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I like her and she likes me, but what about him?

Tagged as: Crushes, Friends, Teenage, The ex-factor, Three is a crowd<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (12 November 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2013)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *isnafiffy writes:

I really like my best friends ex and I know she likes me. They broke up 2 months ago but he is nowhere near being over her and to make things worse I live with him. I don't know what I should do

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (13 November 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntif the friendship is less significant to you than a girl you don't really know yet... then go for it.. .but be prepared to lose your best mate forever.

One thought: FRIENDS are much harder to come by than lovers and at your age it's probable that you and this young lady will not last forever.... is losing a friend worth it?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (13 November 2013):

eyeswideopen agony auntWell then lose the friend and go for the girl, I hope she is worth it, because there will be no going back.

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A male reader, lisnafiffy United Kingdom +, writes (13 November 2013):

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He's probably my best mate although I've started to develop feelings for the girl. I value the friendship but it already seems less significant to me than she does

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (12 November 2013):

eyeswideopen agony auntHow much do you value your friendship?

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