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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

He's helped his ex 100 percent financially for 9 months now. Should I be worried?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I have asked this question before and everyone said I had nothing to worry about. My boyfriend is from Romania and went to college in the the US. he is graduated and gainfully employed. he dated another Romanian girl for 4 years while in college...

I have two men on the go at the moment. Any insight into this?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I have found myself in a situation where I have two men in love with me, both of which are younger than myself. I am petite, successful, educated and attractive, look many years younger than my age (41). I do not feel comfortable with having two ...

My ex wanted me back but wont give up her new guy. I feel like I'm being manipulated, what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. It was mostly because I wasn't attentive enough. She started seeing someone else. I stayed away from her. I didn't call her at all. She called me after a month and told me she missed me. She told me she thinks ...

This older guy fancies me, but I'm not into him, people are staring to talk its not fair , should I tell my boyfriend so he wont get the wrong idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I have shared a mutual hobby with a married family friend of ours for quite some time (in agreement with our partners because they are not interested in this hobby), however just before Christmas he confessed to me that he had fancied me for many ...

First love...Does it ever end?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5942 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I want to know if your feelings ever truely fade for your first love or do we hold those feelings for the rest of our lives!! I know the saying that you never forget your first love! My situation is that, I went out with a boy when I was 16...

I am jealous of my boyfriends best friend that happens to be a female. Am I overreacting?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I think i'm starting to get jealous of my boyfriends bestfriend. We are in a long distance relationship and have been together for almost 2 years. He has known his friend, which is a girl, for a long time he says and I get sad because they go to ...

I am pregnant and in love with a man who is engaged.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6140 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi. well i am still in love with the this guy who has a girlfriend who lives in south africa. he told me he couldnt answer my questions till he had seen her! well he went in october while he was away i tried to move on with my life i even started ...

Torn between my best friend and boyfriend...which one do I choose??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I ve bin dating the same guy since high skool....am working and done with college now..so we've bin dating for a long time(7yrs)although a long distance relationship.. I met some guy about a year ago and we have bin very very good friend.....

I confronted him about him giving his number out and now he is calling me possessive and sick.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi.. i've been having lot of problems lately with my boyfriend.. i've been with him for 8years now. He is a good guy but i got to know that he mailed a friend of his(female)gave her his no and never bothered to let me know... i happened to find out...

Caught in an online love-triangle.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I'm in a bit of a love triangle...See i am already in a relationship with a guy (online but i've met him, its an LDR) and its been around two years now. It was heavenly when we started out but i feel its fading away now. I still do love him though ...

How can I be neutral on this guy who I had a crush on from day one??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6139 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi... So I got married to such a great guy a year and a half ago when I was 19. He's so sweet and supportive and I adore him and we're so happy together! Before I started going out with my husband (2 1/2 years ago) I had a big crush on his best fri...

I had fantasies about my wife being slutty with other men, but now we're acting them out I'm not so sure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - well where do i start,im 35 and been married for 16yrs,i have 3 children with my wife,i have worked away from home for the past 14yrs and i am away for long periods at a time,for yrs we have had fantasies about my wife being a slut,as of recently ...

I'm afraid that if I tell her I want more than the sexual relationship we have, she'd stop seeing me (she's my friend's fiancee.)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - My name's Steve, and I'm 35. *all names changed* I've been working with a guy named Ryan who's 25 for the last 12 months. When we first started working together, he invited me over to his house to hang out with his friends and have a few drinks. ...

Mind games have me nuts

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - Hello, If you can give me some advice that would be great. Let me briefly summarize my story- it's rather complicated! So to begin with about 2 years ago I started dating/talking to "Bob" although we never labeled it a rel...

He has his cake and eats it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - Ok. I had an affair with a man I am in love with and he is in love with me. I got a divorce and he didn't. He told me he couldn't leave because of his small child. He does not want to lose his child or have his child growing up being shameful of ...

My friends fiance keeps coming onto me! How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - i've been friends with my mate for about 3 years now. of all my friends she's the craziest and wildist. then she met a bloke fell in love and after 2 months she got engaged. she then fell pregnant (having both decided they wanted a baby straight ...

One in the hand is worth two in the bush

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - okay, i have known a guy online 2 years now. we were even 'together' for a few months before i said i wasnt comfortable until we met.. he lost his internet connection for almost a year but we still managed by sending emails each day. now he has his ...

