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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

How do I find out what she feels for this other guy before I tell her how I feel about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - over the last few months this girl has been acting in a way that makes me think that she likes me. always talking to me and looking at me as well as ruffling my hair when i'm around my friends only mine and at a party on saturday I kept looking over ...

I kept waiting for him to leave his g/f but he never really did so I ended things. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I'm confused that I already made a mistake as he asked me to wait for him to breakup with girlfriend of 6 years he told me they are in verge of breaking up but I didnt do it. I just stoped waiting and said goodbye a month ago. I've waited for him to ...

Breaking up with a married man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Hey everybody. Thanks for choosing to take the time to read this. So, I was involved with a married man. Over time, it started taking its toll on me. (He initiated the flirting, I stayed away because I knew he was married, he started initiati...

Why am I dreaming about the girl my boyfriend cheated on me with??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - So, mad question....i keep dreaming of the girl my boyfriend cheated on me with??? im nice to her in the dreams...here's my story we have been together 4 years now i have 3 kids 2 are his my eldest from a sperm donor (lol) hugs my partner took on we ...

I am in love with my x boyfriend, but married to another, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - To make a long story shorter.. I met Brac about twelve years ago in a chat room. He was my friend that listened to all my guy issues. Was there for me all the time.. He is getting his masters degree soon, but when I met him he didn't have that in ...

Is she being practical or shallow? Dumping me for a rich old man? Can our relationship be saved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - Yeah, I'm a 25 years old guy working as an architect, ambitious and I love what I do. Always recommended by higher managers, you can say that I make good money compared to a new starter, and receiving better job opportunities from other companie...

Yes she is married. At the last minute she ripped up the divorce papers.How can I be friends with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I’m in a sticky situation. I’m in love with a married woman and she’s my first love. It’s really hard. See they were getting divorced but still sleeping in the same house(different rooms and beds}. She had the papers and everything suit ...

Truthful? Can I trust her? Is she going to screw me over again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I have been dating this girl for almost four years, we love each other and have been through alot together, divorced parents, long distance, the works. Last october we had an incident, she cheated on me (kissed a guy at the club) then proceede...

Should I tell my boyfriend that I don't want him talking to his friend's ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - Hi all. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He has been talking to his friends ex girlfriend lately. Not to sound mean but I honestly don't like this girl much because she's just one of those girls who is always starting drama and trouble and ...

Does my ex boyfriend really love me, when he has a girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Does he really love me? I dated this one guy for about 6 months and then, like most relationships, if came to an end. We never really spoke after we broke up, I mean sometimes we did talk. But if I ever needed help he would always be there for me. ...

Boyfriend wants me to experiment with a woman?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - I've been in a relationship for seven months and it's been great for the most part. He recently told me that he thinks every woman should have a sexual experience with another woman, especially if they're in college like myself. He doesn't want to ...

He's separted from his wife but still legally married . We've been dating but now he wants a break. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, this may be long so I apologize in advance. I have found myself in a situation I can't really talk to anyone about, except all of you. For seven months now I have been in a relationship with a gentleman who is separat...

I'm distraught about his actions. He's been lying to me and talking to another woman on line. Do I stay quiet or confront him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Not long before my fiancee and I got engaged, we had a fidelity issue- on his part. It took me a long time (and I am just summing this up to keep it short) but eventually I forgave him. Its been YEARS since then but sometimes I get bitten by the b...

Involved with a married woman. So why is she acting this way? Why is she treating me like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

24 April 2013 (M) - hey guys i need advice. ive been involved with a married woman for about 7 months. i know its wrong but hear what i have to say please. we started off as friends good friends. talking everyday spending a few hours together. and i started falling ...

Due to be married in two weeks. But I get slightly jealous about his deceased fiance. Is the problem my jealousy or the grief he's never resolved from the past?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Okay, my fiancé and I are set to be married in two weeks. We own a home together and have two beautiful, amazing kids. We have what many consider a "perfect" relationship, as no one has ever seen us argue/fight/be upset with each other, etc. We'...

My husband wants to have a baby with another woman. He's says I'm making this out to be a big deal. Am I over-reacting like he says?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Im 20 years old and have 2 kids. My oldest is 4 and she is from a past relationship. Im now married and we just had our son in February. Recently my husband has been talking about having a baby of his own with another woman. I thought he was k...

I feel second best.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for about 6 months, and i have a 1 year old son. When i first met him, he always put us first and called and texted but lately he always puts his female friend of 16 years above me. He goes to her first...

