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writes:my wife intentionally called me by her ex-husbands name and her ex-fiances name(i caught her texting him later after we were married, she claimed she thought it was his mom)I am having a hard time getting over this. should I dump her?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 November 2013):
 Has she told you she's doing it on purpose or are you assuming she is?
If she has told you she's doing it on purpose have you asked her why?
Are you newly married or is this old stuff?
so because she called you by an ex partners name you are willing to just dump her and end the marriage?
do you love your wife or are you looking for a way out of the marriage.... whether it's long term or a new marriage where you think you made a mistake also will matter to me.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (18 November 2013):
 It sounds like your wife is hung up on the past. Calling you the ex fiancé name, texting the "mum". She is not into this relationship.
Or she is bored and seeking attention outside the marriage. You should have one last open talk with her and if things don't change then you need to have an exit plan.
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (17 November 2013):
She intentionally called you by her ex's name.....why? That sounds hurtful. Ask her if she is happy with you in this marriage.
I think she is causing a lot of hurt and pain in a relationship that she wanted to be in. I think you are too old to be playing games with each other. Have an open and honest conversation and make a decision that is going to make YOU happy.
Good Luck!
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (17 November 2013):
Tell her how hurt you were by it. How could she think it was his mother if his number was in her phone? I find that hard to believe too.
Be honest with her that her actions have upset you and left you worried and feeling insecure. If she is sorry, explains it was a mistake and commits to making your marriage work you might have a chance. If she’s unrepentant she doesn’t think that much of you.
I wish you all the very best.
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