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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

My sister likes my ex, but I still have feelings for him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - What should I do if my sister likes my ex boyfriend and he likes her but I still have feelings for him?...

We dated for six years, broke up, I still love him, he's with someone else, but calls me 3 times a day, I want him back, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - My Boyfriend of 6 years and I have just recently broken up. Our relationship was strained for about a year before the breakup. I love him and I think he is my one true love. He has since started seeing someone, however he still calls me all of the ...

Am I getting upset for no reason or should I confront him and ask him about it???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I was just wondering if I am overreacting. My husband left his email program up and so I was reading one of the emails and it was from an old girlfriend. She was telling him about her marriage and how things weren't so good for her right now and ...

Curiousity killed the cat.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Last week my boyfriend and I almost broke up. He was troubled with the idea that we were meant together. We talked it over and were still together. Tonight he went out to a bar with his friend even though I asked him to stay home with me. While he ...

Am I doing the right thing keeping this to myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I started a relationship with a guy thats much younger than me and when we started dating we were both in seperate relationships at the time but those relationships ended and now me and him are in what i thought was a committed relationship. ...

He's too immature for me, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of a dilemma, I've recently started seeing a guy who is 4 years younger than me (he's 21 and I'm 25). Although I don't mind the age gap I'm just finding him a little immature and I don't know whether I should continue seeing him and ...

How do I get over my best friend's boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I feel a bit jealous of my best friend's relationship with her boyfriend. Also i used to like him and i sort of still do. I hate thinking of them together. But i want to get over this. I don't want to tell my friend how i feel because i don't ...

My ex slept with me and his new girlfriend is sleeping with her ex!

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30 October 2008 (F) - hi, last nite i had sex with my ex bf of about 2 weeks he left me to go bk to his ex but there having problams, they are not together but there trying to work it out the thing is she doesnt trust him, Anyway, shes been having her ex round to stay ...

My ex insists on coming to me for advice and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hey. My ex insists on coming to me for advice. He is basically obsessed with my best mate (talk about rubbing salt in the wound),and he never shuts up. so i told him that id find out if she would ever go back with him to shut him up. i know fin...

I like two completely different guys. Who should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - i like two guys , i cant decide unless i make a mistake The first guy i like is the lead singer in a populare local band, hes allright looking, got a great sense of style.. but he can act like an idiot sometimes which embarrases me, he is soo sk...

Is he just with her to make me jealous???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I think he wants me back but playing mind games! I split with ex of 2 an half year 3 month ago because he drank to the extent he became a horrible person, I asked him to quit and he said he couldn't. Since then he got a new lass who he's been with ...

Did I push him too far by putting him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have beein in a relationship for twelve years, and have children. My boyfriend and I were having problems and we broke up because of his flirting and he moved out. However we were back sleeping together soon after he moved out and I really ...

I am torn between two girls I have fallen for....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I am completely torn bewteen two girls I am in love with. My first girlfriend of 8 years is the same as as me(31). Everything was amazing in our relationship... except the sex. It was very dull and I tried everything to spice it up(games, dirty ...

The pain will never stop

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I've been seeing my current girlfriend for exactly 6 months now. I love her more than life itself, and she's everything I could ever ask for. However, there's one thing that absolutely tears me apart on a daily basis and feels like the pain wi...

His ex is coming over from Australia and is staying at HIS house! Should I be worried?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and I usually spend all weekend at his house. I occasionally see him during the week but we both work so it is sometimes difficult, if we dont see each other we will be in touch in some way every ...

He said I can have sex with other guys because he is not sexually attracted to me, but it hurt him when I did!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I need some input here. I have been seing this guy. He is not ready to commit to boyfriend/gfriend. We had a good talk last week and he said that he cares a lot about me but he is not in love with me. Said he loves me but he does not feel that ...

I think my wife has cheated with someone else and had sex but she insists it was only a kiss!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - I need some advice please. I am a stay at home dad.we have 2 kids that are 1 and 2 years old. I started noticing my wife acting different about 4 months ago. She had this glow about her. She was also buying new braws ans panties all the time.she ...

