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Archived questions from: June, 2015 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I'm afraid my fetish for watching my lady with other men will ruin our relationship. She doesn't want to do this!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - Got a difficult question. I have been with my girlfriend for about 4 years but we have different mentalities. She is set on monogamy and I have a bad fetish of watching her be intimate with other males. I don't mean different males every time, I ...

Ex boyfriend treats me as his girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - My ex and I have been broken up for almost 5mos now. We didn't see each other for the first 3mos but within the last 2mos we have been hanging it out. We were together for a year. We did have sex a few times here and there but I don't feel bad about ...

Two ex's back in my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3439 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - My ex boyfriend "Joe" broke up with me cause he felt I had too much stress in my life already. I felt it coming but it didn't hurt as bad cause we admitted that we still loved each other and would be friends. My previous ex "matt" jumped at my being ...

Sick of ex's older wife

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - I have a son who is 6 years old and my ex currently has more custody than I do, I get him every other weekend. My problem is I'm so sick of my ex's wife and really don't want her around my son. For starters she's 46 years old, 10 years older than ...

I know he's my ex. So should I be wanting to know all about his current life and what he's up to? How can I move on and not obsess like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - How do I stop being suspicious about what this girl is doing with my ex? My ex left me after a year, for another woman, 2 or 3 months back. It hurt me terrible and my ex stopped speaking to me over it. The thing is - I can't stop obsessing ove...

My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend wants to stay friends with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - We are living together in our own apartment for 3 years now and I just found out one of his female friends that he spends lots of time talking to was one of his exgirlftiends (his first love), she's the only ex that he's still talked too and I've ...

How could he go from being the (I thought) love of my life to marrying another girl five months after we broke up and leave me when I was feeling vulnerable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

26 June 2015 (?) - Hi, I went through a terrible breakup in December. We were in a long distance relationship for 4.5 years at the time of breakup. Last year while I was finishing my masters I got placed at the first company that visited our campus (Top company in ...

Should I respond or shut it down?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - Sheesh this is a long one, sorry! I was with this guy for almost 2 years. While it wasn't the best of relationships (it was rife with cheating and all sorts of lies and disrespect) he was my first pretty much everything and I really really li...

He's amicably seperated but procrastinates about divorce

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - I am in desperate need of advice. My boyfriend has been seperated and not living with his wife for five years, they have no kids. We have been dating for 3 and a half years. My boyfriend and his ex are friends and as a child of divorced parents ...

He has double standards and I'm not sure how to approach this! Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I met a man a year and half ago. He had just been divorced and has full custody of his two kids. We moved in together in January and now we are talking about getting married, but I have a major issue now. When I was moving my stuff in he didn't want ...

I just want someone to tell me if my feelings are justified?!! Or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and things have never been perfect from the start but I chose to ignore the first warning signs. We met years ago then lost contact and started talking online again 3 years ago, we decided ...

How do I get my head around the fact that he's rejected me because I have a child?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - My ex and I were together for a year and we've been broken up for 4mos. He came back a month ago wanting a second chance but then changed his mind. He says that he doesn't want to be with me because I have a child. I'm trying my best not to cry w...

My boyfriend has been talking about a "two-year itch" and I'm worried he's had enough of me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - Please help, im feeling really lost and starting to doubt myself. So been with my o/h for two years, prior to getting together we had been really close friends for about 13 years. We had been amazing for a while, but for about 6 months he has been ...

It's been two or three years since we broke up, so why am I just now having recurring dreams about my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - It's been 2 or 3 years after my ex dumped me. I don't remember exactly how long. I do sometimes think about him, but we stopped all contact 1 year ago. I haven't dated anyone after we broke up. I don't know why I dreamed about him a lot recently, ...

Why is this ex trying to turn friends against me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

21 June 2015 (F) - Why is an ex trying to turn my friends against me? I had a brief affair with a guy who was a bit of a player - chatting and flirting with women etc. I told him I didn't think I could be part of his life like it is and told one of my friends that ...

Potentially getting back with an old flame but we still have nothing in common!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3446 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - Potentially getting back with an old flame... we fell MADLY in love a few summers ago.. it didn't work out for various reasons.. communication problems mostly and petty insecurities on both sides. It's been 2 1/2 years and we have both matured ...

