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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been really good friends with a girl "X" for a few years now. She has a boyfriend "Y" who I am also friends with. Things between X and Y havent exactly been peachy for the last couple of years but she doesn't know what to do about it. Last year X moved in with us into our shared house. For a few months now several things have happened between X and me and my feelings for her have really started to blossom. We've been having ilicit, lustful meetings when there's been nobody else in the house. A week ago we slept together and ever since then I can't stop thinking about her and when Y comes round to the house I have to be cool around them both and act like nothing is happening. It's so painful to see them together as a couple knowing whats gone on and knowing how she feels. I can't live like this. What do i do?
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (13 October 2007):
Why on earth would you want a girl who is two timing her boyfriend? Enjoy the benefits of her cheating and understand when you find a real girlfriend she will hopefully be of better character.
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reader, hotty +, writes (13 October 2007):
you need to tell X she needs to end it with Y, because when it comes down to it she is cheating on him, she may also feel an overwhelming serge of guilt and tell him all and tell him about you (Z)lets be honest, even tho things arent rosey between them she still cheated on him by sleeping with you. Thats when he takes it out on you and you get blamed for the whole ordeal. I know it takes 2 but when it comes to complicated matters of the heart its the other party that gets blamed. What you really need to ask yourself is if you did get together with her could you trust her, if she can sleep with you behind her Ys back whats to stop her doing it to you. if i were you i'd steer well clear until she knows what she wants cos she sounds a little confused to me.
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