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writes:Dear CupidMy bf who broke up with me few days called me yesterday. He was abusive towards me for the past 6 months. I wanted to attend his call but got scared that if i hear his voice i might crawl back again. Also scared that if i didnt attend his call, he might send me abusive text or voice mails.This break up drama has been happening for the past 1 yr, he breaks up with me and after few days i beg him to take me back or else he'll call me and talk as if nothing happened and again after a month or so the same pattern repeats. He never apologizes for his rude and abusive behaviour towards me. He says i deserve all this abusive since im nagging him always. He says im nagging even if i send 1 or 2 text msgs a day or call him once or twice a day. If i ask him to spend atleast ten mins with me in a day he gets upset and starts yelling at me and calls me names. Sometimes he promises he never yell at me again but never keeps his promise.nWhat should i do now, i cannot change my number, since im looking out for a new job and given this number for few agencies. Please help me.
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reader, lmao1989  +, writes (18 February 2013):
 I changed my number twice i did pay mind you but that is because of the phones i had and service provider.
If he is abusive and rude inform the Police because they can then change the number for free it may result in a case i'm not entirely sure but let them know that he is harassing you and they should be able to do it.
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reader, ihavetoomanythoughts  +, writes (18 February 2013):
 Look up your phone model and how to block a number on google. Usually you can block a particular person by just looking up their contact details on your phone and pressing a button which may say something like "block caller".
Persevere! You are truly one of a kind if you can resist this temptation once and for all :) We're glad you are taking action and we're rooting for you! Don't give up!
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reader, CMMP +, writes (18 February 2013):
Call your cell provider and ask them how to block a phone number. You should also look into Google voice. If you have an android phone you can port your number over and either block him or have a special voice mail message just for him that tells him to go to hell. The nice thing is you can also listen to your vm's and send texts from your computer. You can even save everything on your computer in case you need it for evidence for a restraining order in the future.
Congrats on walking away. Do your best to find a nice guy next time, even if you're inexplicably not attracted to him.
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