A
male
age
30-35,
*oldier420s
writes:I've been dating this girl that I love more than anything, she tells me she loves me the same way but she cheated on me cuz she was drunk and that she wants a backup guy. I'm afraid I might lose her to this guy. Can any one help me on what I can do maybe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): "The truth is so simple that it is regarded as pretensious banality" (a qoute by Dag Hammerskold)
Why do you want to share a girl? Get rid of her.
Send her a goobye card saying: no room for "cheaters".
You deserve better. Surely you are not that desperate to put up with a girl that is so badly behaved, with such low morals.
Find somebody that you can trust, somebody with dignity, that cares for you, that has selfrespect and has respect for you and value you and the relationship.
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reader, Skeez  +, writes (27 October 2008):
 Dump her. If she truly loved you she wouldn't be thinking about having a back up guy. Why would she need them???If shes cheated on you and goes on to telling you she needs a back up....jeez boy youve got some girl on your hands.Talk to her and tell her how you feel. If she wont respect your opinions then dump her. Tell her its not working and you would prefer to be with someone who wont nail on a back up. If she cared about you, she wouldnt cheat. End of story.Goodluck xxxxx
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