This woman keeps flirting with my fiance right in front of me, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - I know there isn't anything I can actually do about this but maybe someone who has gone through this can tell me what I should do. Basically I need to know how to best handle a situation where this woman flirts with my fiance right in front o...

He resents me for revealing to others he is a cross-dresser. Can I fix this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - So I completly messed up my relationship. When we fell on hard times over a year ago I told my not so best friend that my boyfriend was a cross dresser. Honestly I am pretty inky I like it. Well she tossed it in his face cats out of the bag now and ...

How do I stop this crush? Met him at AA meeting, but he's way older than me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - Have a crush on a guy at an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting! I'm 18 and recently got out of rehab about a months ago and started going to the local AA meeting. AA meetings is the last place I thought I'd devolp a crush on someone. But for the past 3 ...

The guy I like likes my bff

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4232 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - Ok so, I was trying to help my friend so he could get my best friend to date him, but she started going out with this other guy and stopped talking him. He was really upset, and I helped him trough everything that she did to him. As we talked more ...

Am I crazy to think the man I"m dating is secretly having an affair with a married woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - I started dating a man 53 whom is newly divorced few days back in Feb 2013. Yet he is always talking about this woman whom helps him with his dad. My guy's Dad lives with him. The woman who helps is also married and is a co-worker of his. This ...

I feel like I'm second best in all this, to him. He chooses her over me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

19 April 2013 (F) - I'm in trouble I need help...my boyfriend and me had a girl as a friend but after I trusted her with everything..with the first bump (he thought I was cheating) this while I couldn't even handle any guy even relatives next to me..and she told him ...

BF friend is begining to threaten my relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

18 April 2013 (F) - Hey everyone. I really hope I don't sound immature here but what I'm dealing with is I feel like I'm in competition with one of my boyfriends female friends. She is always trying to get my boyfriends attention and is always trying to talk to ...

Her husband is trying to make up with her -- should I let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

18 April 2013 (M) - I met a girl online locally, she been married for 3 years. Husband cheated on her and hit on her, lied to her, and made her feel less of a woman. We met up, and talked, and found a connection. Eventually we kinda hooked up telling each other we love ...

I feel like I will never be significant in her life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

17 April 2013 (M) - I am so confused and I don't know if I'm totally out of line or if my girlfriend is being unreasonable. My girlfriend is very attached to her family. They are overall a very close, intimate family who are all open with each other. I, in contrast, ...

Why would he want her to come to our wedding when I don't feel comfortable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - my boyfriend has a female friend but i have only heard them talk very briefly a handful of times in 7 yrs but we are arguing about him wanting her to come to our wedding. i dont feel comfortable about there friendship, due to what seems to be ...

What's the best solution? My LDR who lives in another country? Or the new guy who wants to see me again later this year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - i have a long distance relationship, my boyfriend (A) is in one country and I am in another country, One time, I met my past puppy Love,(B) and we felt the love between us again. I'm realy in love with him. And I can feel that he is too much in ...

I've done nothing to encourage him because my friend liked him first

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, Currently my friend has a crush on a guy. I met the guy during a coffeehouse event but he didn't approach my table until my friend left. We got talking and joked around a lot but I know he's territory I shouldn't be trespassing in b...

I can't decide who I want more: my FWB or my ex boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, i was in a fwb arrangement then i met my boyfriend who is now my ex. i am drawn completely to my fwb he is also the same with me. when were together the sex is amazing but the problem is i still love my ex boyfriend but i cant get e...

He's still with his girlfriend, so why is he still seeing me? Does he like me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 April 2013 (F) - I was seeing a guy about 3 years ago and we never broke it off In bad terms we just fell apart .. So he ended up with someone and i was really happy for him so last year i messaged him and we spoke about the past and he asked if he could come ove...

He proposed, I turned him down. I want to be honest to him and I don't want to lose him. What is the best way to approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 April 2013 (F) - Boyfriend for 4 years, thinking of getting married, is it a good idea? My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years now. I say almost because almost every year we break up for a a month or 2. We have had to go through a lot together a...

I'm serious about him, but wondering about his female friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 April 2013 (F) - I have been dating someone for a little over a year. It's pretty serious, and we've moved in together. I love him, and I enjoy spending time with him, but he has a very close woman friend, and that's the problem. They became close when they were ...

