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Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

My ex has a pregnant new gf and I feet guilty for the kisses. Still love him, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6261 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i ...

Should I arrange a threesome? Does she really agree to it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - Hi For the past 10 years or so I have always been turned on with the thought of having a 3 some with my wife and another guy. on a recent holiday i arranged for a guy to give her a full body massage.again this was a major turn on for me. Our s...

She called me a slut. Could he still love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is going out with me but he talks to his ex. him and me been going out 6months, and his ex is that touchy type girl. she lived far away, about 8hrs away. I sadly had to move into dorms for college n mine is 1hr away. his ex just came ...

I love my long distance boyfriend, but I've also liked another guy, and I feel like I'm breaking my boyfriends trust. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hi. im a teenager. I have this mind buggling question. It's about my boyfriend and I. we've been going out for about 4 years but he's studying in another country because his family had to relocate.it's about a year now. we really love each other, we ...

My best friend was going out with a guy for a while. She left him, and me and him had a "thing", but now she wants him back because she's in love with him! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - my best friend was going out with this guy for a while, but then she broke up with him and now she wants 2 get back with him and she is proper in love with him but me and him have got a little "thing" goin on and she is proper into him and i duno ...

How do I rebuild my friendship with my best friend without damaging his relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I'm living in what most people would think to be an unorthodox way. I share a house with my best friend who is a man and i'm a woman. Me and my best friend have been very close for years. We've been through a lot together. It has worked o...

I like her, she has a boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - I have known this girl for about two years but only about 2 months ago i realised that i really liked her. a few weeks ago i gathered up the courage to ask her out but to my huge disappointment, her reply was "sorry i have a boyfriend but i like you ...

Is he stringing me along?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - dear aunt, iam 20 and have been dating my boyfriend for 9months. he seems to love me just the same way that i do. but the problem here is that he has a baby with someone else but told me he's gonna part ways with her soon. he told me he only wants ...

Is it worth the gamble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6264 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - i have been loosing interest in my boyfriend for a long time. ive spoken to him about it and tried to do different things but nothing happens. he's letting his appearance go and i no longer find him attractive at all. he hasnt done anything with his ...

Caught in a Love Triangle

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6264 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - i met 2 guys in the same week , didnt mean to , i really liked both , then one wanted to be more serious and become a couple , so i had choose so choose him , just before this , i didnt tell the other guy about him , i just kept him sweet , but we ...

Do I stay safe or take a passionate gamble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - Alright, how to makes this short... I love two men. Man one I have been with for almost a year and a half and was engaged to for a week. But a big problem, he's cheated on me and he lies...ALOT! But he's stopped lying to me... I think. Man t...

Should I be threatened by his ex- girl friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - Should I be threatened by his ex- girl friend, who called our home line and held the phone(twice tonight). It's a payphone, so I call the phone # and hold the phone (juvenile, yes I stopped), however, she proceeds to curse me then tell me how I'm ...

Do I stay with the security of my current lifestyle or take a gamble with this new woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - I have been living with my girlfriend for 6 years the last few of which have been fairly miserable. I haven't felt able to be myself around her anymore and she doesn't bring out the best in me. But despite that I feel her loyalty, depth of feelings ...

Are women naturally territorial about their men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - How do other women feel when their man has to work one-on-one with a cute, much younger female who is single and looking for a bit of adventure? This was never a problem with my previous mate, as he really didn't work around women, and was so ...

I met a girl and she was amazing. I have a boyfriend and don't want to break up with him, but wish to continue seeing the girl.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - I have the most perfectest boyfriend ever. We are really happy together and want to bring a child in to this world. Recently I went out with old friends and I met a girl, We had a lot in things in common, She wasnt gay niether was I. We kissed then ...

I've got three guys chasing me , how do I know who is the right one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - Alright, I'm sorry but this is going to be really long. So I have a sort of love quadrangle happening. There is a guy I like. I have liked him for about a year, lets call him 1. Then there is a guy who I think likes me and who I have been friends ...

My ex husbands new girlfriend has become like a buddy to me, I told her the truth, was this so wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - My ex husbands girlfriend is always the one I deal with when its anything that has to do with our daughter, simply because he is not man enough to talk to me or show up in front of my door when my daughter goes over his house. Every time his girl...

We were engaged, but we split. He has another girl now, will he ever come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - My fiance and i split nearly 2 weeks ago he sed he had to go and sort his head out he did it wen i was away the last night we spent together he sed he loved me and still wants to be with me all e did was kiss and cuddle me all the time. e went and ...

