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Archived questions from: 17 July, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I moved back from Australia after having a breakdown... should I go back and try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - I moved to Australia with my partner a year and a half ago, but unfortunately found the experience very stressful and had a break down! I had to come back to the UK to try to gt on my feet again, and I do feel somewhat better, but desperately want ...

He signed up on a swingers website and talks to my friend who sleeps w/ married men. Am I making too much out of this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year and have been living together for 10 months. He's in the military and travels alot. I do trust him and i know he hasn't cheated on me but right before he left to go on course he joined a swingers ...

My boyfriend is verbally abusive when he is drunk

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - This might sound like quite a minor problem but it really gets me down - my bf is lovely n kind etc and ive bin with him for over a year. but when he gets drunk he completely changes and is really nasty to me. he calls me a slut/whore etc and just ...

I suspect my partner may be cheating - again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - my partner had an affair a year and a half ago.He acts like it was nothing..i have had serious trouble 'getting-over it'. Thing is i am convinced he is at it again...no particlar reason other than 2 main signs that were there the last time and i ...

He says he is ok with me wanting to with him or someone else. He doesnt care either way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - I just got back with my boyfriend of two years after a month and a half break-up. Now he says that he learned that he doesn't own me so that's why he doesn't care if I was with someone else because I can do whatever I want. He says that if I want to ...

He wakes me up for unsatisfying sex - how do I approach him without him getting offended?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend wakes me up in the middle of the night to have sex. He pokes me so I can wake up. He does not perform foreplay ever, and I have to get him aroused. Then I must get on top and do all the work, always. I'm really tired of this. He doesn't ...

My gf broke up w/ me because I'm too overprotective. Right now she hates me, should I not text her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

17 July 2007 (M) - hey! 3 weeks ago while i was on holidays my girlfriend broke up with me! we are only 15 but she was going out to a disco that night and said i didnt trust her and she said that i was too over-protective! at the moment she hates me. do you think...

Should I apolgize to the new guy I'm seeing for sending him a drunken message?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - Hey there, I wrote not so long ago with a dilemma in that I liked a guy who was best mates with a guy I had been seeing altho I have now stopped seeing the first one so no problems there. I am due to see the guy I like next wkd but have done so...

He's getting over me by pretending like we never existed and ignoring me. But I want to talk to him and get closure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - My relationship of almost 2 years broke up only a few days ago, and naturally I'm heartbroken. I dont consider how he ended it really closure for me, I want to talk to him alone, but our friends told him not to contact me, so when I IM him online, ...

Guys don't like me b/c of my hair color, so how do I get the boy I'm after?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - None of the boys on my year seem to like me because I have ginger hair. I also really like this one boy. How do I get the boy I'm after?? Please help...

My 16 year old son is very verbally abusive with me! How do I deal with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - i feel very embarrased about having to ask for some advice on here regarding my 16 year old son. whenever he doesnt get his own way or he is in a bad mood he is becoming very verbally abusive with me, by calling me names such as dickhead and slut ...

My bf said he didn't think being with me was right. Then he changed his mind! It's messed w/ my head and I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - hia, i have a bad relationship problem not last thursday the thursday before my boyfriend told me he didnt know what he wanted, he didnt think being with me was right, which partially broke my heart i love him so much and i dont care how young i am ...

I think he is cheating with his ex but have no proof.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - I have been with my partner for 8 months and things were great for the first 6 months. The past 2 months he has become distant, lying and not wanting to see me, also he goes to see his kids at weekends but lies about it telling me he is working. I ...

Do I take it she’s just not interested and move on; as if she was she would have been in touch right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

17 July 2007 (M) - Hey! Thanks for reading this, hope you can give me some advice. Ok so I posted recently how I was having trouble with my ex, she dumped me claiming she didn’t have time for a relationship, but then a few weeks later made it obvious she want...

I feel like my husband hates me. When I walk into the room disgust comes over his face.

