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writes:My best friend said he saw my ex out last night and we didn't end it in the best way to say the least, i feel terrible about how i ended it. Point is, he went and spoke to her and he said apparently she said she didn't want to talk about me. And then he said to her that i am sorry for what i did and she just said "him being sorry means nothing to me". and then apparently she walked off...But that's the thing, I am really sorry for what I did! I never meant to hurt her intentionally, it just happened and still feel awful... So why would she say that? What does she mean by "him being sorry means nothing to me" ??
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (18 February 2013):
 It means literally what she said ! That you can be as sorry as you want, but that she does not care. Your being sorry does not change what already happened, or the way she feels about it, so that you are sorry, or aren't, makes no difference to her.
Op, yours is a strange question. Being sorry does not automatically grants you forgiveness . It's not like a vending machine, you put " apologies " in and " forgiveness " comes out the other side.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (18 February 2013):
Sounds pretty obvious to me. She doesn't like you, doesn't like what you did and isn't interested in an apology. Case closed.
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