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Archived questions from: 6 July, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I give her time and space to work out both her feelings of stress for that situation and her feelings for me, or should I just leave this situation completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - Well I started seeing someone I've known for about 6 years now. WE are in a long distance relationship and I know I love her. The problem came when her brother had a heart attack. IT was as if over night she decided that she didn't know what she ...

My boyfriend of 5 years (he's 34 years old) is my best friend. The problem is that he has given up on everything.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years (he's 34 years old) is my best friend. The problem is that he has given up on everything. He lost his job three months ago and he still isn't looking for one. He just sits all day long in his room, browsing the net or ...

I'm really confused because he said he doesn't fancy me anymore but today he seemed to act different although he's still not talking to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - This is really complicated but I'll try explain in as few words as possible. I've just split up with my boyfriend (it wasn't a proper relationship and barely lasted 3 weeks, we are on good terms and are still mates) because I liked my friend of ...

She phoned to tell me she's pregnant. I don't know if she's just saying this to get me back, or if its true.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6346 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - I have been split up with my girlfriend for 2 month, 2 weeks ago she phoned to tell me she's pregnant. I don't know if she's just saying this to get me back, or if its true. It's doing my head in, coz if she is really pregnant I need to be in my ...

I am finding it hard to accept her love/trust her but I don't know why.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

6 July 2007 (?) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 months now and just recently both told each other that we love each other. I had said it first a couple of weeks before and knew she was not ready at the time but couldn't help it. I am finding it ha...

How do you find the strength to leave a relationship that you know is not good for you and will probably never change?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - How do you find the strength to leave a relationship that you know is not good for you and will probably never change? I know everyone says being alone will be fine, but I have panic attacks just thinking about it. I know I am possibly a bit ...

Can anyone please help me to stop being so controlling and trust her??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - Hi, my name is Andre I am currently in Portugal and my girlfriend is in Canada we have been away from each other for 9 months but I will be back in about 3 months. Anyways I really need help, I know that I am controlling I don't like it when she ...

I'm afraid that she'll cheat on me again. How can I stop feeling paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year now. She has split with me a few times. She always said she didn't really know whether she wanted to be in a relationship. In February, she convinced me that it really was me she wanted t...

My girlfriend is taller than me and I feel very uncomfortable about it.

This question has 49 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - Hi. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 4 months now and I love her. However, I have just noticed that she is taller than me. I'm 17 and only about 5'7"ish and I'm really insecure about my height. My girlfriend looks like she is about half an...

I feel hurt and angry that I have to compete with an unobtainable woman from his past who put him second after I've already more than demonstrated my complete commitment to him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I met over seven years ago. Initially, we had a long-distance relationship and didn't see each other often, although we were very close. When my boyfriend spent longer in the UK, we committed to a relationship and discussed the ...

I love my husband even though we've had our bad times but I feel I've missed out on other parts of my life.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I've been married 5 years and got together when I was only 16, I love my husband even though we've had our bad times but I feel I've missed out on other parts of my life. I know I'm being selfish but I can't shake this feeling that there's more to ...

How do I know if I really love him or if it is just a convenient way for me to have a house and live closer to my job.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I have been with my other for 5 years. We now have a kid together. I have left my boyfriend on 3 different occasions in the past years. We are being civil now since the last break in March - how do I know if I really love him or if it is just a ...

I love them both and don't know what to do about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - Well I have a dilemma!!! It started say two weeks ago. My ex-boyfriend's best freiend told me that my ex-boyfriend still loved me and wanted to be with me. I didn't believe until I heard it for myself. Well me and my exboyfriend had a phone ...

I find it very hard to trust him on the internet.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, but I find it very hard to trust him on the internet... We met each other on a dating site 2years ago and I left my partner to be with him. Things were going well, but I have a bad case of p...

I don't know for sure if he likes me but I certainly have a strong impression that he does. So if he does... why is he holding back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6354 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - A few months back I plucked up the courage to tell the guy I really liked at University that I liked him. I was convinced he liked me back because of how he acted around me, always flirting and he seemed to be very attached and had made some at...

According to my friends I should just go round, get all my stuff out, and post keys through letter box.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having problems recently - he's been backing off because of trust issues, problems with his daughter etc - but we were supposed to be going on holiday this week to sort things out. He backtracked a couple of weeks ag...

I really like him but have no true sense of whether it is just a casual thing for him or if there is any potential in it developing into something more serious.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 4 months now. He is incredibly busy and travels away a lot so we have only actually had 10ish dates. The dates are always great but we never speak or text between then and I generally initiate the meeting up. I really ...

My boyfriend and I haven't had sex but I'm scared I could be pregnant cause my period is 3 days late.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I haven't had sex but I'm scared I could be pregnant cause my period is 3 days late. I've heard you can get pregnant from rubbing against each other or even if say some of his semen from giving him a hand job accidently ends up near ...

He's been great towards me after cheating in the past but how can I ever learn to trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - Let's say you have been with someone for many years. You can tell he loves you because of his actions. He treats you the way a man in love treats his lady, but in the past he did cheat on you and now he is trying fix his ways to win you back. But ...

It all seemed like a wonderful dream, now it's turning into a nightmare.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - Did I overreact? I've been with my boyfriend for seven weeks but because he lives quite far away we've only seen each other seven times. When we do meet it's only for a night and a bit of the morning as our work shifts clash. He told me he loved me ...

I have a boyfriend, but have always had something with this other guy, like a weird connection.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - There is this guy. He has been my friend since we were 6 years old say. We always played about and flirted when younger. He always came round to see me and my parents regularly. He has recently gone to uni and come back with a new girlfriend ...

Not sure if I'm ready for marriage and kids with this guy! Does that make me weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I don`t know whether I am in love with my boyfriend. I dont know whether I am in love with my boyfriend , I think I love him. We firstly moved in together when we were just mates and he kept asking me out and asking me out and I said no unti...

We have so many problems; should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I'm a 20 something year old with a 49yr old man. When he met me I partied very hard and I wore very little clothing. Now I wear covering up clothing which I love cause it leaves imagintion to the people, but makes him made to see people still ...

My husband treats me so badly but I don't want to leave for our kids; what can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - Hello, My husband and I have been married for 4 years, but together for 7. He's is 24, and I am 25. This is also my 2nd marriage. My husband just recently got out of the military. He was a military cop, so he has that attitude like a cop. He is also ...

I'm so tired of the turbulence in our marriage; what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - hi everyone well i just am very confused, i thought that my husband loved me and lately i just feel like he doesnt, i mean i admit ive done something; but there not anything that i wouldnt of done before we got married like going out with my ...

My gf and I can't go a day without arguing! She says being around me makes her angry. What should we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - My girlfriend of 2 years and I have been fighting alot lately. We can't seem to get along and not argue for more than a day. She says lately being around me makes her angry and in a bad mood. I really want this to work but I am not sure on what to ...

I don't want to leave him but he's getting violent because I don't feel like having sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

6 July 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years, and we have been engaged for five months. Although he's eleven years older than me, we've always gotten along together really well, with no problems. We have arguments every now and again, that don't ...