GF was my Boss's mistress, and she never told anyone until the boss revealed it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (M) - please help me. i just found out my girlfriend with whom i have recently taken very seriously had an affair with my boss (while he was married. he is still married). she once told me the story of how they met and things that went on. To spare you ...

GF went back to her EX, I made my one night stand pregnant, GF came back and then left when she heard about the pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (M) - My ex and I broke up about 6 months ago, which she went back to her ex (whom is the father of her child). I was assured it was over, and I begged her to come back. She suddenly comes back with a paper showing a divorce, and wanting to start...

My boyfriend cheated with a girl who is now making my life miserable

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F) - Dear cupid I feel so devastated and I don't even know how I got into this situation. I was in a serious relationship with my boyfriend who I really loved. I found out he basically cheated on me with a girl who has had an on again off again re...

I need feedback from others who have opened up their marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F) - My husband and I have a good marriage and communication about our needs and fantasies. My husband first suggested for me to experience another man. At first I it was an instant NO, this was years, years ago. We however talked about it and fantasize ...

I don't trust my former friend around my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F) - There is a girl who I knew for a while who I've always been suspicious of because she use to always tell me about all of these guys she has been with and how she cheated on them and use to always say she could get and steal any guy she wanted. ...

Ex still an active roll in my BF life, how do I manage this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - My little girl was on my boyfriends phone playing a game and showed me that someone had text. it was his ex girlfriend but the entire conversation was deleted and it was her replying obviously to something he'd said.Its making me really down in the ...

Why does my boyfriend continue to be friends with this woman? It really upsets me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - Hi. I really think this is a serious problem but I don't know if it's just me or not. My boyfriend is friends with a woman who doesn't like me and bullied me in High School (my boyfriend did not go to our school). He met her through friend...

He wants a sexual relationship even though he's with the other girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

10 April 2013 (F) - Me and my child's dad hated each other or at least we argued a lotand couldn't get along.... now we talking like two friends,,laughing,,joking,,competing over funny but dumb stuff... he still has this girl he only knew for 6 months vs our 6yrs and I ...

Falling for my BF best friend and now he wants a private meeting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

10 April 2013 (F) - ADVICE NEEDED! I have a crush on a mutual friend of my boyfriend and I. I only realised it recently since we were spending alot of time together. I am 23 years old and me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly two years (it will be two ...

My current Bf and I have sunk into "too comfortable to be romantic". So how should I handle this growing closeness with my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (F) - I have been dating the same man for two and a half years now. We were high school sweethearts and he did everything so wonderfully. His parents hated me and he stood up for me, even when they told him it was me or them. He picked me. But then fou...

Should I experience my husband's friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

8 April 2013 (F) - Any suggestions? I am 40 and have been married for 18 years and my husband has been my only sexual partner. Our sex life has had its ups and downs. Currently I have more sexual energy than my husband. This wasn't the case before, he wanted someth...

Two women, child by each, they want me to chose, don't know what to do?

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7 April 2013 (M) - Me and girlfriend Been together for 4 years And being rocky all the way through Because of my ex She has tried to split us up from the start I have children on both sides My ex is Using The children By turning them against My girlfriend and my son ...

Will he ever stop going on dating sites? I hesitate to allow our relationship to develop further because of this.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Can someone please answer, because I think I am slowly losing my mind through this. I have been dating for three years now. He wants to take our relationship further, but I can`t. The reason I can`t is because for at least two years, I have be...

I am his Gf. She was his crush. Now he's talking to her online. Am I missing something here? Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - Hey, I have been dating this guy for about 3 years now,we go to the same university! But before he met me he was crazily in love with a crush on a fellow student.. They were in the same class and he was head over heels in love with her. Yet when h...

I said I'd have a threesome but now I'm having second thoughts about it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

4 April 2013 (F) - My Fiance and I have decided to have a ffm Threesome, we decided to use an Escort for it. My fiance had Threesomes before with his Ex GF, it is my first one. Also I'm not BI not into other females at all. But know he likes to see the Bi of the ...

Could this be a sign that he's crushing on her again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

3 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend just told me that he and some of his guy friends were talking to other girls about sex. In this talk, there was a girl that he used to like, and he told me that she was a virgin. I don't know if I needed to know that, but I'm worried ...

Swinging ex boyfriend turned Husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

3 April 2013 (F) - Me and this guy are in love. We dated a short while, but had to break it off, after he stopped coming around to see me as often as he used to, and ditched several significant occasions, being afraid of facing anymore disappointments from him, i s...