I'm scared he'll leave me and go back with his ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - hi there, i dont know what to do ive been with my bf for 1 1/2 years now and its going great but theres one problem, his ex keeps hanging around they were together for 4 years and she just wont leave us alone, i recently found out that she has been ...

Am I cheating on my long distance boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship with this guy for about 6 months now - we've both decided to keep it open since I am rather indifferent to long distance relationships(for the fact I've had both good and bad long distant experiences) and he ...

He's told me he's been talking to a girl at work he finds "hot"... will he cheat??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - hiya, i am 21 and my partner is 18 we have a 3 month old baby, everything was fine intill a few nights ago when he came in frm work i knew sumthing was up , i asked and my partner said no everything was fine but i jusr knew so we stared fighting and ...

I'm dating a girl who lives with her boyfriend. Can you help me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - Hi I met a girl though the internet 7 months ago. She lives with her boyfriend who she has been with for 9 years, 6 of them living together. I new this from the start but just thught it would be a sexual relationship. We struck up a real good ...

I feel she is inconsiderate to me as concerns her relation with her ex, and others have noticed too she's putting me in an incomfortable position. Am I being unreasonable/jealous?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - I met a great girl 8 months ago. We get on fantastic. But a little problem is starting to put tension and barriers between us. we have run into her ex b/f on a number of occasions. On the first occasion at her local pub she chatted with him...

He's in communication with his ex, but says she initiates the contact.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6269 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - I met this guy 3 weeks ago. We have been hanging out alot and it is going great. He text each other all day every day and call each other every night. However here is the curve ball. He is just getting out of a bad relationship. He said that his ...

Why does it hurt again after three years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6269 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - My Ex and I were in a long distance relationship, which we ended nearly three years ago. The break up was mostly mutual, and we agreed to a pseudo open relationship. We did see each other twice in the following two months, and I always thought we ...

Loving from afar

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - I love a girl, but she already has a boyfriend. And there is no signs that they'll break up any time soon. I really love her, and there is no one else I want besides her. If only she knew how I felt. I would do anything for her. What should I do? I ...

I'm struggling to move on from my husband. What should I do?

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23 October 2007 (F) - me and my husband have recently got divorced for the simple reason of we just drifted apart and thought we'd be better off as friends. I was his first and he was mine we have been best friends since infants school so we know each other very well. I ...

Tell me what to do! I want to win her back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6267 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - hi, i feel very bad last year i got interested in one of my colleagues at work she is a very nice person i started to approach her and felt deeply in love with her (I am 39 years old, and this is the first time to love at all in my life) she made me ...

Do I stay in the marriage for the sake of the children?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - Help! I have been married for 25 years. Have 2 children. 6 and 9. For most of my marriage, my husband has refused to touch me. I used to think there was something wrong with me, but turns out, he is very messed up sexually, and we've just started ...

Torn between the two

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - my ex bf wants me out of his life and i cant let go. i really am confused. i had been with my ex for about 1 1/2 years when we split. about 3/4 months before the end of our relationship my bf (at the time) introduced me to a good friend of his. w...

I've recently gone through a brea-up. We are still friends, but now I like somebody else. Should I tell him, or just wait it out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, I have just recently gone through a breakup but now I have feelings for another guy. We are good friends and this poses a problem. He may like me but I think he may be afraid of what he is feeling also because he's my friend. Do you h...

Three's company.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

21 October 2007 (M) - I have a girlfriend of 1 year with whom I am in love with. However, she is a year younger than me, and since I have just graduated from High School a little late recently,(3 months ago to be exact) I never really see her anymore, and it feels like ...

Falling for a co-worker. What should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

21 October 2007 (M) - I am a 40 year old married man. I have a 3 year old child. My wife is a good person. At my work I am falling in love with my co-worker. She is very attractive, beautiful and sexy looking and 8 years younger then me. She is also a married and has a 5 ...

I can't understand how he can be happy in this marriage knowing well I love another man who I'm unable to have any contact with. Or should I just be content with what I have?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - I'm married to a really nice man, my best friend really, since 1996. For him it's always been real love but I've foregone the passion as I never thought it was that important, but as the years went on I found it more and more difficult to meet my ...

