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writes:ok please help me on this on!! My best friend since pre-school startimg dating my older brother about 4 yrs. ago. Well they broke up a year later and since blood is thicker than water i took my brothers side on the situation needless to say they broke up right after Christmas (2006) and she got her presents and didnt see her for about 6 months. After 6 months of not seeing her i did and she was avoiding me so i finally built the courage to call her and talk about all this. Well we made up and things were good for a while. recently she had starting coming to my house just hanging out and my brother and i live together. She and my brother started back up again probably 8 months ago and i really thought this time would work out cause they both have grown so much. She once again broke his heart right after Christmas and now my brother says that he doesnt want her over here which i understand, but does this sound like a friend to anyone? Should i just let this one go cause im tired of getting between my brother and my friends who evenually become his girlfriends? I might not have explained this well but who ever does understand this please, a little advice would be helpful!!! thanks you all of ya'lls time!!
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reader, [email address blocked]  +, writes (12 June 2008):
hey ive been going out with my best friends brother for the last 10 months! my friends was fine with it but i do feel it has caused us to drift apart but i think that is part of life as you grow up however we are still close and are going on holiday together this summer!
i dont think your friend is a bad person and i think you should carry on your friendship with her and just not get caught up in there relationship. i do think taking your brothers side may have been the reason your friend ignored i no i would have been very hurt if my best friend took her brothers side the best thing to do would have been to stay out of it xxxxx
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX +, writes (25 January 2008):
 Sounds like a little X-mas HOE HOE HOE!! Let her go. She using you to get to your brother and using your brother to get stuff. Dont you tihkn it's a little more than a coincidence that she breaks up with him right AFTER X-mas!!!
She's a hoe-O!
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reader, Variety +, writes (25 January 2008):
 No she does not sound like a friend. Not because she keeps breaking your brother's heart (although it may come to the point where you do have to choose between them) but because after dumping him she ignored you too. Friends don't do that. x
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