I'm turning ino a stalker over this guy.....I need help fast!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I need advice Im goin out of my mind. Ok, theres this guy who I was seeing who at the time I didnt really like. I mean I fancied him loads and even wondered if I was falling in love with him. But in the back of my mind, I knew we werent right. He ...

Is there more going on with my boyfriend and his female best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has a best friend that is female. Which is fine with me, my best friend is male. Heres the thing.They dated about 8 years ago and now are best friends. When me and him first met(not knowing we would be together) he sad if there was ...

He likes me but he has had an on / off relationship with his ex who is also my friend! What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - my best friend who is a guy says he has feelings for me. weve been friends for 8 months and we talk and txt all the time. we enjoy each other's company. when he said that he has feelings for me, i thort it would ruin our friendship because his ex is ...

The lap dance he was offered made me feel jealous. Should I consider being present at a second show?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I am a soon-to-be bride and my fiancé' and I have been together for a long time. I was never a jealous girl; however, once I got that ring the jealousy hit me. It didn't occur to me until my beau received a lap dance....it was a "celebration" lap ...

How can I tell him I KNOW???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I really need some advice recently I went threw my boyfriend's fone (I know I shouldn't have) and found that when he had gone out he had met a girl and now hes been texting her asking her to send pictures of herself and things like that. It's kil...

Does my ex-boyfriend still have feelings for Me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Ok so I walk into the libray where I hang out by myself and when I enter the building I saw my ex-boyfriend for the 2nd time looking around for somebody. I pass by him to get a seat and say "hola!" He soon follows me to my seat and notces my sketch ...

My fiance had threesomes in the past

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My wedding is in one month and my fiance just admitted to me he had threesomes in the past. He is always talking about it, but I thought he was just kidding. Now that I know he is done it before I am so disgusted.. what do i do????...

She wants a "back up" guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I've been dating this girl that I love more than anything, she tells me she loves me the same way but she cheated on me cuz she was drunk and that she wants a backup guy. I'm afraid I might lose her to this guy. Can any one help me on what I can do ...

Why do I feel something for this guy even though I have a loving husband now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5868 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm 21 and married, got married Dec of '07. I love my husband very much. When we were dating it wasn't easy for us... no one wanted to see us together. Well like I said I love my husband very much but I want to know why I feel like I do. For ab...

Time is running out....what can I do?!!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I have been talking to a girl from America for about 6 months. Around 4 months ago, we started to flirt with one another. Since, she has made plans for us to meet eachother before christmas. The only problem is, I have a girlfriend now! How can I ...

How can I overcome getting low when I don't hear from him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm in love with a man who has a partner but says he will keep in touch with me ( we have just become good friends and I am happy as that)! - He rings on occasion - when he can get away - but on nights he doesn't I start to really panic that I ...

In love with one man but falling for another!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm so confused! I am in love with one man, and falling in love with another. I don't know how to choose! One is my ex.. we had a falling out and didn't talk for 2 months. During that time I met this amazing guy who I have the best time with. I ...

Pregnant by another man and my husband wants me to get rid of it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5868 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I don't know where else to turn, I feel so sad an alone at the moment. I was in a relationship with two men, one of which was my husband, and yes they knew about each other as we lived all in the same house. I found out I was pregnant b...

I need to find myself first...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5868 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Here is a little background I have been married for 12 years year, have two children 5 and 12.. Have not been happy for sometime, husband is extremely verbally abusive to me and the kids and has basically ruined my self confidence. I h...

Why is he behaving so strangely? Any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I have been married for 9 months. We are both christians and I know he fears God and so Do I. I am 35 and he is 51. I understand that things will be a little different as far as sex drive. I had issues when it started to dwindle and he did not ...

Why does he want to keep talking to me after breaking up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5868 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Why does my ex still want me to talk to him?, He also tells me the problams he has with his new gf and how he thinks it may not work between them, Like yesterday evening he rang me and said could not talk for long as shes going round her house,...

Help, my love life is a mess!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Help, my love life's a mess. There's this guy right who I dated once and I think I fell in love with him, either way he dumped me (this was months ago) and I'm going out with someone else now. I thought I was over him but I found out he still ...

