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writes:How do you right a wrong?Lots of us friends went out last night, few too many drinks. People fell out and i ended up shouting at my ex boyfriend out of the blue, he hadnt done anything wrong apart from tell the guy i am seeing that he will get hurt because we will be getting back together and that i give him mixed signals. None of which is true, we split a few months ago and he has found it hard to get over me even though we got on well as mates until last night and took his kid and my kids places together twice a week. He finds it hard to see me with this guy im only seeing and whenever he gets drunk he almost cries while telling the guy im seeing he wants me back. (which my guy finds a tad annoying! but they are old mates)I have told him more than once i wouldnt get back with him and when hes sober he knows that.Last night my resentment about after we split came out, about when i txt him really distressed one night a month after we split, he ignored my txt because he was in bed with someone he was seeing. And im talking i was REALLY distressed. That hurt that he put his new fb before me i guess. I dont know why i came out with it last night and i was awful to him.He now wants nothing to do with me, says im a nasty piece of work and is glad he now has closure.How can i right this for the childrens sake? I havent told them they might not be seeing his child again. I havent eaten all day and just want to cry all the time.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (14 October 2007):
Don't go to the bar he hangs out in.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (14 October 2007):
 Personally i think he will get over it, at the end of the day he is the one that has been pretty nasty up until this moment, like you have said he always tries to cause trouble when he is drunk by saying things that are not true, and the kids would get over it.
Unless of course there is more to it and you do still harbour more feelings for him then you are letting on.
I'm just wondering why you would want to put things right with someone that tries to ruin your relationship, using the poor excuse that he was drunk, if he knows the score between you when he is sober then he does also when he is drunk.
Take care.xx.
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