Why am I a drinking wreck! Why do still I love abusive, lying cheating partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

18 October 2007 (F) - My (currently ex) partner of 7 yrs has cheated on me for 1st 6mths with the mistress his wife was divorcing him for, has constantly lied, stolen 30k from his mum, been on many sex internet sites with his picture replied to all women i put on to ...

I cheated on my husband while he's away at war, but now I want to fix it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - Well this situation is pretty sorted. I feel like the most terrible person in the world. I cheated on my husband while he's away at war! What kind of person does that???? Anyway, here's my situation. Thanks for reading. My husband went away to Afg...

A few questions regarding a woman I'm attracted to... Even though I'm married...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

17 October 2007 (M) - I met this woman at a lunch party last May and ever since I have been very attracted to her. I am in love with her and told her so. I am married, 34 years old while this woman is 36. My wife and I have a great relationship but she is out of the ...

He's "miserably" with his wife, I just separated from my spouse. He wanted to date me in high sch. We met recently and there was an undenyable chemistry. How do I approach this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - I try not to read into dreams to much as I know sometimes they are meaningless and/or fantasy, blahblahblah...... But I had a dream lastnight that I can't get out of my head. About 1 year ago I ran into an old highschool friend of mine. We are ...

He rows with me every time I wish to go out with my friends but he goes on holidays with his wife and says they're just friends? Am I a fool?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - i have been seeing a man for three years who has been seperated from his wife for 5 years, however, he phones her every day, spends one day a week with her, and has now gone away on holiday with her. he says they are just friends and that they are ...

She slipped through my fingers

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

16 October 2007 (M) - Ok i'll give this a try, i've been friends with the girl for a while now. Lately we have gotten really close, and i've fallen for her...However, i introduced her to one of my friends who turns out that thye also like her, and she likes him too. He ...

My husband can be such a baby, and I worry he won't be strong enough if we ever encounter larger problems in our relationship and in life. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

16 October 2007 (F) - Hi i have been married now for 2 years, i think i love my husband but i'm not sure if i have married a man or a big baby. For example if i am ill he is ill as well, he lays it on thick in front of his mum. We had a holiday in Florida, and he ...

He seems to get alog better with his female friend than with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F) - my bf has gone to uni and is living in accommodation. we have been going out for 2 years and a half so it's a bit of a struggle. the thing is there's a girl in his halls that really fancies him! he said he gets along with her really well (this wa...

Is Uncle messing around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

15 October 2007 (F) - Hi everyone I think my uncle is having a affair with another woman,i was playing with his phone then i went his messages without his permission and i looked in his inbox i found lots of text that lead to think he is having a affair he is married ...

How can I put this situation right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

14 October 2007 (F) - How do you right a wrong? Lots of us friends went out last night, few too many drinks. People fell out and i ended up shouting at my ex boyfriend out of the blue, he hadnt done anything wrong apart from tell the guy i am seeing that he will get hurt...

I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

14 October 2007 (F) - so here we go! Im 17 years old and will be 18 in november. Im a freshman in college and am persueing a law degree. I have been dating this guy for about 1yr and a half off and on. We dated for a good year and then he went away in nat. guard. H...

Prince Charming or Mr Reliability?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 October 2007 (F) - Confused! I have been in a loving relationship with a man aged 40 for approximately 6 months, he adores both me and my disabled son. However he just doesnt make my stomach turn over when he walks in the room. He also has a problem with cannabis us...

Our friendship has been rocked because we all got involved. Is there anyway we can remain friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

13 October 2007 (M) - I have been really good friends with a girl "X" for a few years now. She has a boyfriend "Y" who I am also friends with. Things between X and Y havent exactly been peachy for the last couple of years but she doesn't know what to do about it. Last ...

Was I wrong? Friends, Weddings, and Unreturned Phonecalls...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

13 October 2007 (M) - Hi Everybody, I need to get the take of people I don't personally know on this situation. I live by two simple rules. Don't pursue a woman that's taken and don't show up uninvited. On short notice, a female friend of mine (who I've known m...

I still sleep with my husband and father of our child, even though he is STILL sleeping with another woman. What can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

12 October 2007 (F) - Like I said in the question, you couldn't make this up. I will give you a bit of background and I would appreciate any advice, please do not be nasty or just rude, this is very very hard for me. We were together for five years, got together when I ...

I walked on him and my gay brother having sex!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

12 October 2007 (F) - I Have a problem....I've been seeing my boyfriend for two years now and last night I walked on him and my gay brother having sex!!! I really really love my bf and my brother and I know that I should dump him but I really love hi and he says it was ...