I fancy someone but his brother fancies me too! He's saying mean things about him... do I believe him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5869 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Heyy xx Well i wil try to putt this in shortest wayy possible. a few months a go this guy.. we'll call him "gary" fancied me for a long time bt i dint fancy him back so i told him so it wouldn't be leading im on. Bt now his bro contacted me an...

In love with my best friend (girl) and my ex bf! And now this other guy is in love with me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm bi. Thats a huge problem for me. I'm in love with my best friend, a girl. I've been bi for about three years and havent told a soul. My parents are very religous and deeply frown down on bis,lesbians,gay marriges etc.. and it really bothers me ...

Fell for him only to find out that he's taken...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5868 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I met this guy a few months ago and weve been close mates ever since he told me about a month in that he liked me but i told him i wasnt sure how i felt yet. For the past few weeks ive totally fallen for him, hes all i think about. I asked to mee...

She says she loves me but forgot to tell me...that she's with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - have been broken up with my ex coming up six months now. all the time had been saying she still loves me ect, on the 14th she had told me she still loves me, did i still love her so i answerd her, but got no answer. The next morning i get a text ...

What to do to make it up to my close friend after kissing her boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - basically i feel like a car crash would be the best punishment for me now. i feel so bad about myself. last night i kissed my close friend's boyfriend.I have known her since we were 9. our families were close together. She's been with her boyfrie...

My friend will wait for me to divorce but why is he on dating sites then?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I'm going through divorce after 20 some years of marriage. I met a guy on a bike ride a few weeks before I filed and we hit it off as friends we've been friends since 4 months now I moved out of the house and live with friends. I spend a lot of ...

I've started an affair while my abusive boyfriend is in jail. When he gets out, I have to make a choice. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - My bf of 4 years has now been incarcerated for 6 months. Before this, our relationship was rocky because he would lie, cheat, break things when he got angry,call me degrading names, and support our daughter half the time. Through ou relationship, I ...

I've have 2 guys to choose between and it's driving me nuts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Ok, here is my problem. I feel really silly about it because it almost sounds more like a stroke of good luck than a problem. That is, I have two guys to decide between. Guy # 1: I have known for years, since high school. We have always been very...

How can I get out of this very awkward situation?

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26 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a married a couple a months ago and I love my husband so much but we are living apart due to work requirement. We talk every day on the phone and sms. He is a great husband and I don't think another man could ever give me such a ...

I might be falling for my co-worker but I'm married! Need some input on what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - I am falling for my co-worker pretty hard. The problem is I have been married for 6 1/2 years. My marriage is good, but I feel more attracted and connected to this co-worker everyday. He greets me everyday with how is my beautiful little five foot ...

I've made a really big mess, what should I do now?

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25 October 2008 (F) - Hi,(SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT NEED ADVICE ASAP) ive split with my bf around 3 weeks ago now,i still talk to him, anyway hes now back with his ex the mother of his child ill call her sam,anyway sam she doesnt trust him and me as she thinks we are still ...

I am in love with my boyfriend (we are both going through divorce) but why do I risk losing him for casual sex with others??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - What am I doing??? My husband and I are going through a divorce. It will be final in about 2 weeks. We have been seperated for about 5 months. For the first 3 months I begged and begged him to come home. We were very back and forth. I did go out ...

Did he send me a wrong message or was he testing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - He's my classmate. At first, I didn't care about him, I treated him like a friend. One week ago, i had a feeling that he liked me. Before the exam, i told him i could tutor him; he agreed( I just wanted to help him out) ONe night he sent me...

I'm in a mess, and don't know what to do, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hey I need help. I know that this is going to be kinda confusing but keep in mind I'm really confused anyway. I love my boyfriend to death... or at least I did when we started going out. Please don't think bad of me, but we hadn't gone out for a ...

We love each other, but I feel like the world is against us. Will he miss me and come back to me in time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - I will try to cram it all in here! so bare with me. I'm 20, gay and have had 2 serious relationships, this being my second. The first one left me pretty bruised and torn up, but I came out alive. My current (ex) B/F I have been with for 2 years...

My boyfriend is lovely but too soft and I still think about my ex - should I marry my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my ex for 8 years. My new boyfriend of 2 years (previously divorced within a year of marraige) now fiance is a lovely caring guy. My ex the opposite bad boy kind of a guy although I heard rumours about him cheating on ...