I don't think my boyfriend is over his ex, I keep seeing him checking out her FB page

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3447 days ago

19 June 2015 (F) - I was wondering of someone could help. I am in love with a great guy and throughout our relationship we have grown together. I have one problem despite what he says I don't think he's over an ex girlfriend who he lived with. He became ill and...

Online: what do you think I am for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3447 days ago

18 June 2015 (F) - I have met a guy around one year ago online. He says he has time for me and there is no limits for me to cross for him. whenever I text to him he will answer even when he has exams. But he said he's not good at starting a conversation,eve...

Ex-wife has alienated my daughter, please help...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

16 June 2015 (M) - My ex-wife and I were separated for almost a year before she filed for divorce. I realize in hindsight that she was using the "threat" of divorce to make me see what I was going to lose in hopes that I would come crawling to her. However, I didn't ...

His attitude towards me wanting a child in the future is affecting how I treat his 3 year old!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3451 days ago

14 June 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years. He has a three year old son with another woman. They only dated for about a month and accidentally got pregnant and things didn't work out between them. I was originally ok with the situation. I ...

Sometimes I just want to know how she is!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

14 June 2015 (M) - i feel like an idiot but sometimes i wish me and my ex still talk. its been years, dont think i want to get back together because i know i can find better but she was at the time my best friend. sometimes im cuirous at how she is doing like a friend ...

I said hi to my ex and regret it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3451 days ago

14 June 2015 (F) - Am I stupid ? I dumped my bf 3 weeks ago! It was a short one of 4 months He was cheating on me and dating others, he was stingy, liar , opportunistic and so sensitive , always uses me , always he has no money But loved him (I hate my heart) ...

Why do I feel like the old wounds are being opened again after 7 months apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3453 days ago

14 June 2015 (F) - My ex and I were on and off for few years and we lived 4 hours apart. We were planning to meet up last time but the plans kept falling through because of conflicting schedules .Then he ended up meeting someone closer. He had met other females wh...

I broke up with him after his father called me evil!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3451 days ago

13 June 2015 (F) - To give you a bit of background, me and my now ex-boyfriend had been together for nearly one year. He is 21 and I am nearly 20. I don't really know how to start but two weeks ago, I was invited by his family to a birthday meal for his sisters 19th...

She's my ex and yet she's still being demanding? What should I do for the best?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

13 June 2015 (M) - Over a week ago I found my (ex) girlfriend on dating sites. It`s not the first time by a long way. Sometimes she lied about it, other times she blamed me for neglecting her, which I dispute and she would never explain why. In fact, it broke up...

I need advice please? It's the same girl, but things have changed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

13 June 2015 (M) - So this is the third time i wrote here asking for questions... And its still about the same girl, to begin things change and doesnt go quite as planned... About four months ago i posted a previous question about asking my highschool crush out ...

My ex: Does he still love me? Or does he just want us to maintain a friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3453 days ago

13 June 2015 (F) - I was once dating a guy way back in junior high, he was in high school then. We broke up because my parents found out about my affair with him(because i wasn't of the legal age then) but since then, he has been calling me almost everyday telling ...

I have no desire to get back together with my first love, but he keeps contacting me and I am running out of excuses!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

9 June 2015 (F) - How do you get rid of a first love who keeps coming back? I know I'm going to sound like a nasty, selfish person - but obviously I'm not nasty and selfish enough - as I still can't seem to shake my first love off. The thing is - we (I'll call...

Why would my ex add me on Facebook only to delete me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

9 June 2015 (F) - Hi guys I have a situation, Ive posted about this before. My last serious ex gaa got back in touch, I'm finding it strange. I'll tell what happened breifly. Everything was hunky dory he went to mqgaluf for his 21sr came back and apparently had ...

I fell for my friend's ex but I think she was using me to get back at him because he cheated on her with a friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

8 June 2015 (M) - so i once asked advice about dating my friend's ex-girlfriend. it was well adviced here on cupid.we kept chatting though and we were getting too serious but stil not officially dating. long story short maybe she got talking with my friend again and ...

How do I stop obsessing over my married ex who would like to have sex with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

8 June 2015 (F) - Hi.I feel really embarrassed writing this but I feel like I need to vent and maybe get some advice. I used to be involved with this guy. I lost my virginity to him (he doesn't know) and ended up really falling for him. It never turned into a ...

