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Archived questions from: November, 2013 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Everything is going wrong right now .....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - How do you handle it when everything seems to go wrong and you are under so much stress? I don't want to get into too much detail but over the past few months I have gone through a whole lot. My parents have never been there for me and don'...

Its such a slap in my face that my ex would end up with this girl who had made my life miserable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up last December but we're still friends. However, during and before our relationship started this girl who liked him tried everything in her power to break us up, she threatened me and tried to get some girl to beat me ...

Why does my boyfriend look up his ex's at least once a week?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - Is it normal that my boyfriend looks up all his exes and sometimes just girls that he has kissed/had flings with on facebook? It's once a week ish usually! I never do that!! He is a big thinker he thinks about everything - his mind is always g...

My ex went off on me because I'm seeing his married friend. I don't know what to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - where do i start its a long story , iv been trying to get a hold of my x for the longest time we did not part well, anyway we had been together for 4 yrs friends befor that so finly did reach him we stared talking again he said he would come and ...

Should I sleep with my ex casually?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - My Ex, who I have not seen in about 7 years, recently invited me over to have a drink. He asked me if I wanted to have sex. I was shocked as he married since our breakup but apparently is splitting up. I told him I was looking for a relationship, ...

How could my ex move on so quickly after a 4 year relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - My ex dumped me 6 months ago. It's pretty hard for me to move on and let go. We were together for 4 years. It was a nasty breakup. We talked a few times in the first few times, but it's mostly about me telling him how much he hurt me. Last month, I ...

My ex says he has no feelings for me but gets upset when I don't return his calls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, so my ex broke up with me a couple of months ago and a lot of stuff had happened since then but recently he said it was best we didn't see each other for a while as we both need to move on etc. To cut a long story short, he has since ...

I think my boyfriend of 7 months still has feelings for his ex girlfriend even though he says he doesn't.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - Hi everyone I think my boyfriend of 7 months still has feelings for his ex girlfriend even though he says he doesn't. They broke up about a year and a half ago. I feel this way because he is still friends with her even though she treated him ...

I cursed her out, we broke up, I want her back, but she's moved on.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

28 November 2013 (M) - I never felt this bad in my life. This is the first time I ever truly loved a girl and the first time I've been genuinely heartbroken. We broke up because I felt she was being cold to me, plus I had no job and I guess the sex wasn't great and I ...

I feel like my sou lmate is at the wrong place!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

27 November 2013 (M) - I have posted on here a lot in the past, and I am posting again because I need some help, or words of courage. My ex of one year and I broke up. It was mainly because I was going to the Marines Reserves. I gave that dream up so that she would b...

No feelings for my new boyfriend and I think I'm in love with my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Hi i have been in a relationship for 10 weeks now my boyfriend says he adores me the problem is i have no feelings for him even though i have tried and tried i feel to guilty to split up with him though we were friends for 3 years before and we ...

I'm dating a new guy, but I just can't seem to let my ex go.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I was dating a guy who I fell head over heels with for 3 months. Things were really awesome in the beginning and then they started to fall apart because I kept pressuring him to put a title on the relarionship. Long story short we broke up a little ...

Am I right not trusting my partner after finding out his ex stayed when I wasn't there??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Hi I'm seeking advice and I guess because I'm in a new country and feeling isolated, some strength and direction to help get my thoughts together and make some decisions would be really helpful. I've been in a relationship with my partner for over...

My ex seemed to get too close. Does he still have a thing for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Basically, my friends and I went to this event called Midnight Rodeo. It's a country place/bar where you dance two-step and things like that. It was for my friend's birthday party; she went to drink for her 21st birthday so we separated once w...

Pregnant and my boyfriend messages his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of nearly two years has been texting his ex behind my back, I caught him at a glance by seeing her name on Facebook I said nothing but when he was sleeping I looked the messages are harmless when sober but some are when he was drunk and ...

Why its good to remain friends with your EX?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

25 November 2013 (?) - Hello people! Its been so long since the last time I've submitted a how to guide from here. I really miss writing here so much. I've been busy lately. Mostly from work loads, Some writing gigs and too many personal roller coaster things I am expe...

Ex doesn't want to take me to court, but still wants contact - after everything he's done!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - Hi guys. Posted about this on here before. Brief reminder: My ex had our son one day a week, left him in wet clothes, we had a row, then he turned round and said he didn't want to see our son anymore. Afew months ago his latest girlfriend ...

