. The thing is, I am reasonably sure that she has no interest in me at all, she sees me as one of her best f...

We're still very much newly weds, we shouldn't be having problems like this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I just caught my husband who just cheated on me like 2 weeks ago in yet another lie about hiding his porn!! If you've read my last post you saw that my husband of not even 7 months yet, cheated on me (had an emotional affair and kissed his ex while ...

Whenever I suggest doing something with my friends or family she seems to get really stressed about it...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6315 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I are in our late 40's. We have been living together for about 7 months and have talked openly about marriage in the next year or so. The problem I have is that whenever I suggest doing something with my friends or family she seems ...

Should I ignore her a little now when I see her or would that just make her think "Good now I'm rid of him"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6315 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - There is this girl (A LOT Younger) I'm chatting to that got pissed because I flirted with her but she didn't mind at first. Later I did it again and then she did not want to talk anymore and was supposed to send me a pic and said she's not going to ...

Has my boyfriend been cheating on me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I'm 17 and am in my first relationship that has become sexual. My boyfriend (18)and I have been together since February of this year but I was told by a not-so-close guy friend (who doesn't like my boyfriend but has no known interest in me) that a ...

My wife talks to him on her cell phone every night till 3am!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - My wife and I have been married for nine years and I've just found out she's been cheating, the thing is he calls her every night on her cell phone and they talk till 3am every night, I confronted her and she says she won't stop talking to him, ...

How can I change my mood and stop thinking these crazy things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I’ve been in a relationship for almost 4 years and I love my boyfriend to death. My main problem is mostly with myself. A lot of the time I’m creating scenarios in my head that I know aren’t true (and I have no reason to suspect that they are) about ...

I told him i thought i might be pregnant and he has gone out drinking.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years, I'm a student nurse and I think I'm pregnant althoguht we have been careful (I'm going to do a test tonight) Recently things between us haven't been the same he's started drinking more and tonight I told ...

She's pregnant with our baby and is telling me she needs space from me.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6315 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - Hi there, My girlfreind and I have found out that we are expecting a baby, She is approximately 14 weeks gone. However she now tells me she doesn't know how she feels about me, and that she just needs space and time to see if things change. I...

We have twins together but i like his friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6315 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I have been with my boybriend for 6 years and we have twin girls together. We have not had a very good relationship. We have a mutual friend and about two years ago I started to develop feeling for him. I tried to forget about him and the feeling ...

Am I a mug for letting it get this far? Does the fact I've been off sex justify him contacting other girls in this way even if he has no intention of doing anything with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Would really appreciate an objective opinion or two on this one. I really don't know what I should do. I've been with my boyfriend for four years now, and over the last 6-12 months things have been getting a bit mundane. We just talk about bills...

He does not seem to want to spend any time with us.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend spends loads of time wih his mate, I'm talking five to eight hours a day. Is it normal we've been on and off as a couple for five years and he asked me back a month ago, He works comes home and goes to his mates house, I'm left at home...

Why does she call me bad names all the time, or why do I get the feeling that she doesn't want to see me happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I want to know why my mom is so against me? the reason I ask is because she only has two kids but, your mom is supposed to be there for you when no one is. But in my case my mom never helps me, she always talks bad about me, if I need help with ...

We have been together ten months and i want to marry him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Why am I in such a rush to get married? Okay, I am 21 years old and I have been with my guy for 10 months. We fight frequently have almost broken up a few times but have gotten through it. Even after all of the times that he makes me want to pull...

I love my boyfriend, but i want his mum.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - hi there, i am young and scared and also confused! i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years now and for the past year i have had sexual fantasies abou his mum. my question: am i gay ...or am i not? i dont know how to tell! you...

My boyfriend is now divorced and has said to me he will never marry again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past 2 years. We are both very serious about each other (we’re both in our mid 20s). It really bothers me that he sounds like he will never get married again. He was married when he was 19 and has a kid ...

Could it be that I'm so scared of being rejected by him that I'm over-analysing everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I met a boy a few weeks back and I really like him. He seemed to really like me too and we exchanged numbers. He called the next day and we arranged to meet up a few days later. On the day, he said he couldn't make it as he had to work. Since then ...

How can we repair the broken trust before it tears us apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6315 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Hello! I was online the other day when a random woman contacted me telling me my boyfriend was chatting with her and planning on a rendezvous with her next weekend. She then went on to forwarding their entire conversation to me. It was very ...

Is it ok to carry on with the distance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - i have a boyfriend but we are seperated by distance it is okay to continue...

I don't know if I'm being selfish but I can't keep hanging on wondering how long it will be till he next speaks to me or if he will ever ring me again at all.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6315 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend to bits and im pretty sure he feels the same about me. The only thing is that he has a baby with his ex girlfriend and she has just recently stopped him from seeing his baby, for no reason. Obviously this has affected him badly ...

We attended a wedding and he spent more time talking dungeons and dragons with his friends than talking to me... I am starting to wonder if he is the guy for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I had a really down weekend with my boyfriend. He noticed I was a bit off by very few times I respond back “I love you too”. We attended his god sister’s wedding and I was very upset about how much attention he pays on me. He was talking to his ...

He gets uncontrollable urges to sleep with other women... our sex life is great, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Hi, I am so confused. I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years, he is 34, me 35. We moved to China a year ago to work and during this time our relationship has gone downhill. Partly due to the lifestyle, not having enough space from each ...