Should I end my relationship with my current boyfriend? I feel guilty that I still think of my ex every day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3458 days ago

8 June 2015 (F) - Just under a year and a half ago me and my ex broke up. I thought he was going to end things with me as he had stopped telling me he loved me, but this turned out not to be the case he was just struggling as we had gone into a long distance ...

Just how close has he been to this girl? And when? Is he confused or being confusing on purpose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

8 June 2015 (F) - So, I've been friends with this guy for almost four years. Less than 2 years ago he admitted he had feelings for me since he met me, I admitted I had previously felt similarly, but at that current time I didn't feel the same and we continued just ...

My love life is falling apart again! My boyfriend seems to have lost his sex drive and I have a dear friend flirting with me making me feel desirable! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3459 days ago

8 June 2015 (F) - My love life is falling apart. I have a fantastic boyfriend who I love dearly. He is kind and sensitive and I really am the centre of his world. The issue is that for the past two months we haven't had sex. It's making me insecure. I've got issues ...

He's destroyed my self esteem. How do I move on from being used, by my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

7 June 2015 (F) - Hi All, I have a problem. I'm 27 born in the uk my ethnicity is caribbean. My nigerian boyfriend of 2yrs have been pretending to be in a relationship with me the whole we were together. He has dumped me before in 2013 saying he cant give me the ...

How can I stop feeling the way I do, about how his ex had a child easily and I'm having so many problems conceiving?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3460 days ago

6 June 2015 (F) - I hope to have positive answers, not negative ones. Ok, so here it goes, My husband and I are trying to conceive, its difficult, many different reasons, I have an abnormal monthly. I don't ovulate as I should, I have whatever other problems wit...

I feel my ex only thinks and cares about his own needs only, advice please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

4 June 2015 (F) - My ex lives with me for a yr now. He doesnt pay for anything at all including rent. Hes bought a jetski thats been fixed on off and dies again on off. He spent so much money on the jski and none on his 2kids. Hes always telling me that I should ...

I'm caught in a relationship triangle. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

4 June 2015 (F) - My boy friend told me after we started dating that he had a girl friend before me and they break up. Now the girl has just returned explaining her cause of the previous action and wants a second chance. The guy feels that this girl deserves a second ...

I want her back but she went back to her ex and says he is there for her. Do I give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

4 June 2015 (M) - A year after my wife died in 2003 I got the internet. I started to chat to a woman about my experience with my wife`s death and she chatted about her recent father`s death. She was married still at the time.Over the next nine years we chatted on and ...

I am married with a child but still think back to my one true love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

4 June 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I lead an untraditional life, I am an Arabic female in my late 20`s, I am not a rich Arab, in fact I am from a poor/ developed country, my family/society are fanatics religious and everything is judged based in a certain mentalit...

My ex is using my insecurities as a bargaining tool.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

4 June 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I need some reassurance, really, as I'm finding it hard to properly separate from my ex and he keeps talking about getting back together - it's confusing me and I keep being drawn to him, like a moth to a flame. Maybe the first thin...

We messaged as friends after the breakup. So why the change in her tone, after so long?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

2 June 2015 (M) - Hi guys Apologies in advance for this mammoth of an essay! I broke up with my girlfriend 2 years ago. It was a mutual thing (we realised we had different ambitions and priorities) and we managed to remain friends afterwards, even meeting...

How can I reach out to my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

1 June 2015 (F) - I desperately want to reach out to my ex. We were dating for almost 2 years. But I cheated on when I went to college. I feel horrible and guilty about what I did. I hate myself for ruining our relationship. I miss him so much but I'm sure he hates ...

LDR and I've discovered he called his ex to take him to hospital. Should I just let it go as he suggested? Or what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3465 days ago

1 June 2015 (F) - I am in a LDR. We've been together for about 2 years. Recently I found out that about six months into our relationship, my boyfriend had food poisoning and had to go to the ER. He called up his ex girlfriend who lived about an hour away from him...

I don't want him and I don't regret not being with him so why do I think of him so often?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3466 days ago

1 June 2015 (F) - I'm in a long term relationship and very happy in it, but thoughts of my ex have plagued me for years. I'm engaged and living with a man I love very much. We've been together a long time and Im very happy with my life in general, but I cannot get...