Would you ever ask an ex to be your plus 1 at a wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - Would you ever asks an ex to be your plus 1 at a wedding? I ask because my ex asked me to go to a wedding with him. He was the dumpee. It was 5 months ago we broke up, but he didn't take it so great. We've spoken on and off since, but nothing much. ...

He pushed me away but now he's behaving like the scorned lover

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - Hi So I posted a few weeks ago about breaking up with my boyfriend. He was acting distant, not making much effort then decided to ignore me when i tried to talk to him about it so i ended it. Unfortunately we have to work together and he is ...

Do I go to the party or make an excuse not to go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4021 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - I need some advice on what to do. I was seeing someone from work for about 5 months. He left 2 months after we got together and i left a month later. We were a tight group at work and we both still see the gang we worked with regularly. At first we ...

Fighting! Now I remind him of his ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now. Our way of handling stress is much different. I'm suprised we've lasted this long. He is hot headed to the point where he says and does the first thing on his mind. I am pretty quick ...

Three days ago I suffered a miscarriage. Do I tell my ex bf/good friend I miscarried his baby?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I are 11 years a part, Im 18. We dated secretly to avoid the scandel as we knew he was moving away in december. Last week he ended it early and we are still on really good terms. Its tricky when we both are attracted to eac...

Is there still a chance for us? Should I contact him again within a few months? Or should I just forget about him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - I'll keep it short since our 'relationship' was short too. I met this guy at a party 3 weeks ago. We had an instant click and an amazing evening. He told me he came just out of a long relationship and was single for just 1 month. He's 23, i'm 26 ...

Does my B/f still miss his ex? How often do they talk? Was their relationship better than ours? Am I a rebound to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we were friends/talking for 2 months before we got together. When him and I first met and were in the friends/talking kind of stage, he still had feelings for his ex and they talked ofte...

My ex and I are back together but he was dating another girl during our break and I wonder things like if he "loved" her and how serious they were

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - so my ex and i have started to rekindle things a bit. we have been broken up for about 4 months and i know through friends that he had a brief girlfriend sometime during the time we were broken up. i cant help but think about that other relationship ...

My boyfriend wouldn't be sending flowers to his ex girlfriend every year on that date, would he?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - I saw that my boyfriend has been forwarding himself an email about a reminder notice to send flowers the last couple of days . I had seen it quickly over his shoulder and then took a peek yesterday which I don't normally do! The flowers were ...

New man that is too protective? Or ex who left me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - Please help,I have a child by my first boyfriend. He cheated and left me when I got pregnant. After a year, he came back and we got back together. After six months together,I left him for because he did not call me for weeks. I have a new boyfriend ...

Caught in the past and don't know how to break free

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - I need help and I am not sure what more I can do. I have tried getting over an ex from my past but I cant seem to let go. It makes me depressed and I cut myself off from people. I have tried everything from counselling to dating other guys but its ...

Worried and confused -- why would he want to be in contact with this ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - Hi, I really need some advice and honest opinions. How do you feel about ex's keeping in touch with each other? What's the reason they feel the need to stay in touch? My boyfriend of 6 months still keeps in touch with his ex who he was wit...

Do men keep stuff from their ex girlfriends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - Hi. Firstly I'm typing this on my phone so sorry for any mistakes. I'll try and make this short. I've known this guy for six years as friends. We just recently startde dating and so far its been amazing. He's sweet, nice, focused on school a...

Was she so much in love with her ex or she just didn't like me enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 November 2013 (M) - I was with this girl for a while (almost two months). She liked me but it was kind of flakey; sometimes she was more into me than others. After a while I found out that she was still obssesed with her ex bf after one and a half years (!) of not even ...

My ex found out about my new guy and the new guy ended things!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - I was with my boyf for 8 years. We broke up in June. I started seeing someone new in August. Things with this new guy were going great. I've totally fell for him and see a long term future for us. I have met up with my ex on a few occasions, as we ...

Should I dump my wife? She keeps calling me by her ex's names!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

17 November 2013 (M) - my wife intentionally called me by her ex-husbands name and her ex-fiances name(i caught her texting him later after we were married, she claimed she thought it was his mom)I am having a hard time getting over this. should I dump her?...

