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I am so confused about my ex...should I pursue him or let him be??

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Question - (25 January 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *erenityjohnson writes:

My ex and I recently broke up after dating for only 2 weeks (having been knowing and been attracted to him for a lifetime)..he broke up with me because he said he may still be in love with someone else or whatever, but he also loves me.

We (and girlfriend, whom he says he's in love with) just met after what i call a bad breakup...but the problem is we did more than spoke, we were touching and kissing...but i brought up the subject that he shouldnt let me kiss him because he was cheating on his girlfriend. Afterwards, before he was about to leave, he so called didn't want to kiss me(we were around mutual friends at the time)..now i am so confused because i'm not in love with him but love him and attracted to him, and everytime i see him i can't myself from wanting to kiss and touch him...what's the case of this??

I honestly feel like he's the one for me, but he says he not ready to open up his heart and love at the moment, but i am so in love and attracted to him..what should i do prusue or let it be?

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (28 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYou should not bring up any negative comments. You will make him feel guilty. Try not to say negative things in his presence. Just let it rest.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (28 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntKeep being a friend to him.You won't know what will happen tomorrow. It is like you are planting a seed in his heart and you wait for it to grow. Keep watering and take good care of it .

The love seed may grow anytime. If he does not love you , you still have a good friend.

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A female reader, XxAngelDust89xX United States +, writes (25 January 2008):

XxAngelDust89xX agony auntEx's are so named for a reason X= OFF LIMITS. No matter what he has done, if he is in a realtionship you need to leave him alone. If he is gonna cheat on his new girl than that's his mistake. Dont let yourself get caught up in it.

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