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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Broke up with bf.. but now he's being mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Ok - I broke up with my ex almost 2 weeks ago and have been NC since. I broke it off, because he was distant and not giving me enough attention, and gave me the impression he wanted out of the relationship but wanted me to end it... so I did. He's ...

Should I tell my boyfriend that I have been faking my orgasms?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Hi Okay, I'm going to keep the introduction 'til my problem as short as possible. Please bear with me because I could really use some advice. I had a very rough childhood, bullied a lot and extreme. Then a couple of really bad things happ...

In love with my ex's little brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - I lived with my ex for 3 years, during those years 2 of them his younger brother lived with us... I was very close to his brother we spent way more time together, way more then with my boyfriend... Over the years I fell in love with him, but noth...

Do I tell my boyfriend about this conversation with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - dear cupids, as silly as the issue may seem yet i need a prompt answer becuase any action that needs to be taken have to happen today. 5min ago my x boyfriend who is with me in the university said hi and his hi continued into a brief of his ne...

Its been 18 months since the break up. How long before I get my ex out of my head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - How long til I can finally get my ex out of my head? We were only together two years, during which time we had a relatively up and down relationship, mainly due to circumstances. He was close to his ex which I didn't like, I often put my friends ...

Should I worry that he still sees his ex and thinks of her as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - hey all im 24 and pregnant with my second child, this one is with a man that is 49. we have a great relationship and im proud to have found a man that treats me like a princess. however, we got together the wrong way and i regret that i took him...

He leaves me goes to ex..rinse, repeat. How can I trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - i feel so lost. i was married and very unhappy, i met a guy at work and at first site it was as if i stopped breathing, i instantly loved him! butterflies fireworks everything! it signified the end of my.marriage as i felt if i was in love with my ...

Can one waste so much time thinking about the ex that one could miss out on what could be true love? how can one stop dwelling on the ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Bit of a general question here, but if you are trying to get over an ex, how are you supposed to know when to give up wondering and hoping? What if you decide to give up and then you never rrally find true love because you were meant to be with the...

Am I finally over my ex? Because I don't feel anything or even care about him anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4271 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Does this mean i'm finally over my ex? I've stopped thinking about him as much as I used to, which was a lot! I can think about our memories and him and i don't tear up or feel sad, but just think of how it was a happy point in my life. I don't fi...

My ex claims he loves me so much so where is the RING at?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid,I dated this guy in 2000 we hit it off we acted as husband and wife with children I have from another relationship.everything was going great but things started to change not physical he never put his hands on me but when we get in ...

Is my girlfriend having second thoughts?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (M) - I have only been with this girl for a few weeks. she recently broke up with her boyfriend of two years after they were constantly arguing and she felt that they needed to call it quits. she has been with me since then and then she broke up with me ...

Was he tired, confused, emotional for some reason. or just forgetful when he use the name of his ex, (instead of my name), when he spoke to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - The other day my boyfriend called me by his ex's name. He was making me laugh because I had been previously upset with a family member. All of a sudden while he was telling me a joke he used her name instead of mine. He was with her for three ye...

How can I resolve the fact that I am torn between the man I love and what I think will make me happy in the long run?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - My partner is 30 and I am 20, we love each other and I think he is my soulmate. I just wish I had met him 10 years ago and things would have been different. He has two kids with his ex and they live with her. He visits them in the holidays and...

I'm confused, disappointed and insecure since I found he's been having sexy talks with an ex. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I have been engaged to my fiance since December, but we have been dating for a year. My first husband and I were married for five years and he had a heart attack and passed away a year before I met my current fiance. My fiance had been in a ro...

My abusive ex is still controlling my life today.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - I was dating this guy a month back, we broke up because my so called 'best friend' was a lying cow and took advantage of his paranoia to break us up then tried to get in there herself. But that's another story. The important thing here is that my ...

He wants to be friends yet flirted with me. Where do I stand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

24 February 2013 (?) - I'm a junior in high school and i like this Guy a lot. He is a grade below me but he's only 2 months younger than me. He had a gf but they broke up a few days after he found out that i like him. I didn't actually tell him myself until after they ...

In love with my bf but just found out he's going through divorce, he doesn't know that I know yet..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months, we both have trust issues since our exes cheated on us. We have our little fights here and there but we usually apologize and make up afterward. I have been in a handful of relationships that didn't work ...

