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Archived questions from: 16 October, 2008 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

(More questions from October, 2008)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I had a 3-some with my boyfriend and another woman and it's causing mega problems now!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I need help with getting over the fact that I had a threesome with my boyfriend and afterwards the female tried to sleep with him by herself. This is what happened a friend of mine I were talking about threesomes and she said she never had one so I...

How can I call him without his partner answering?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Should I just ring him? I am totally besotted with a man who got on great with me but had a partner! Nevertheless - I gave him my number and we were going to meet up but circumstances meant we missed each other on the day! - However, he never ...

My boyfriend found out his ex is pregnant, what are we supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - My boy friend and I have been dating for the past few months and neither of us in the past have been known to get attached, however, we've become extremely close the past few months. My parents hate me with him, he has stress about his everyday ...

My current relationship isn't going too well, I suspect this is due in part to me being in love with someone else. What to do?

This question has 77 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

16 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm a guy in my early 30's and I'm in love with my business partner. I took over the business that we both worked for shortly after she joined. I didn't start having feelings for her for a year or so, but when she split up with her partn...

I feel like a wonderful person when I don't see my ex but I'm used to him, I realy love this other guy, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Hi everybody well I need some of your opinion. Well I was engage for 16 years he never ask me 2 marry I am the one who always asked him when are we going 2 get married his answer always is someday. Well we had some problems like 7 months ago so I ...

Ex and I broke up and I slept with someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

16 October 2008 (M) - Basically my girlfriend split up with me coming up to 5 months ago now. I believe it was she wasn't sure of what she wanted but she didn't want to be with me because of how I had become she had sat me down numerous times, wrote letters etc etc ...

Why isn't she telling me about this other guy if she has nothing to hide?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

16 October 2008 (M) - Hi guys, Quick one, I met this girl on the internet, same age as me... we've now been seeing each other for near 4 months. She has a male friend who she texts every other day virtually, they used to share a house together, and then she mov...

I got my revenge on the other woman, and I didn't have to do anything!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - My hubby had an affair, I found out and caused hell on earth for him, asked for a divorce, even got the papers drawn up, did the whole counselling thing, he got such a shock finding out that I was not going to tolerate his nonsense. He gave up his ...

I love my ex-boyfriend very much, but he loves someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5793 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I love my ex-boyfriend very much, but he loves someone else. If I call him he come to me and he behaves like he is my boyfriend. They both love each other, me too love him madly. I need him so much and I want him to be in love with me. What can ...

I think about my best friend's boyfriend more than I do my partner.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - OK THIS IS ALL WIRED I NEED HELP!!! OK so my best friend's boyfriend an I have been having an affair for 5 years now, he's been with her about 7 years, and I been with mine ten years. We both love the sex he tells me he loves it when he's sleeping...

Should I leave him alone or make my case?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5792 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Theres this xmas party coming up and I wanted my boyfriend to come with me but he's never liked dancing in public, he won't like the music that's at the party, and I have a feeling that he won't feel like going. I forsaw this and I have a back up...

Having an affair with spouse approval - Should I just divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Alright so my story is a bit long winded but bear with me. My spouse and I have been together almost 4 years for marriage (next month) and had dated 3 years more or less before marriage. The beginning of our courtship was all roses like most but we ...

What should I do if the person I love, loves someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - What should I do if the person I love, loves someone else? He isn't dating that person though.Telling him probably won't change anything between us. Should I wait it out, and hopefully over time, he'll feel the same way? Or should I try and give up ...

Is it realistic for me to want a relationship with this married man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I already know it's wrong to be with a married man but I want a relationship with him and all he wants is sex cause he has a new baby and his wife is too busy for sex! Is it realistic for me to want a relationship? ...