We had a stupid argument and my ex broke up with me. I want her back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

17 November 2013 (M) - Hey there hope you all are doing good! I'll probably say random info but hopefully it helps you help me. Well I need a bit of help here. I've been with my girlfriend for about 7 months now well ex girlfriend cause she broke up with me today. We've ...

My girlfriend is still contacting her ex! It really hurts me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

15 November 2013 (M) - Dear agony aunts, Once again I need your advice. We've been in a relationship for 3 years, and as of July 2013, we live together. When we started dating, my girlfriend told me that her ex was calling her stuff and making threats. I took no part i...

I have a second chance with my ex but its on harsh terms- should I go for it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

15 November 2013 (M) - Hey all Its day 4 post breakup here, i havent started 'no contact' we are still talking every night all night (i know this is not the way to go) Our split was down to distance..5 years in an LDR with neither of us willing to give up our jobs ...

Me and my ex are going to be at the same event. how should I act?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

15 November 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend has broke up for almost 4 months, he was the one who broke up with me. I recently found out me and my ex are going to the same climbing event. There will be around 20-25 people going. It's a online meetup group event, and I've ...

Am I getting my hopes up for nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

13 November 2013 (F) - I left my ex because he has a temper, wasn't putting the effort into the relationship. That was nearly 5 months ago, we where only together for 6. After we broke up, he went through a few periods of talking to me and not talking to me. He didn't ...

Could someone give me a little pep talk or something about how I am not a bad person for cutting her out of my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) - Am I a bad person for cutting off an ex who wants to remain friends? My ex of 7 years (we mutually broke up 3 years ago) won't stop contacting me out of the eventhough I am now married and she is engaged. What is really confusing is that she was emot...

I feel like he'll never love me as much as he loved her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) - Hi all, I've been having some issues lately and don't really know what to do anymore. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months, he had a very serious girlfriend before me. They had been broken up about 8 months or so when him and I started dating...

The ex came back and he has changed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) - Hello I need some help in my relationship! We have been together for 3 years and were engaged but things are going down heal. He has two kids with another women, his ex just got out of prison for drug charges and since she got out she has been ...

I'm hurt he ignored me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) - Hi OK so i just don't know what to do in this situation and who's right and wrong really. :/ I was seeing my boyfriend for 5 months. We started off lovely, then after about a month he backed off and said he wanted to take it slow. I respec...

I like her and she likes me, but what about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

12 November 2013 (M) - I really like my best friends ex and I know she likes me. They broke up 2 months ago but he is nowhere near being over her and to make things worse I live with him. I don't know what I should do...

Worried that he can't completely let go of his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - Dear cupid I kind of have a problem. I don't think my boyfriend can completely let go of his ex girlfriend. When we got together he was still missing his ex and not completely over her. He's still basically friends with her. They talk and text ea...

How do I deal with retroactive jealousy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - Hi there, this will be long but I'm in need of help and would appreciate the time and any advice you can offer. I'm 27 living in Los Angeles Cali, working at a video game company. I have suffered from retroactive jealousy since my ve...

Still haven't let go three months after the break up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - I guess I don't have an exact question I just need to vent and need some advice.. I can't stop thinking about my ex boyfriend. I have not contacted him at all since he broke up with me 3 months ago, neither has he. I feel good that I've maintain...

Why is it taking me so long to get over someone who wasn't that great of a boyfriend in the first place?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

9 November 2013 (F) - I'm having a really hard time moving on from my ex-boyfriend but I don't think it's normal or healthy because it's been a year and a half since he broke up with me. We dated for 2 years while he was in the military. He wanted me to move to a dif...

I can't get over my husband cheating with this awful woman!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

8 November 2013 (F) - I had marital problems last year, long story short my husband was cheating on me with an actual whore and when I mean who're I mean this nasty person cheated on her x-husband for the 17 years of Thier marriage she found my husband and found him to ...

Why do abusive men see me as a target to be mistreated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

8 November 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I was once in love with my Ex we went our own ways because he turned out to be very abusive mentally and physically I left him. As time went on I ran into another guy who treated me like a queen everyday of my life then he turned out to...

Should I continue being friends with my ex-lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

7 November 2013 (F) - I don't know if I should continue being "friends" with my ex. My hopes is of course to get back together. We dated only 3 months, he broke up with me due to still not over his ex who left him for another man. Said he was not ready for a ...