For how long am I expected to work at making this work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Hi. I have some relationship probelms, including my bf's financial probelms, having to bail him out, the nagging ex wife and massive fights he has with her and so on. She even sent me thretening messages. We don't live together so althogh I get ...

He broke my hear, yet he won't leave me alone. What are my options in this situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of two years decided a week before christmas break was over and he went back to school that he wanted a break because he feels we are too young to be tied down. He's in his second year of college and I get that he feels that he hasn'...

My b/friend's very ill ex is in the hospital. How do I deal with this sad uncomfortable setting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and his baby mama never got married, just lived together. They broke up (couple months after the child was born) because she liked to party and get drunk, and was jealous of the love my boyfriend had for his son. Nevertheless, she got ...

I think my guy is still hung up on his ex. There are too many rules about sex because of how he did things with her!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - I think my partner is still hung up on his ex. The reasons I think this are: 1) he won't kiss me properly (tongues are a definite no-no) as he says when he used to kiss her she wanted more than just kissing. I have assured him I am not the...

What should I do about this baby Dad Drama, caused by his new GF? I need help.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - My child's father and I have been really going through the drama. His new girlfriend is the cause of it. She does things to influence our arguing I'm honestly tired out of fighting and I'm tired of her causing problems I talked to him about ...

Am I the fall back girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - hello aunts and uncles, please bear with me as this is a long story.. I'm not sure where to begin with this, basically 7 years I ago I started talking to someone via an Internet site, at the time we had both come out of bad relationships bu...

Should I reconsider or consider reconnecting with my ex again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I've been on a constant cycle of emotions this past month and a half, it seemed that every time someone spoke about my ex, or when i talked about him, or of course just thinking about when we were together, all of this always made me feel upset or ...

Do I move on to a great job? Or to a guy I love, but who isn't right for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Hi all! I have a dilemma guys, Basically I have the option of moving down south of my country to a really good job or I have the opportunity to move up north of my country to an ok job but the guy I like lives there. That guy and I dated f...

She was his next Gf after he broke up with me. She and I have been talking. He has been violent with her too. Is it wrong to talk to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Ok, bear with me please, as this will be a long question, but i really need help. I broke up with my boyfriend two years agp. We were together for a year and a half. He was violent and jealous. But i went back to him several times during these tw...

Broke up with boyfriend.. but he joins me on xbox?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4281 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend, of 2.5 years, 3 days ago and have been NC since. He'd started being distant and this was a problem I'd had for months. He said he wanted to be with/loved me but the distance was too much. I assumed he was waiting for me ...

Are my intentions with my ex creepy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I'm 17 and I was in a relationship with a dude for 5 months. It was amazing. I know I'm only 17, but it just clicked and we are basically the same. Other boys scare me, and other girls scare him. We are both awkward. We laugh about sex. We only met...

I know my wife has never cheated on me,so is my curiosity normal behaviour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - We have been together for 26 years. My wife was much more experienced than me, sexually. We got together when we were teens, my best friend had just been in a sexual relationship with her when we met. Since then I have become obessed with the...

I want to call my ex but he says he needs time!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

21 February 2013 (F) - my ex boyfriend has recently split up from me and i am finding it very hard to forget him he is always in my mind, and all i want to do is call or text him. i feel it wasn't the right thing to do but he said it was and wants to remain friends. but ...

Friends are inviting both my and I to events. I don't want him to go if I'm going but he won't respond to my emails

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

21 February 2013 (F) - I met my ex thru a group of friends and when we broke up things ended quite badly because I confronted him of a big lie. The problem is that I have gotten so close with the rest of the group and he hasn't really but a couple of the group members ...

When he tried to break up with me I started crying so hard he started crying to and said he would stay but now he doesn't text or call like he used to.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three months now. Everything was okay before one of his ex girfriends decided that she wanted to "reconnect". From the actions he is showing he doesn't want her back but she has basically pushed him ...

I hurt my ex girlfriend when I finished the relationship. I know she's hurting. How can I help her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

20 February 2013 (M) - I had a 3 month relationship with this girl and we fell in love really quickly. We had some trust issues and I ended up breaking her heart. Since then she has been avoiding and ignoring me. The thing is, she is still emotionally dependent on me ...

