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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hello I need some help in my relationship! We have been together for 3 years and were engaged but things are going down heal. He has two kids with another women, his ex just got out of prison for drug charges and since she got out she has been coming around to see the kids, well his attitude has changed towards me. His boss at work told me that he was my fiancé was borrowing his boss phone to call her at work and bragging saying that she wanted him back. When I ask him about all of this he told me he didn't want her having his new number and he did think shewanted him back. The kiss has even changed their attitued towards me. And another thing he has been wearing brand new clothes to work. instead of his old work clothes. I feel like he's not being faithful with me. Can someone help?
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 May 2014):
Way to step up owl, the poor thing appears to have been waiting for a response for a very long time!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2014): Perhaps you were filling-in until she got out of prison.
If you suspect he and the kids are bailing out on you, don't wait for the bad news. Ask him straight up if he wants to her back; and tell him you're not waiting around to find out by surprise. You don't want to tangle with an ex-con. This all sounds like a bad drama from a soap opera. You don't need it.
Follow your gut feeling.
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