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writes:OK... So, I'm a teenager, I won't specify my exact age [very private over the interweb], and one of my best friends and I have been sneaking around together. Let's call him Tom. Well, Tom and I found that our sexual connection is strong, and it's been a couple of months. I've gone down on him plenty of times, and he always feels me up and stuff. Which at first I didn't mind, but now it's weird. He's dating this girl, who is really troubled, I know her pretty well, I wouldn't say she was my friend exactly, but they've been dating for about a year. I feel so guilty and I've told him this plenty of times, but I just look at his blue eyes and I'm sucked right back in. . I've tried to break it off, but I just can't. We've confessed our love to each other, but he's always so hot and cold with me, one day I can see the love in his eyes, the next it's like I don't mean anything. And we used to talk to each other on the phone for HOURS, but now, it's like he only calls when I ask. I am madly in love with him though, he was my first love, it really hurts to know that he says I love you to her too. I mean if he really loves me, wouldn't he break it off with her? Is he using me? I'm so god damn confused.
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (24 January 2008):
 Honey,
He is using you both I'm affraid. Why does he need to break it off with her, when he can click his fingers and you go running.
If this is all you think you are worth, then carry on. But if I were you, I would dump him and let the other girl find out what he is like. She will be heart-broken too I'm sure, but at least your only young and have the chance to move on.
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reader, maria14r +, writes (23 January 2008):
well from what you told us i'm thinking that he is using you. he probably likes adventure and sees it as an adventure that his girlfriend will never find out. if he loved you like he said then he would of broke it off with her from the beggining.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): heyy omg thats terrible right i am going to tel you str8 about this i think he is using you for a bit on the side and i do not think you should worry too much but do not let him be telling you he loves you tell him wot you wrote on here about him if he loved u he wood end it say that to him i no its gonna hurt like mad cause im kinda going through the same problem but u need to do that cause you will get nowhere in life if you dont and after you have done this you need to keep telling yourself i can do beter okay tell me if this works plz xx
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