She does not want me to be a reason of her break up but we have slept together behind her boyfriend's back. What next? I love her...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - I have fallen in love with a girl I've known for a year now the problem is she has a boyfriend almost the same amount of time. we have discussed the issue and her excuse is she doesnt want me to be the reason they break up but we have slept ...

Follow the path I'm on, or change routes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - I have been in an "exclusive" relationship with a man 18 years older than myself for 3 years. Our age difference has never been an issue for me. He is very sweet and attentive when we are together. Sex is amazing. The problem is that he was ...

I am so confused about my ex...should I pursue him or let him be??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - My ex and I recently broke up after dating for only 2 weeks (having been knowing and been attracted to him for a lifetime)..he broke up with me because he said he may still be in love with someone else or whatever, but he also loves me. We (and gir...

My best friend has broken my brothers heart twice...and I am sick of being involved.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - ok please help me on this on!! My best friend since pre-school startimg dating my older brother about 4 yrs. ago. Well they broke up a year later and since blood is thicker than water i took my brothers side on the situation needless to say they...

Our sex life is in tatters due to his affair. How can We move on!?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

24 January 2008 (?) - Hi people, My husband had an affair last year. We have made enourmous progress in trying to get back on track, but it is tough. Through the recovery process, our sex life obviously has come into discussion and debate. Our sex life pri...

We're getting married but he's interested in someone else. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I of over 5 yrs have been having some problems lately. We are engaged and are planning on getting married. But something has changed because he has met this girl who lives and hour or more away from us. He is all of the sudden ...

My bf told me he likes my best friend...what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - My bf...told me he's getting into one of my bff's....i dunno what to do and i really need some help. So we were just walking and he said he has to tell me something and not to get too mad....and that he thinks he likes my bff as much or maybe mo...

I'm so happy with my married guy...but love my bf and am not sure he would leave his wife.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - I have been having a casual sex relationship with someone I work with; he is married and I have a bf. He had been cheated on in the past by his wife, and there are still problems. He just isn't happy with her. He and I started messing around o...

I'm falling for my friend and can see myself spending the rest of my life with her...but she has a bf.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - I have a friend who I want to be more than friends with. The problem is, she already has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend is going to school overseas, so she spends a lot more time with me than with her boyfriend. I have told myself that I will tell ...

Fallen for my bfs friend...but I want to stay with my bf and just get his friend out of my head.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - Alright. Hi everyone. I know my story is a little long and complicated but if someone could give me a little clue on what to do to help me I would be realllly happy. I apologize for me mistakes because english is not my first language) Now here ...

Do his reasons for masturbating to his exes picture sound valid?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - i am in a relationship with a 29 year old man (i am 41). we've had a very good relationship in and out of the bedroom thus far. however i found out recently that he has been masturbating to old nude photos of a very recent ex-girlfriend. what the ...

My estranged wife wants me back now I have met someone new. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been seperated for a year. I made it clear to her that I had no choice but to move on. I tried for 9mos to get her back and she said no at every turn. I recently met someone. My wife started looking into the divorce papers and ...

In a relationship for two years, still happy with him... But there's somebody else. I don't know which one I want. How can I decide?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - I'm in a 2 year relationship with a lovely guy. He's caring and we have a lot in common in terms of our principles,and I would have always said that we loved each other and saw our future together. We have complete trust which I know is really ...

Concerned about people who sleep with those who they know are mairried.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

23 January 2008 (?) - Why is it that advice given to a mistress is way off it seems that people do not want to hurt these people's feelings. Well as for my husband's affair there was no feelings pure anal sex is what she promised online and that turned out to be a ...

A women I've spoken to online a few times has told my girlfriend I've been seeing her behind her back! I'm worried she will end it. Help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

23 January 2008 (M) - My girlfriend just received a message from a woman on the internet claiming ive been seeing her behind my girlfriend's back. I've never met this woman and only spoken to her a few times online, the most recent being over a month ago. I've always ...

If he really loved me, wouldn't he break it off with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - OK... So, I'm a teenager, I won't specify my exact age [very private over the interweb], and one of my best friends and I have been sneaking around together. Let's call him Tom. Well, Tom and I found that our sexual connection is strong, and it's ...

