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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i feel like an idiot but sometimes i wish me and my ex still talk. its been years, dont think i want to get back together because i know i can find better but she was at the time my best friend. sometimes im cuirous at how she is doing like a friend ive lost touch with some years ago
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2015): Talk to her. Don't let pride get in the way. Maybe she wonders about you. See how she's doing give it a try !
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2015): Get in touch.
She'll either respond or she won't. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Having said that, I'd encourage you to look at your current life and ask yourself what is missing. Why the need to go digging in the past?
When my ex contacted me I simply deleted his message and felt sorry for him living in the past.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2015): i cant see the point in wanting to talk to your ex when you know you can find better. Get out there and search for better...while your still young and people of your age are all still looking to settle down...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2015): Yeah,me too... Too much hurt though.
And, then I think: "Ok, but how will this benefit me?"
Use this question: "How will it benefit me to know what my ex is doing?"
The answer is: it most likely won't. I've found that you can be friends with exes,but only if you go through the "shit" at the beginning and find a way to rise over bitterness and a host of other negative emotions.
If you don't do that at the very beginning, there is almost no way you can do it several years down the line... Something "unresolved" will always crop up.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (15 June 2015):
 Your words don't SAY this.... but what I'm reading is: "I'm still carrying a candle for my ex-, and I'd like to find out if there's a chance I can rekindle things with her...."
I wasn't fooled.... and neither will be many of the other Aunts and Uncles on this site....
Good luck...
P.S. How much does a PHONE CALL cost?????
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