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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend just received a message from a woman on the internet claiming ive been seeing her behind my girlfriend's back. I've never met this woman and only spoken to her a few times online, the most recent being over a month ago. I've always been faithful to my gf and never even contemplated cheating on her, but I'm scared she'll believe this other woman and end it. Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2008): What about the possibility that she has been checking up on your internet activity and to excuse it has pretended that this woman has contacted her directly? Either way you have to learn not to play these games, it is way too easy to spoil a person’s trust. Tell your girlfriend that she is welcome to check on what you have done any time, that it was a stupid experiment and do not protect anything by password or do anything underhand again. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2008): you are not being faithful to your girlfriend if you are talking to other women behind her back. If you can't do something with your girlfriend in the same room...you shouldn't be doing it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2008): The woman on the internet is obviously some kind of psycho who likes stirring up trouble.
You don't say how this message was transmitted, but if it was via email you can block her. Ignore her from now on and don't contact her again.
Unless you've told her your life story and more, there will be plenty of things about you that she doesn't know about that your girlfriend does. Your girlfriend could reassure herself about your fidelity by asking this nutcase about the scar on your forehead, for instance, and see what she comes back with.
Phil
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