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - I feel like my husband hates me. When I walk into the room disgust comes over his face. We have been struggling financially because I was in nursing school. Since graduating I am working 2 jobs, raising 3 kids, running the paperwork end of a ...

I don't know what to do, I feel like I'm losing her, it seems we can't communicate properly! HELP !!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid Me and my girlfriend have been going out for the last 4 months. It has been a very passionate, deep, caring relationship, but it came with a lot of squabbles, arguments over little things. My girlfriend has the tendency to go quiet on m...

Is he right for calling me selfish?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - My man admitted to me that he has second guessed our relationship because I asked that we speed up the process of us getting married so his insurance will cover my infertility treatment. He says I only think about myself Is he right for calling ...

He keeps threatening me all the time and I don't know what to do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - I've been dating my fiance for 4 and a half years and it was a bit tough first year cos we were tryng to get to know each other from different backgrounds. He is a sound engineer, I'm an artist musically. I'm really not sure what the problem is ...

Is my relationship over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (M) - Is my relationship over? My girlfriend of 10 years has gone away for a few days to spend time with friends and family. Since she left I've had unexpected feelings. For the first few days I felt a sense of relief, and really enjoyed havin...

I still can’t seem to let go of the fact that the man I truly loved and gave my whole entire life and being to and made future plans and left me for the mother of his unborn child.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - I still can’t seem to let go of the fact that the man I truly loved and gave my whole entire life and being to and made future plans and left me for the mother of his unborn child. I keep wondering whether this child really is his or whether she ...

How long should I wait for an answer? Should I just move on? Is there a way to ask for his answer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - I was with my ex-boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We broke up three weeks ago. When we broke up he said he didn't have the same feelings for me that he used to. A lot of the reason we broke up had to do with my excessive calling, my clingy tendencies ...

I want to end it with her, but I'm not sure I could forgive myself for breaking her heart!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

17 July 2007 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 5 years. She absolutely adores me and would do anything for me. I love her, she is such a wonderful person. However, over the last year I've found myself less attracted to her and wanting to see what its lik...

After the lease is up, my bf wants us to continue living with his chauvinistic friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - What to do? My boyfriend has all really wonderful friends but one. One of his closest friends has little respect for women and thinks that his %$#! doesn't stink. People just seem to be drawn to this guy, but I don't think that he is a good ...

Her family has a history of divorce and she's slept with over a dozen people! Am I setting myself up for heartbreak?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

17 July 2007 (M) - I have been dating a great girl for 6 month. We get along quite well and are getting more serious. I am having reservations however. Both her mother and father have been married 3 times a piece, and her brother and sister are both separated from ...

My guy is almost perfect...except he still hasn't divorced his wife! Am I wasting my time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - Me and my guy have lived together for 8 years and he is almost the perfect guy he supports me and my children, we have never spent the night apart if he is not working we are spending time together.My problem is that he has not divorced his wife am ...

My crush says he likes me like a sister! Is he saying that because I've already got a bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - I have this crush. I have my own dancing group and I'm the leader. He is from the other dancing group and he's the leader. We're the choreographers of our own group. And we always see each other in the battle dances. I really like him. When our ...

He abused me! ...or did he? Also, I've cheated on him, but he wants me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - During my first five years of my realationship my husband kicked in the side of my car once when he was mad and grabbed me and held me by my throat once when he was pissed off at me. Is this abuse if these things only happened once in five years? ...

I slapped my bf and he kicked me out! Any advice on how to make him reconsider?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of just over three years and I had a fight. I slapped him and he threw me out and told me it was over. Any advice on how to make him reconsider? ...

The woman my ex-husband cheated with got pregnant so he left me. But the child is not his! I got remarried but still love him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - OK Check this out!!!I was married to my first love from highschool and we had 2 kids together and we both had a child from previous relationships.After being together for eight years he cheated on me,and the woman became pregnant, even though he ...