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writes:My love life is falling apart. I have a fantastic boyfriend who I love dearly. He is kind and sensitive and I really am the centre of his world. The issue is that for the past two months we haven't had sex. It's making me insecure. I've got issues from past relationships where men have lost sex drive and to be honest I feel like crying. On the other hand my dear friend is constantly flirting with me and making me feel desirable. What do I do? I can't keep pretending that I am ok with how I am feeling. My best friend and I have history and I can't help but feel the chemical click.
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reader, He_Na  +, writes (8 June 2015):
Don't give up so easily. You need to find out the reason to why you guys have not been physical for the past 2 month. The reason could be you as well.
Doing same thing daily could be boring. Add something new. Make the atmosphere desirable. Make yourself desirable. I hope you do understand what am trying to say.
You said you love him dearly but you seem to have given up in this short span of time. First of all, you need to distance yourself from your friend. Secondly, Plan something special for both of you!! Don't expect a guy always to make the first step. Sometimes you have to do it as well.. Maybe he wants you to do it. try it! ;)
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (8 June 2015):
 Why have you not had sex in two months? Is your boyfriend under stress? Work pressures? Studies? Family problems? Are you in an LDR?
There has to be some reason for the sex to completely stop, he couldn't have stopped just out of the blue. What exactly is it?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (8 June 2015):
 Talk to your BF, tell your friend to cut it out.
I get that you WANT to feel sexy and since your BF isn't doing that you seem to think it's OK that you get that attention fro ma friend, but you KNOW it's not OK.
Have you considered that your BF is pulling back BECAUSE of this flirting? Or do you think he is totally unaware of it?
Talk to your BF, sort it out or break up and be single and do your own thing..
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