Should I do it for him or stick to my principles?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now and suddenly he wants a threesome. Its been talked about before but never this seriously. Ive been involved in one (MMF) in my single days and he says that it bothers him that ive ...

I cant forget my affair, I love her and it Hurts so much! What can I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2075 days ago

23 January 2008 (M) - I was involved in an affair that ended after two months. We both knew it was wrong, I was the married one and she wasn't. My marriage has basically been over for the last four+ years and my wife and I have not been intimate in over three years in a...

Do I trust him or not? I don't know what to think now.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend took an ex home with him from the pub last Saturday she claimed she was being hassled by some other bloke he should have put her in a taxi home nothing happened, but she did get into our bed, he slept in the spare room when he discovere...

I told him how I feel and he said he didn't want a relationship! But now, he's started dating my best friend. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Hello, If you can give me some advice that would be great. I'm not sure if this plan will work for my situation but I have been putting it to use. Let me briefly summarize my story- it's rather complicated! So to begin with about 2 years ago I...

I like him a lot! should I come clean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - Okay so here's the thing. I'm 20 and I'm in love with someone who is 26 and lives with someone already. I see him at my workplace so I can't really do anything about being in love with him, because I've never felt this strong attraction towards ...

Why do men engage in extramarital affairs? Love? Pure escapade?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - Is a man who engages in an extramarital affair usually in "love" with the person with whom he is having the affair, or does he "just want to have an affair", meaning there is no emotions or love at all?...

I feel really guilty after my affair!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (?) - I met a married man online after a month I felt very close to him thought we could meet and the next thing I know I was sleeping with him anyway he told me how he was depressed with wife and kids hated his job I felt sorry for him he told me it had ...

My ex boyfriend does not know I acted so as to please another man only because this threatened me he would harm him... or us both!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

20 January 2008 (F) - Hi. Well I think I've got a huge question... I think about 3 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. I took it really hard at first and then I just sort went on with things and didn't really care...because we weren't talking to each other... ab...

My bf's ex-gf is psycho? And now, I'm going nutty..help me out here!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

18 January 2008 (F) - I don't know where to begin. I have had alot of bad relationships. I know what you're supposed to say and not say. Pretty much I always get sick of how people treat me and then I just act like them and I can't help it. I hate myself cause I like do ...

Do I still love my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - When I was 14 I dated "jerome"... this lasted about a year and a half on and off ALOT.. it was an awful relationship but we had our good emotional times. We both understand eachother more then anyone in the world.. I coudl never be more comfortable ...

How do I get him all to myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - Hi. Recently I met a friend of a friend. I'd spoken to him over msn a few times but never met him in person. When i did though we really got along. But later that evening, at his party, my friend told me that he's pretty much in love with another ...

I like him, but he has a girlfriend. I feel guilty. Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6152 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - Ok I feel really guilty like in bad guilty way...See I like this boy his name is Miguel and were friends he knows that I like him that way...He is pretty cool with it it doesn't seem to bother him..He has a girlfriend...Well today we were texting ...

Do I leave mr nice guy to go back to my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - i am so confused with me and my boyfriend. my ex boyfriend has started to like me, and he is the type of guy you can't resist crushing on. lately it hasn't felt right between me and my boyfriend (once i found out my ex liking me) my boyfrien is the ...

My ex is moving in near me and coming to work where I do. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - HELP ME. my ex bf is moving 3 doors down from me. not only have i not seen him for 4 years, everytime someone mentions his name, my heart flutters. the other thing is that he got a job the same place i work, now i have to deal with him everyday!!! i...

Why does he keep talking about his exes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend wont stop mentioning his ex girlfriends,he remembers the exact day he asked them out and the day he broke up with them,although he doesnt even remember our anniversaries, its making me feel unwanted,is it him with the problem or is just ...

What should we do, as my date's live-in partner is very violent and she feels threatened to stay with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - hi i have recently started seeing a girl who has a baby, but still lives with the babies dad,even though they are not going out anmore he wont leave (her house) and is controlling and very possessive of her, she told me today that she is afraid that ...

My boyfriend has gotten another girl pregnant during our break, how do I cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

15 January 2008 (F) - my boyfriend got another girl prenant when we fell out how do i cope we have 3 kids together...