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I fancy someone but his brother fancies me too! He's saying mean things about him... do I believe him?

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Question - (27 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2008)
A female Isle of Man age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Heyy xx

Well i wil try to putt this in shortest wayy possible.

a few months a go this guy.. we'll call him "gary" fancied me for a long time bt i dint fancy him back so i told him so it wouldn't be leading im on.

Bt now his bro contacted me and and we really hit it off.. we'll call him "bob".

bob isnt in my country atm coz he is at uni, however he has invited me round to visit im when he's ova in novmber. we've met a few times in person and flirted etc.

the prob is that gary has told me sum stuff about him - like he gets agressiv after drinkin and that he drinks to much and sum bad stuff about how he treats ppl saying he's dead selfish ...

this really hit me hard becuaes i like him so much and he likes me too...

is gary just saying this becuase he likes me? th prob is that bob has gon out with girls that gary has liked in the past..

shud i wait til bob gets back from uni and spend time with him to find out what hes really like or send im packing now?

i really dnt know what to believe... do u fink gary would say this just so tht i wouldnt get with him? he knows that we've ben gettin closer...

It's making me feel down because i like him so much. It also makes me feel horrible coz its makin me think differntly of bob.. i know it shouldn't to b honest...

WB plz xx thanks in advance xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008):

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Thank youu for the advice, I'll wait an see what happens

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