My guy changed after he found out about my past. Is this emotional abuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - I met a guy last year and we had nearly been together a year. When I met this guy I was in a bad place in my life and he was the most amazing guy I had ever met. Always texting poems, sending photos, doing everything for me and giving me so much ...

My girlfriend is under pressure from her family and takes it out on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

20 February 2013 (M) - I don't know what to do to keep my relationship going now, let alone a future of marriage. Short story is that we are from two different countries, her parents/family don't agree with her being with a foreigner for the obvious reasons. That I ...

Advice for what to do with a cheater

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

20 February 2013 (M) - Okay, so my first girlfriend, I met through Facebook last summer. After a couple of months, she suddenly stopped texting and calling me. I thought either she was grounded or dumped me. Weekend following Christmas, she calls me up and says that she's ...

Why is my ex's new girlfriend stalking me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - Ok so my child's dad has a new girlfriend I have decided to accept it and move on as long as he takes care of business I just moved to his area staying with my aunt until my place comes through the end of spring and job searching before i move so he ...

My boyfriend hasn't yet said that he loves me. Do I suck it up and accept the relationship for what it is or am I wasting my time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

19 February 2013 (?) - Hi all, I have been with my boyfriend for just over three years now. He has been married before but his wife died of a short term illness. We have a great relationship. He is sweet, kind, generous and am really happy being with him…..except he ...

She left me for her ex and now is afraid to talk to me since things ended with her and her ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

19 February 2013 (M) - i was really into this girl and she too had feelings for me. but one day she decided to get back with her ex. i told her that it was a bad idea but her ex is a manipulative guy. she still went back to her ex leaving me heart broken. after that she ...

Ex boyfriend has 20,000.00 he borrowed from me. Will I get it back?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years broke up with me few days back, he was very abusive during the last 1 yr. Im still under depression and i did all things like begging, sending him mails, calling him to take me back. He didnt repond to anything, i gues...

M I overreacting from my supposed best friend telling everything to my now ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - I lived next door to a woman my age with children the same age as my son. I felt lucky to have moved into a home so close to someone I could relate to and chat with, and our kids could play together. My boyfriend and I were fighting a lot, and I ad...

I met my ex after our break up and found his behavior rather strange. Am I just overthinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4177 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - I broke up with my ex about a year and a half ago, and I hadn't seen him again until last week when we were both staying for the weekend with the same friend. I thought about him for a very long time after our break up and even though I think I'm ...

Why is my ex calling me and hurting me when he doesn't want us to be together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me few days back, he called me today, i thought he is gonna give this relationship another chance took his call, stupid of me. He said as far as he is concerned i dont exist and cut the call. Why does he have t...

Can there be ONLY friendship between men and women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - I have a bf and he is very outgoing, talkative, and humorous... I'm attracted to him because I'm not that out-going, at times shy, so I find him very charming. But what I don't understand is, he seems to have a lot of female friends, and wou...

I want my baby's daddy back but he has a new girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - Me and my Baby Dad still love each other. he has a new girl he is dealing with and thats fine because i know i ran him away in some sense. I'm women enough to admit my faults i keep giving him baby mama drama and i cant seem to stop even when i t...

I ended the affair and now my ex won't leave me alone. He's even contacting my friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4286 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - Hi, everyone. I asked a question before about an affair that ended very badly and painfully (which you can see here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/an-affair-that-i-never-wanted-to-begin.html). Since this happened, the man in question made a ...

I don't want my ex to call me but can't change my number right now. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf who broke up with me few days called me yesterday. He was abusive towards me for the past 6 months. I wanted to attend his call but got scared that if i hear his voice i might crawl back again. Also scared that if i didnt attend h...

What did my ex mean "sorry means nothing to me" ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

18 February 2013 (M) - My best friend said he saw my ex out last night and we didn't end it in the best way to say the least, i feel terrible about how i ended it. Point is, he went and spoke to her and he said apparently she said she didn't want to talk about me. And ...

How do I stop sexting crap with my ex girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

17 February 2013 (M) - Guys, i dont know how to handle this situation. Me and my highschool sweetheart have texting for a while now after a gap of about 4 years. I kind of like another girl now, and i am seriously considering her as my partner. But lately my texting ...

Whats the best way to act when running into an ex that has really hurt you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - I need advice on what is the best way to deal with when running into the guy who hurt you so badly and upset you more than you've ever been? My boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me nearly 2 weeks ago in a club with no compassion, dece...